Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #83|ShiVi ka Divorce (Red Alert) - Page 76

Originally posted by: mpks1

I want to put this out to the makers as they are spying on us.

I do not want to see any baby/foetus killing in this show, period. If it is for medical reasons, it is ok. But bringing Anita into the track and playing the dirty game to further make Dhara miserable by killing the baby is a big no-no.

I felt so bad during IPKKND days when Di's baby was killed by her own husband by electrocuting and tripping her off the stairs. It affected me for several days.

@bold i second that........

i know.........shyam was pathetic..........and anjali losing baby was 💔🥺

Originally posted by: manny136

Raavis pain over the divorce and Dev leaving her at the altar are different too because what happened with Dev was so sudden and next thing before she could process her shock the suicide and hurt and then the shiva proposal. But with shiva it's been this gradual hurt and today the divorce put the final nail in the coffin. Raavi says he has hurt her heart so many times I'm assuming over the time that she migh not recover. Devs hurt was one big blow and she was with time able to realize they weren't meant to be. With shiva she doesn't understand her feelings and as she says feels he never accepted her.

But if you consider pain in moment of time, taking her dialogue at a face value, this divorce hurt her lot more. Previous fights on one side vs this break up on another. Like Shiva, he's been hurting, but we still his breakdown from time to time. Both of their scenes didn't have the same impact for me. And I know Alice is great at heart break scene as we've seen in the past. It was the matter of how it was written and directed..

But maybe you're right. I guess she had her breakdown with somewhat misplaced blame of her actions during the rain walk home and has time to process it.

Tbh, I felt Raavi’s pain during the wedding track. My heart broke for her and Alice was brilliant in those scenes. I literally teared up when she broke down 💔

Today, I felt bad the first few seconds and then I couldn’t feel it anymore. The scene wasn’t as well shot nor was Alice as good as she was in the past. Not to mention how much of a disconnect they have created between the audience and Raavi.

Even when she was a bit OTT, we still felt for her. Her pain, her heartbreak and the helpless was so well displayed on screen! I was literally scared to watch the episodes leading up to her heartbreak. But today was supposed to be the peak heartbreak for ShiVi but it was nowhere close to that scene. Till date, my favorite scene of Shiva is the one where he is looking at the present meant for Dev. My heart broke for him there 💔

Today, his scene was slightly better than Raavi’s but given his recent behavior, I couldn’t find much sympathy for him either. I think after a long time, I didn’t enjoy an episode today and I’m certainly not looking forward to Raavi’s comeback as Dhara’s sis 😆

I was so happy when she signed. Good riddance! 😆

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

The Pandyas' physical abuse continues.. today Gautam joined the bandwagon by hitting Shiva mercilessly 🤢🤪

Nobody hate on me... Because I also don't approve of hitting.. At all... But I've always wondered in PS especially if the only reason they're getting physically violent with Shiva is because

a) they know he's going to take it since they're older than him and he loves and respects them too much

But also

b) They hold Shiva on a higher level of responsibility.. As us Asians usually do the eldest child (despite him not being that) expecting him to fulfil their wishes without him putting forth his opinion (which he generally won't voice if its not affecting him generally)

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Sam here, and it is not only with kids- it is the same with parents and friends. If something is bugging my mom or husband, especially to the point where they keep repeating the same words- I know it is time to force them down to a talk.

Of the course the person will first deny or evade. But you keep at it 🤔 And you particularly not do what Pandya family does. You do not give a blanket statement "oh but you are good in my eyes." or "oh I know you afe awesome" You can say these things but as additions or garnishings 😆 Not as the main argument.

Every conversation, whether it be Gautam Dhara speaking to Shiva or Dev's kancha gyaan- is centred around what they think and feel. No one stoppef to ask what Shiva actually felt. It was almost like his thoughts are inconsequential Daswi pas hai, kitna deep soch lega 🤔

And I am really racking my brains, but I still cannot see what Raavi did to ease the situation 🤷‍♀️ And for all the folks who think only Shiva was behaving badly with her, I implore you to go watch the post wedding episodes. She was equally terrible to him.

And unpopular opinion- I felt Raavi was actually annoying pre marriage 🤷‍♀️ I seriously did not get why Dhara found her so cute. She was no bechaari being beaten up by Shiva.

So in my books, Raavi was wronged by GauRa and Dev, not Shiva. Of course Shiva after Gopi Vahu mode activation is annoying AF... but that does not absolve Raavi for me

Agree with everything you said.

As for you racking your brains, Raavi did not do much to alleviate his pain and insecurity. All she wanted was adjustments and compromise and keep the marriage going even without any love. Gautam clearly spelled it out for us, that Raavi's dream. ambition is to be a Pandya parivar bahu first. So to fulfill the dream she would have continued living like this all her life but Shiva put a break on her plans.

