Virat and Sai's flaws

Nope. Not a fun Post. I'm actually trying to list their flaws. If you can add anything, feel free to do so. But try to do it objectively. Don't let your anger make the list for you.

Virat:

• He is unable to speak out his heart, most of the times (like me, I know the feeling😆)
• He has inherent patriarchal mindset that comes out now and then.
• He has anger issues.
• He tries to act as a saviour for those who don't need/want/deserve it.
• Self-Victimization. (Credit: asmi_joya)
• Doesn't have a sense of boundaries. (Credit: Tapdance)
• Becomes blind in love of those he loves. (Credit: Akash3Rai)
• His non-confrontational nature. (Credit: Shaone)

Sai:

• She never admits or apologises for her mistakes, at least to Virat.
• Her method of giving it back to others is admirable. But sometimes it crosses the boundary of decency and her words and tone are humiliating.
• She is stubborn and brash. (Credit: asmi_joya)
• Doesn't have a sense of who cares for her and who doesn't. Goes out of the way for those who don't deserve it.(Credit: Tapdance)

I could think of these. You can add to the list.

Virat has a habit of self victimization..

Sai is very stubborn and I think very brash.

I disagree , that she does not let go past. Had it been the case she would keep bringing, Virat throwing her out of the house, or Virat doubting her. She infact agreed to not talk even as a joke when Virat said he does not want to talk about him ousting her after coming from the hospital. She only does not let go the past which was established in stringent terms and has not been revoked..

Hmm. I agree actually. I had forgotten about it. Thanks.

Nice points!

Asmi's point about the past too makes sense.

Virat: Needs the ability to draw better boundaries to reduce the misunderstandings around him. Also, that his good intentions are not absolute realities.

Sai: Needs to realise who genuinely cares for her and to stop going out of the way for people who mean her no good even at face value. Needs to put herself first over and over, again and again till her relationship with Virat is not definitive with clarity.

Virat fault- like Neil himself told in any of his interview is that virat as a character is blind towards the love or faith wither in case of family or sometimes sai , that's why easily get manipulated.

Sai : all along I felt she has to grow up.. She is as normal as any 19 years old lady.. Childish, Naive and confused .often she choses the most chaotic ways resolving things, some times it is endearing as well as irritating.. Though I don't agree that she stubborn or brash..She loves to speak her minds and she hides immense affection for all especially for Virat behind her brashness.....She isn't stubborn at all rather she is very easy going...

Virat : He often doesn't know where to set the boundary..He gets carried away with emotions that's his biggest flaw...Lack of confidence and his non-confrontational nature.. Sometimes extremely self absorbed..

Originally posted by: Shaome

Sai : all along I felt she has to grow up.. She is as normal as any 19 years old lady.. Childish, Naive and confused .often she choses the most chaotic ways resolving things, some times it is endearing as well as irritating.. Though I don't agree that she stubborn or brash..She loves to speak her minds and she hides immense affection for all especially for Virat behind her brashness.....She isn't stubborn at all rather she is very easy going...

Virat : He often doesn't know where to set the boundary..He gets carried away with emotions that's his biggest flaw...Lack of confidence and his non-confrontational nature.. Sometimes extremely self absorbed..

I also agree about Virat's non-confrontational nature. I'll be adding that to the list.

Bold: that's Asmi's point. I just incorporated😆I'm adding everyone's points whether I agree or not.

Originally posted by: Shaome

Sai : all along I felt she has to grow up.. She is as normal as any 19 years old lady.. Childish, Naive and confused .often she choses the most chaotic ways resolving things, some times it is endearing as well as irritating.. Though I don't agree that she stubborn or brash..She loves to speak her minds and she hides immense affection for all especially for Virat behind her brashness.....She isn't stubborn at all rather she is very easy going...

Virat : He often doesn't know where to set the boundary..He gets carried away with emotions that's his biggest flaw...Lack of confidence and his non-confrontational nature.. Sometimes extremely self absorbed..

Actually yeah I attribute, most of the things to her age.. and also her situations.. which would eventually be fine with age.. Happens at this age.. and with this kind of environment around ...

Sai : Washing dirty linen in public attitude . I don’t think I need to elaborate further on this

Doesnt shy away from character assassinate when angry . I would categorize it as verbal abuse

Virat : Already listed by others

Doesn’t know how to take a stand for himself and let’s people to walk over him

After today's episode please add manipulator for Virat 🤣