Bhagggg Anuj Bhagggg ! DT NOTE Pg3,6

Aur rahooo shah house mai anupama aunty🤢(she is of my mother’s age so I can legitimately call her aunty) !!!!

Pata he tha yeh log free ki naukrani ko acchi jagah settle hota hua kabhi nahi dekh sakte !!

Itna controlling family hai fir bhi divorce ke baad bhi rehna toh shahs ke sath he hai and apna remote control bhi baa-Bapuji ke hath mai he rehne dena hai

Anupama type ladies bhi sahi mai hoti hai?! I mean divorce ke baad bhi itne controlling sasural mai rehti ho ?!

Anupama ko Baa -Bapuji se uske baccho se bhi zyada pyar hai that’s why ek bar baccho ko chod kar shift hone ke liye toh ready he thi but bapuji ke liye ruk gayi!

Anuj my friend you deserve much better after waiting for so long!! They are very old fashion and orthodox family and will make your life hell with their daily fake sanskar dramas !!

Better anuj join Bharat Matrimony and find daughter/divorcee/widow of some progressive family

I seriously don't understand how they can portray all this ..

I seperated from my ex husband at 31. I was undergoing intense physical and mental therapy along with my challenging divorse situation. But at no point did I feel life was over. I tried to find my joy in sleeping thru the night, less panic attacks and what not. I eventually started to go out and have fun. Never did I feel I am too old or anything or what people will think

I heard so many judgements about me , but like anu I was never defensive or apologetic of things that gave me happiness

and at 34 ish I got married again .

We are in charge of our happiness and self respect. We have to look at ourselves as person not just as a relationship like sis mother wife types

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

I seriously don't understand how they can portray all this ..

I seperated from my ex husband at 31. I was undergoing intense physical and mental therapy along with my challenging divorse situation. But at no point did I feel life was over. I tried to find my joy in sleeping thru the night, less panic attacks and what not. I eventually started to go out and have fun. Never did I feel I am too old or anything or what people will think

I heard so many judgements about me , but like anu I was never defensive or apologetic of things that gave me happiness

and at 34 ish I got married again .

We are in charge of our happiness and self respect. We have to look at ourselves as person not just as a relationship like sis mother wife types

You give me hope dear. Rather than staying in a toxic family or with toxic partner it's better to leave. God knows when will Anupama understand this. Ughhh!!!

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

I seriously don't understand how they can portray all this ..

I seperated from my ex husband at 31. I was undergoing intense physical and mental therapy along with my challenging divorse situation. But at no point did I feel life was over. I tried to find my joy in sleeping thru the night, less panic attacks and what not. I eventually started to go out and have fun. Never did I feel I am too old or anything or what people will think

I heard so many judgements about me , but like anu I was never defensive or apologetic of things that gave me happiness

and at 34 ish I got married again .

We are in charge of our happiness and self respect. We have to look at ourselves as person not just as a relationship like sis mother wife types

@bold : Anjuuu you are extremely brave heart and inspiration to all those women who are not ready to move on in life and not ready for new beginnings.

You did good job by not justifying yourself to anyone and every women should act like this because we are definitely not answerable to every next person around us.

Anupama is from orthodox/regressive background that's why she is acting like she is answerable to every next person about her life and about her relations🤢

No women should follow anupama's footsteps and should not take any inspiration from anupama like living with controlling ex in-laws or making yourself answerable to every next person etc.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

@bold : Anjuuu you are extremely brave heart and inspiration to all those women who are not ready to move on in life and not ready for new beginnings.

You did good job by not justifying yourself to anyone and every women should act like this because we are definitely not answerable to every next person around us.

Anupama is from orthodox/regressive background that's why she is acting like she is answerable to every next person about her life and about her relations🤢

No women should follow anupama's footsteps and should not take any inspiration from anupama like living with controlling ex in-laws or making yourself answerable to every next person etc.

Thanks for the support sweetie 💕

No my problem is with peep around me saying she is right this is not the age. Women after a certain age should concentrate on children and Gods work or charity

This is the only serial watched by almost all ladies in my fam .

