For me its like atleast give it a try to talk phir koi baat na kare toh bhaad mein jao i dont care but baat kare toh takes me sometime but i start liking to talk with that person.
Try karna bhi hoga toh mere dimag me first question aata hai aakhir baat karu toh kya karu nd shuru kaha se karu
Bas issi wajah se mai jada sab se ghul mil nhi paata nd then sab mujhe egoistic rude samjhte hai 🤷🤷

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