As for family members talking to Shiva, lost that hope long time ago. They are all simply useless.

I have told this several times that both have been wronged by GauRa, Dev and Mama (in Raavi's case). Dev gets saved by his wife or Dhara all the time for his poor behavior😕

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Seriously 😒

Oh ya normal people are losers. Why should a girl for anything less than a business tycoon 🙄

(Generic sass, not directed at you. xoxo 🤗)

I got you! Oh I hope he's not business tycoon. I hope he's somewhere in the middle. Decent job like a middle class man, etc. (If it goes that route).

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Sam here, and it is not only with kids- it is the same with parents and friends. If something is bugging my mom or husband, especially to the point where they keep repeating the same words- I know it is time to force them down to a talk.

Of the course the person will first deny or evade. But you keep at it 🤔 And you particularly not do what Pandya family does. You do not give a blanket statement "oh but you are good in my eyes." or "oh I know you afe awesome" You can say these things but as additions or garnishings 😆 Not as the main argument.

Every conversation, whether it be Gautam Dhara speaking to Shiva or Dev's kancha gyaan- is centred around what they think and feel. No one stoppef to ask what Shiva actually felt. It was almost like his thoughts are inconsequential Daswi pas hai, kitna deep soch lega 🤔

And I am really racking my brains, but I still cannot see what Raavi did to ease the situation 🤷‍♀️ And for all the folks who think only Shiva was behaving badly with her, I implore you to go watch the post wedding episodes. She was equally terrible to him.

And unpopular opinion- I felt Raavi was actually annoying pre marriage 🤷‍♀️ I seriously did not get why Dhara found her so cute. She was no bechaari being beaten up by Shiva.

So in my books, Raavi was wronged by GauRa and Dev, not Shiva. Of course Shiva after Gopi Vahu mode activation is annoying AF... but that does not absolve Raavi for me

🤗

post wedding she was pathetic as if shiva left her at the alter or he asked everyone to get her married to him and only her life is spoiled .....

Originally posted by: Raingoddess

Tbh, I felt Raavi’s pain during the wedding track. My heart broke for her and Alice was brilliant in those scenes. I literally teared up when she broke down 💔

Today, I felt bad the first few seconds and then I couldn’t feel it anymore. The scene wasn’t as well shot nor was Alice as good as she was in the past. Not to mention how much of a disconnect they have created between the audience and Raavi.

Even when she was a bit OTT, we still felt for her. Her pain, her heartbreak and the helpless was so well displayed on screen! I was literally scared to watch the episodes leading up to her heartbreak. But today was supposed to be the peak heartbreak for ShiVi but it was nowhere close to that scene. Till date, my favorite scene of Shiva is the one where he is looking at the present meant for Dev. My heart broke for him there 💔

Today, his scene was slightly better than Raavi’s but given his recent behavior, I couldn’t find much sympathy for him either. I think after a long time, I didn’t enjoy an episode today and I’m certainly not looking forward to Raavi’s comeback as Dhara’s sis 😆

I was so happy when she signed. Good riddance! 😆

Raavi's pain was visible but the scene included mami and oily and it was semi ridiculous and comedic so the impact was lost her little alone part was fine while shiva got his tree scene which is his trademark lol

Originally posted by: Raingoddess

Tbh, I felt Raavi’s pain during the wedding track. My heart broke for her and Alice was brilliant in those scenes. I literally teared up when she broke down 💔

Today, I felt bad the first few seconds and then I couldn’t feel it anymore. The scene wasn’t as well shot nor was Alice as good as she was in the past. Not to mention how much of a disconnect they have created between the audience and Raavi.

Even when she was a bit OTT, we still felt for her. Her pain, her heartbreak and the helpless was so well displayed on screen! I was literally scared to watch the episodes leading up to her heartbreak. But today was supposed to be the peak heartbreak for ShiVi but it was nowhere close to that scene. Till date, my favorite scene of Shiva is the one where he is looking at the present meant for Dev. My heart broke for him there 💔

Today, his scene was slightly better than Raavi’s but given his recent behavior, I couldn’t find much sympathy for him either. I think after a long time, I didn’t enjoy an episode today and I’m certainly not looking forward to Raavi’s comeback as Dhara’s sis 😆

I was so happy when she signed. Good riddance! 😆

Esha, you've again come and said exactly what I was trying to same.

Agree with you💯

Same same feelings!

Ok so shiva knows the divorce process is long and difficult lol he dropped the papers but before leaving picked them up and then took them to the tree lol will he be able to get them to the lawyer before he finds out about Dhara lol if he doesn't then there is a chance he might be delay the process lol