Originally posted by: mpks1
And they all call themselves educatedđ
I am not saying this to prove I am right but with every facial expression on my kids face I will be able to tell if they are happy or sad or worrying about something or thinking a lot,without both of them telling me anything about it. Nothing escapes my attention. They both have told several times to my husband that it is difficult to hide anything from MomđIf you want to be a good parent you have to learn to be observant and vigilant with your kids.
In that sense I would say Mami is much better than Dhara or Suman in recognizing her daughter's pain, whether she does anything about it or not is a different question.
Here Dhara always thinks everything is hunky dory even when the problem is explicitly told to herđ
Sam here, and it is not only with kids- it is the same with parents and friends. If something is bugging my mom or husband, especially to the point where they keep repeating the same words- I know it is time to force them down to a talk.
Of the course the person will first deny or evade. But you keep at it đ¤ And you particularly not do what Pandya family does. You do not give a blanket statement "oh but you are good in my eyes." or "oh I know you afe awesome" You can say these things but as additions or garnishings đ Not as the main argument.
Every conversation, whether it be Gautam Dhara speaking to Shiva or Dev's kancha gyaan- is centred around what they think and feel. No one stoppef to ask what Shiva actually felt. It was almost like his thoughts are inconsequential Daswi pas hai, kitna deep soch lega đ¤
And I am really racking my brains, but I still cannot see what Raavi did to ease the situation đ¤ˇââď¸ And for all the folks who think only Shiva was behaving badly with her, I implore you to go watch the post wedding episodes. She was equally terrible to him.
And unpopular opinion- I felt Raavi was actually annoying pre marriage đ¤ˇââď¸ I seriously did not get why Dhara found her so cute. She was no bechaari being beaten up by Shiva.
So in my books, Raavi was wronged by GauRa and Dev, not Shiva. Of course Shiva after Gopi Vahu mode activation is annoying AF... but that does not absolve Raavi for me