It gets to me when people are shamed for marrying after 40. I know an widower 55 who married a issueless divorcee 45. So many made fun and told her why at this age and all that. Luckily that uncles son who supported them shut everyone up by saying it's their fam matter and if he and his sis are ok who are they ?

People told me I will be on the shelf since I am ugly woman with brutal opinions. But my situation was not as bad since i was financially independent and most of my relatives are super scared of my savage bro.

But behind my back they have said so many things without realising some of these were the silent majority that supported me by not interfering

Anupama is really pretty her smile. Anuj had really loved her like crazy in college look ❤️

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Aur rahooo shah house mai anupama aunty🤢(she is of my mother’s age so I can legitimately call her aunty) !!!!

Pata he tha yeh log free ki naukrani ko acchi jagah settle hota hua kabhi nahi dekh sakte !!

Itna controlling family hai fir bhi divorce ke baad bhi rehna toh shahs ke sath he hai and apna remote control bhi baa-Bapuji ke hath mai he rehne dena hai

Anupama type ladies bhi sahi mai hoti hai?! I mean divorce ke baad bhi itne controlling sasural mai rehti ho ?!

Anupama ko Baa -Bapuji se uske baccho se bhi zyada pyar hai that’s why ek bar baccho ko chod kar shift hone ke liye toh ready he thi but bapuji ke liye ruk gayi!

Anuj my friend you deserve much better after waiting for so long!! They are very old fashion and orthodox family and will make your life hell with their daily fake sanskar dramas !!

Better anuj join Bharat Matrimony and find daughter/divorcee/widow of some progressive family

You are right, Anu's own kids come after baa-bapuji. What non-sense is that? To top this, baa has no gratitude for her at all, infact baa thinks she owns Anu. 😲 Anupama is the only one who can stop this. Stop taking trash from everyone. She does not have to be rude or anything, she can her stop this by giving a long lecture. 🤔

All of us on this forum are literally waiting for the day Anupama walks out of the Shah household. 😊

As much as I'm loving Anuj's character in the show and want to see Anupama and Anuj end up together but I don't want him to join this drama family.

None of them ever understand anything!!

All family members come back to the same Anupama bashing/hating/taunting phase where they forget about all the bad deeds and lies of Vanraj and end up against Anupama.

And even Anu, she starts up with trying to stand up for herself, taking her own decisions,thinking about her self respect and loving her own self but again end up not caring about her self respect, her dreams and get bullied by Baa and Vanraj.

I don't want Anuj to go through this chaos and hell knowing that these people never change.

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

@bold - I feel it is an exaggeration. She is overdoing it. While walking out of the reunion party, she is thinking of bapuji's medicine. 😕

You are right, Anu's own kids come after baa-bapuji. What non-sense is that? To top this, baa has no gratitude for her at all, infact baa thinks she owns Anu. 😲 Anupama is the only one who can stop this. Stop taking trash from everyone. She does not have to be rude or anything, she can her stop this by giving a long lecture. 🤔

All of us on this forum are literally waiting for the day Anupama walks out of the Shah household. 😊

Seriously ! I can’t connect with anupama at all ! I have never seen anyone like her in my life who continue to stay with controlling ex-in law family ! Sometimes i feel they are giving absolutely wrong message to the society via this show!

Seeing anupama’s life in the shah house, it’s crystal clear wrong message to the society!

Why they are projecting that women is answerable to anyone and everyone?! This is absolutely wrong thing to show! They should show that women is not at all answerable to every next person about her life or relations.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Seriously ! I can’t connect with anupama at all ! I have never seen anyone like her in my life who continue to stay with controlling ex-in law family ! Sometimes i feel they are giving absolutely wrong message to the society via this show!

Seeing anupama’s life in the shah house, it’s crystal clear wrong message to the society!

Why they are projecting that women is answerable to anyone and everyone?! This is absolutely wrong thing to show! They should show that women is not at all answerable to every next person about her life or relations.

btw, now everyone is happily dancing & enjoying/celebrating Janmastami. Hope they have not forgotten about Rakhi's loan repayment. They will remember it when there is just minutes left to repay the money and then start wandering in the streets! 😲