Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #85|Farq Nahi Padta - Page 42

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

Lol tbh I dont think so! Because in the haveli scene, he had to wake Dhara up in the middle of the night to cook him some maggi. If he cooked his entire life for the kids, I am sure maggi toh bana hi sakta hai😆

i think that was just to spend quality time 😆 because in initial episodes he was the one who use to do all the cooking cleaning

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

You are right in saying so.

Nobody becomes a naukrani or nauker by working in their own house or store.

Cooking, cleaning are basic Life skills that everyone should learn.

What upsets me is the general attitude towards daughter in laws in the pandya Family.whether it's dhara, rishita or raavi.

the show had so much love and positivity, it was different than other shows.there was no toxicity.the love and respect between the family was visible.sadly I can't see that anymore.

i agree i never liked suman s behavior towards her dils i dont think we will ever get any repentance on suman s part because i guess life is not so straight it complicated and entangled people like suman exist sadly

pandya store initially was lovely peaceful show nowdays the level of toxicity is just increasing with every passing day

Originally posted by: Krishnapanchali

no i never said that all i am sayong is that it is ok for raavi to help dhara didi not accept shiva back raavi should not take shiva back if she does not wants to

all i am saying that to help someone who you consider sister didi does not makes you naukrani

raavi helping dhara does not undermines in her anyway it actually shows she is gentle hearted soul but even if she refuses to help that is fine too because raavi did not left the house on good terms so its quite ok it should be her decision

all i am saying calling her naukrani is not right

Actually it's not becz she has to do housework to help dhara that makes us call her naukrani ... its becz she is considered only when they need her for housework..and not as a family member giving respect and treated with dignity..her things were roughly stuffed in Boris and given back the moment she signed the papers. And she was not told anything abt baby either..in all sense they r or atleast suman and shiva is treating her like an outsider and insulting her..dhara calls her sis..but won't inform abt baby..she made a thamasha of herself thinking they were celebrating her leaving. Still they hide it frm her....so ignoring all that and going to help people who considers her as their own only when they need labour work which they should be able to manage themselves atleast with the help of a maid..

Originally posted by: deeps07

Actually it's not becz she has to do housework to help dhara that makes us call her naukrani ... its becz she is considered only when they need her for housework..and not as a family member giving respect and treated with dignity..her things were roughly stuffed in Boris and given back the moment she signed the papers. And she was not told anything abt baby either..in all sense they r or atleast suman and shiva is treating her like an outsider and insulting her..dhara calls her sis..but won't inform abt baby..she made a thamasha of herself thinking they were celebrating her leaving. Still they hide it frm her....so ignoring all that and going to help people who considers her as their own only when they need labour work which they should be able to manage themselves atleast with the help of a maid..

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That's exactly the point I was trying to make. It's wrong to treat the dil as a full time.maid plus a baby making machine, and rip off all dignity and respect off her when convenient. If doing chores make a woman a maid then I am also one😆 coz I love to cook for.my children and I do full time cleaning also..this is when I have help from maids and servants.

As soon as suman knew raavi slapped her son, she was asked to get out , her belongings were packed in gunny bags😡 N today when rishita called Shiva childish and immature, she jumped to his defense ke rishita mein bhi akal.nahi hai. Her love for dhara and all dils is conditional..as long as they serve their husbands well and make babies suman will take a stand for them🤢 the moment they complain, ya kisi se galati ho jaaye ,they will be given marching orders..like dhara ,raavi and she threatened rishita also ..

Originally posted by: deeps07

Actually it's not becz she has to do housework to help dhara that makes us call her naukrani ... its becz she is considered only when they need her for housework..and not as a family member giving respect and treated with dignity..her things were roughly stuffed in Boris and given back the moment she signed the papers. And she was not told anything abt baby either..in all sense they r or atleast suman and shiva is treating her like an outsider and insulting her..dhara calls her sis..but won't inform abt baby..she made a thamasha of herself thinking they were celebrating her leaving. Still they hide it frm her....so ignoring all that and going to help people who considers her as their own only when they need labour work which they should be able to manage themselves atleast with the help of a maid..

about the baby then we will have to wait see who informs most probably it will one of the pandyas

about suman and shiva then they are gone case i would like to see how they redeem themselves

i kinda get shiva s insecurities all of have had this feeling of being not good enough at some point but his behavior with raavi has been downright pathetic since day 1 probably that s why i was never fan of shivi

Originally posted by: Krishnapanchali

about the baby then we will have to wait see who informs most probably it will one of the pandyas

about suman and shiva then they are gone case i would like to see how they redeem themselves

i kinda get shiva s insecurities all of have had this feeling of being not good enough at some point but his behavior with raavi has been downright pathetic since day 1 probably that s why i was never fan of shivi

I dnt think shivas behaviour as pathetic . .as he atleast got a reason behind for his behaviour.. (I am conveniently forgetting today's football game😆) and he is suffering no less either..so I do have the same sympathy for him as muchnas raavi..but suman is another subject..I expected her to be sassy but just...but she disappointed me very much .

Originally posted by: deeps07

I dnt think shivas behaviour as pathetic . .as he atleast got a reason behind for his behaviour.. and he is suffering no less either..so I do have the same sympathy for him as muchnas raavi..but suman is another subject..I expected her to be sassy but just...but she disappointed me very much .

no shiva did not had any reason to mistreat raavi since childhood to manhandle her he did just because she was related to prafulla no reason is good enough to manhandle someone remember his behavior did not start now this has been going on since childhood and its problematic

Originally posted by: _charu_

That's before his marriage when suman was paralyzed. Dhara and other neighbours helped him ...... If suman let any of her sons work in the kitchen NOW and let her dils study and go for job, baat toh phir hogi koi.

are sons work kare na kare.....dils job study kare and keep house help....waise bhi they were thinking of extending the shop chains....

job karegi to income badh jayegi.....rakh lena...

but I loved when raavi said she would do masters and rishita has already done MBA to karo kaam shuru.....kuch progressive hona chahiye

out of all the three dils the only one who actively works is dhara only she ahs been shown to put her education to proper use remember gaura have been working to make pandya store what it is toady since 10 years

Lol..The entire Kaandya family is famous for hiding things from Suman.. especially Dhara who is always ready to hide details from Maha Saas..now suddenly they all became so obedient that they din feel the need to inform Raavi about the pregnancy..the same girl who almost gave up her jewels for building their new room..and Dhara says Raavi is her younger sister..ya right