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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes


She's never really realized and we've never known even through monologues that she has fallen in love with Shiva.


If you see her during wedding time the way she breaks off her jewlery and is just crying inconsolably, you can relate that because she was in love. Here, if she showed that kind of reaction, you'd wonder why is she feeling it that way without bher ever having acknowledgement or even her actions showing that she loves him.

U know she will wake up in love suddenly in an episode

Right??

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: mpks1

She will kill the baby, is that you want?😕 As much Dhara irritates the heck out of me, I don't want Anita anywhere near Dhara.

definitely........if oily wanted to kill her before her pregnancy .........i would have supported🤣 jokes apart........

same feeling........oily cant be there in the house with dhara........she is too dangerous

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes


She's never really realized and we've never known even through monologues that she has fallen in love with Shiva.


If you see her during wedding time the way she breaks off her jewlery and is just crying inconsolably, you can relate that because she was in love. Here, if she showed that kind of reaction, you'd wonder why is she feeling it that way without bher ever having acknowledgement or even her actions showing that she loves him.

I think this is because she is yet to realise her feelings. She does not know why this divorce with Shiva is more painful for her than Dev leaving her. Wo dialogue humare samaz ne liye tha.. Raavi ka samajna baaki hain abhi

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes


She's never really realized and we've never known even through monologues that she has fallen in love with Shiva.


If you see her during wedding time the way she breaks off her jewlery and is just crying inconsolably, you can relate that because she was in love. Here, if she showed that kind of reaction, you'd wonder why is she feeling it that way without bher ever having acknowledgement or even her actions showing that she loves him.

Instead she pooh-poohed her pain that she experienced when her marriage broke with Dev. So looks like all that breaking of jewelry and crying inconsolably was all drama for nothing.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

definitely........if oily wanted to kill her before her pregnancy .........i would have supported🤣 jokes apart........

same feeling........oily cant be there in the house with dhara........she is too dangerous

It's going to be traumatic just seeing ravi being the maid/sister help for dhara..can't suffer oily too now..

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Posted: 3 years ago

Raavis pain over the divorce and Dev leaving her at the altar are different too because what happened with Dev was so sudden and next thing before she could process her shock the suicide and hurt and then the shiva proposal. But with shiva it's been this gradual hurt and today the divorce put the final nail in the coffin. Raavi says he has hurt her heart so many times I'm assuming over the time that she migh not recover. Devs hurt was one big blow and she was with time able to realize they weren't meant to be. With shiva she doesn't understand her feelings and as she says feels he never accepted her.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: mpks1

And they all call themselves educated😕

I am not saying this to prove I am right but with every facial expression on my kids face I will be able to tell if they are happy or sad or worrying about something or thinking a lot,without both of them telling me anything about it. Nothing escapes my attention. They both have told several times to my husband that it is difficult to hide anything from Mom😆If you want to be a good parent you have to learn to be observant and vigilant with your kids.
In that sense I would say Mami is much better than Dhara or Suman in recognizing her daughter's pain, whether she does anything about it or not is a different question.

Here Dhara always thinks everything is hunky dory even when the problem is explicitly told to her😕

Sam here, and it is not only with kids- it is the same with parents and friends. If something is bugging my mom or husband, especially to the point where they keep repeating the same words- I know it is time to force them down to a talk.


Of the course the person will first deny or evade. But you keep at it 🤔 And you particularly not do what Pandya family does. You do not give a blanket statement "oh but you are good in my eyes." or "oh I know you afe awesome" You can say these things but as additions or garnishings 😆 Not as the main argument.


Every conversation, whether it be Gautam Dhara speaking to Shiva or Dev's kancha gyaan- is centred around what they think and feel. No one stoppef to ask what Shiva actually felt. It was almost like his thoughts are inconsequential Daswi pas hai, kitna deep soch lega 🤔


And I am really racking my brains, but I still cannot see what Raavi did to ease the situation 🤷‍♀️ And for all the folks who think only Shiva was behaving badly with her, I implore you to go watch the post wedding episodes. She was equally terrible to him.


And unpopular opinion- I felt Raavi was actually annoying pre marriage 🤷‍♀️ I seriously did not get why Dhara found her so cute. She was no bechaari being beaten up by Shiva.


So in my books, Raavi was wronged by GauRa and Dev, not Shiva. Of course Shiva after Gopi Vahu mode activation is annoying AF... but that does not absolve Raavi for me

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Posted: 3 years ago

I want to put this out to the makers as they are spying on us.

I do not want to see any baby/foetus killing in this show, period. If it is for medical reasons, it is ok. But bringing Anita into the track and playing the dirty game to further make Dhara miserable by killing the baby is a big no-no.

I felt so bad during IPKKND days when Di's baby was killed by her own husband by electrocuting and tripping her off the stairs. It affected me for several days.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: deeps07

It's going to be traumatic just seeing ravi being the maid/sister help for dhara..can't suffer oily too now..

i dont want her in the house........not for anyone.......she has stick to her decision......no coming and no help........


oily is disgustingly creepy.......maagin atleast cares for raavi.......oily doesnt

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes


Yeah. It makes me think that gossip article may be true. Him moving out of Somnath die to family + Raavi's words of being better. And he'll be like I will only return once I am worthy of Raavi (after he realizes that living without Raavi is too painful).

Seriously 😒


Oh ya normal people are losers. Why should a girl for anything less than a business tycoon 🙄


(Generic sass, not directed at you. xoxo 🤗)

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