Bhagggg Anuj Bhagggg ! DT NOTE Pg3,6 - Page 2

Some telepathy yaar ..my mom was saying yesterday's epi was super and all..this is exactly what I told her y portray women as answerable to everyone.

😣 Sometimes my mom and my thinking is opp

She says this is normal in society and not everyone is rudra kali like u😬😬

But I am disappointed with the makers ..most part of the resort track I was on her side

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

I seriously don't understand how they can portray all this ..

I seperated from my ex husband at 31. I was undergoing intense physical and mental therapy along with my challenging divorse situation. But at no point did I feel life was over. I tried to find my joy in sleeping thru the night, less panic attacks and what not. I eventually started to go out and have fun. Never did I feel I am too old or anything or what people will think

I heard so many judgements about me , but like anu I was never defensive or apologetic of things that gave me happiness

and at 34 ish I got married again .

We are in charge of our happiness and self respect. We have to look at ourselves as person not just as a relationship like sis mother wife types

It's both laughable and pretty sad that CVs expect us to worship Maata ji's mahaanta while there's people like you right here in the audience...

Kudos and more power to you for having the courage to do that though! 👏❤️

I for one already feel like Anuj deserves better than Anu lol, especially due to what I know happened in Sreemoyee...

Still kind of hopeful that Anuj may be the one to finally knock some sense into maata ji, but won't be remotely surprised if he also becomes like her instead as we thought earlier 😆

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Seriously ! I can’t connect with anupama at all ! I have never seen anyone like her in my life who continue to stay with controlling ex-in law family ! Sometimes i feel they are giving absolutely wrong message to the society via this show!

Seeing anupama’s life in the shah house, it’s crystal clear wrong message to the society!

Why they are projecting that women is answerable to anyone and everyone?! This is absolutely wrong thing to show! They should show that women is not at all answerable to every next person about her life or relations.

The problem with Anupama is she herself doesn't realise that she is being controlled by her ex-in laws. She has been conditioned to think that this is the way it is...no matter what, in-laws has to be considered as her own parents. This conditioning is really hard to break. Even though they have become her ex in law's, she still consider them as her comfort zone. She needs to realise that she has limited herself and need to explore more abt her and world.

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Thanks for the support sweetie 💕

No my problem is with peep around me saying she is right this is not the age. Women after a certain age should concentrate on children and Gods work or charity

This is the only serial watched by almost all ladies in my fam .

It gets to me when people are shamed for marrying after 40. I know an widower 55 who married a issueless divorcee 45. So many made fun and told her why at this age and all that. Luckily that uncles son who supported them shut everyone up by saying it's their fam matter and if he and his sis are ok who are they ?

People told me I will be on the shelf since I am ugly woman with brutal opinions. But my situation was not as bad since i was financially independent and most of my relatives are super scared of my savage bro.

But behind my back they have said so many things without realising some of these were the silent majority that supported me by not interfering

All power to you girl!

What people fail to understand with current times is : independent women doesn't need to get married so she can work as maid for some other family and also provide financial support. We are not stupid, women also seek equal respect and love.

For aged people marriages, that is the time when you truly need someone to lean on, Emotionally, physically. When we are younger having someone by our side is something nice to have but for older people that is pretty much necessity.

When people are in their prime age, they forget old age is going to difficult. When walking a small distance will take so much strength.

Hey Tanya anu ne jo kuch likha bilkul sahi likha aur kiya bhi👏😳 par problem is ke Anupama ke age group ke aas paas ki ladies ko bachpan se yehi sikhaya jata hai ke without man you are not safe yaha Toronto mai mai kitni ladies ko janti hu jo abuse seh rahi hai mostly husband se but lots of time family members also 😕 jab bahot jyada ho jata hai to wo mujh se baat karti hai aur mai usee move out ka kehti hu to sab ke sab ka reply ek hi hota hai ke naa baba ham akele nahi jee sakte 😲 aur ye sab well educated hai kehti hai ke ham teri tarah strong nahi hai, kuch unch nich ho gaya to? Wo sab ajj bhi sab kuch sehti hai par akeli rehne se unko darr lagta hai

DT NOTE:

Please refrain from shaming/name-calling for characters/actors.

Names like aunty/mataji when used in a mocking manner is in violation of the IF CoC and appropriate action will be taken from the next time.

- Anupamaa DT

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Some telepathy yaar ..my mom was saying yesterday's epi was super and all..this is exactly what I told her y portray women as answerable to everyone.

😣 Sometimes my mom and my thinking is opp

She says this is normal in society and not everyone is rudra kali like u😬😬

But I am disappointed with the makers ..most part of the resort track I was on her side

My question to makers is in real life , how many middle age women are staying with controlling ex-in laws after divorce? Please share statistics with viewers 😬

How this can be consider as normal for the society?? In place of making progressing society for women what nonsense they are showing? That women is answerable to every next person? That women should lead submissive life with controlling ex-family?!

This lady anupama is definitely misguiding all the women who has no courage to lead independent life ! No women should take this inspiration from anupama because it is damn suicidal attitude 🤢

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

I for one already feel like Anuj deserves better than Anu lol, especially due to what I know happened in Sreemoyee...

Still kind of hopeful that Anuj may be the one to finally knock some sense into maata ji, but won't be remotely surprised if he also becomes like her instead as we thought earlier 😆

I am seeing high possibility about Anuj becomes like her . Pyar insaan ko sher bhi bana sakea hai or gadha bhi bana sakta hai 😆😆

Better Anuj finds life partner from the progressive background. Here anupama is from very orthodox/old fashion/rigid family background. Aisi ladies ko unke pinjre se nikalte nikalte kai bar aisa hota hai ki bichara men bhi uske pinjare mai kaid ho jata hai .

Originally posted by: deepzz

The problem with Anupama is she herself doesn't realise that she is being controlled by her ex-in laws. She has been conditioned to think that this is the way it is...no matter what, in-laws has to be considered as her own parents. This conditioning is really hard to break. Even though they have become her ex in law's, she still consider them as her comfort zone. She needs to realise that she has limited herself and need to explore more abt her and world.

Seems like anupama’s parvarish is done in very conservative/orthodox surrounding by her mother .

Anupama herself is from conservative/orthodox family background may be that’s why she has no idea about how women leads life independently after divorce in real world unlike her who acts like doormat in front of ex in law family on the name of “sanskar” and she is not aware with the fact that “Sanskar “ doesn’t ask anyone to lead answerable and doormat life in front of ex in laws🤢

Neither anupama’s actions/decisions can be called “correct” nor this show is giving any realistic message .

They are misleading all the women who are already suffering just for the sake of TRP