Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #83|ShiVi ka Divorce (Red Alert) - Page 79

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

But that should not be the reason for any girl to go for him. I know we had this discussion- and yes we do look out for well settled guys. I don't know, I feel any change you do for yoursef should be for your sake 🙈 Even if you become successfully richer/thinner/prettier for someone's else- as in to become capable for them, the insecurity would remain. By his logic, Raavi would always want to marry someone richer or well educated than him.

When you better yourself because you want it- for your own sake, there is something cery empowering and liberating about it. Then it doesnot matter who comes and goes in your life, who believes in you or not- you have a sense of pride in you achievement 🤷‍♀️

Sorry I am nitpicking in a ITV show 🤣 I am going to stop

you make me wanna write a story on it 🥺

but I already have one going on & idk what I'm even doing there 🤦‍♀️

or if I'm even doing a good enough job at it 😭

at this point, I'm just grateful that y'all like what's cooking in my head 🤡

Originally posted by: _charu_

In this case, we expect raavi to be like dhara which is impossible. Lets not forget she does NOT love Shiva enuf to love him unconditionaly....She is her own person with her set of flaws... But her weakness has nothing to do with shivas insecurity. I normally defend 2 types of people fiercely. One who I.love deeply . (Like dhara loves shiva), in that case , I dun see the right and wrong...and other types , who my gut feeling says is right. ...when I know certain someone is wrong, even then I don't take.sides or pick up fights , I usually keep quiet ..I am a non confrontational person...

Koi bhi raah chalta koi comment karta hai, those who don't know Shiva, why should raavi go and fight with them ?. . .she chose to ignore them and walk away..that's her only fault , which isn't a fault in my opinion....if dhara was in her place , at that moment , what will she do?..She realized they are talking crap but she didn't wanna pick up a fight when the family is all in bam bam bhole mode , Mannat poori karne ko. ..n that's why she was mad on Shiva for beating them up. It was a public place and she had a problem with his overreaction. If someone wants to confront there is way...not start beating them up......if mohalle wale taunt dhara abt not having babies , will she take her belan Nd do their dhulai? We hate dhara for danda kaand and today gombi for violence, they r not different from.shiva , Shiva did the same thing. Then whycall them out and not him? A Person is frustrated and angry for any reason and they start lashing out and resort to violence? No that's not done.

But thats where this whole thing becomes highlighted doesn’t it?

None of the people who commented were raah chalte ppl. They were a part of her world. Her friends, her diary, her maasi. If the world said this he would probably walk away too. But these r the people who know her deeply.

And I don’t think she is right in keeping silent when a part of her world is calling him stuff.

Rishita belonged to Shiva s side when she just uttered aye ladki. And despite having probs with Raavi he came to her defense. She couldn’t do it for him.

Hmm. Anyways. U have ua POV and I have mine. My views on marriage are different than yours🖤

Defending him to her friends when they utter such words for him wouldn’t have been something a mahaan FL did. It would just be humane. That wasn’t even dependent on his behavior towards her. She would have done it for anybody. But him... She kept silent. For me that was something that detached me from her character.

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

I agree 💯! And am of the same opinion as you. For me, I don't think Shiva should change for her, but rather because he wants to.

I just meant to say that if the makers decide to go to that route (much to my dislike), I hope they don't show the other extreme. Instead, show him still as a middle class man.

Ohhh god I know what you mean. They might make him multimillionaire in a span of 2-3 years 🤪 They will however not mention how he did that- nor will they show him working. They will have random office romance with random vamps 🤢

Multimillionaire businesses spring up and eun themselves 🤣

Ohh god please let there not be any such tracks. I might just implode

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

Shiny is a decent actress and the episode was a sad one but what the hell was she doing in the hospital 😂

And this is the 2nd time she has fainted because of shiva and Raavi , does she have some underlying issue

Okay, I'm glad you said this... I was sitting there really confused as to why Shiny chose that particular acting style for the scene. She didn't seem like she fainted out of grief (would've imagined her to whisper bits of pieces as a voice over happened which explained her thoughts)... it seemed more like she was parched for water because she cried out all the tears/water she had in her body 😕

Originally posted by: sunsaathiyaa

you make me wanna write a story on it 🥺

but I already have one going on & idk what I'm even doing there 🤦‍♀️

or if I'm even doing a good enough job at it 😭

at this point, I'm just grateful that y'all like what's cooking in my head 🤡

Write write 🤣

I would if I could 🤷‍♀️😐

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Ohhh god I know what you mean. They might make him multimillionaire in a span of 2-3 years 🤪 They will however not mention how he did that- nor will they show him working. They will have random office romance with random vamps 🤢

Multimillionaire businesses spring up and eun themselves 🤣

Ohh god please let there not be any such tracks. I might just implode

@bold, Please no 🤢 I like Shiva to be the nice, unpredictable boy next door. If they really want him to become a CEO, GauRa should consider expanding their store, and Shiva can be the manager of the store, dressed exactly how he is right now since he doesn't distinguish between manager/worker, and Raavi can be his assistant manager, so she wouldn't be forced to stay at home. They could romance in the store, so I can see store drama...

Originally posted by: manny136

I think what happened with Dev was probably the first major trauma or shock raavi ever had in life and she didn't handle it well hence the suicide attempt. But she has gotten stronger well anyone would living with the pandyas lol but she is still hurting with her breakup with shiva and she can compare her hurt from her Dev fiasco hence her feeling more hurt just shows she does have feelings she hasn't been able to recognize for shiva.

hate how we have to try to read between lines (things that makers probably dont even think about tbh) for our own sanity lol

Originally posted by: srix

hate how we have to try to read between lines (things that makers probably dont even think about tbh) for our own sanity lol

I know 🤣 I wish writers put atleast half the time and effort we put to break our heads on this story and it's characters 😆

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

@bold, Please no 🤢 I like Shiva to be the nice, unpredictable boy next door. If they really want him to become a CEO, GauRa should consider expanding their store, and Shiva can be the manager of the store, dressed exactly how he is right now since he doesn't distinguish between manager/worker, and Raavi can be his assistant manager, so she wouldn't be forced to stay at home. They could romance in the store, so I can see store drama...

Huhnnnn.... Store... I am getting very vague recollections

Yes yes... once upon a time, long long ago- no one knows how long ago, there used to be a store in this show, with a Kaka in it.

I remember vaguely... but it was definitely there... pichle janam ka koi scene hoga 🤔

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Ohhh god I know what you mean. They might make him multimillionaire in a span of 2-3 years 🤪 They will however not mention how he did that- nor will they show him working. They will have random office romance with random vamps 🤢

Multimillionaire businesses spring up and eun themselves 🤣

Ohh god please let there not be any such tracks. I might just implode

Me too😂😂 and then someone will be after property and they'll be back on roads.

P S I want to know the secret of becoming multimillionaire overnight.😂😂

Do you think Shiva will learn finance basics through YT overnight and invest in meme stock or bitcoins?!😂😂 And there will be pandemic and about 9 months in he'll be *multimillionaire*?!