The heart of a woman divided!

I have been caustic in my reactions about Simar all the while. In retrospect, maybe i am trying to rehash an old topic of debate; that of the woman's heart in turmoil, often tossed between both her homes. This is the same shy girl of yesterday, the apple of her father's eye, unassuming and undemanding, who is thrown into a new relationship with its demands and responsibilities.

In a matter of two weeks Simar experiences attraction, furtive attempts at courtship, marriage and the loss of the pillar in her hitherto peaceful and contented life. Insecure in her personality, physical attributes and qualifications, all of a sudden she becomes the cynosure of all eyes, drawn into a relationship with a man who she feels outmatches her in every respect. Isn't this a problem that is the true life experience of many a girl from traditional families in Asia?

Torn between her duty towards her clueless and unprotected female relatives and the need to establish both physical and emotional relationships with this man who is now her legally wed husband and mate, she becomes withdrawn and quieter like a snail that draws its entire being into its secure shell.

The question is -- what is right and what is wrong in this case? How should Simar proceed to set her life in order at this stage? Would we call her selfish if she establishes her relationships with her new husband, albeit a friend now but for how long?

Friends, I invite you all to please discuss this aspect of Simar's life at length with total frankness and individuality. Please do not hesitate to share as during this everchanging journey we call life, a lesson learnt is one that has walked the road most travelled. Enjoy.😉

wonderful post chalia..

your Q... simar needs more time... she has land up in a roller coaster ride she wasn't prepared for... so see needs time....

although this shouldn't take to long cause after-all her responsibility are waiting for her.... being that off a wife or daughter....

Aweosme as usual chalia 👏 ..nd So true.. 👏 👏
but should i tell you something i have never taken these shows to heart somehow i've always found them very superficial sorry to use this term "Shallow" they lack the..Quality...they just make Shows with no story/repeatative story/stagnated story/very orthodox...nd so on so forth 😆 😆 nd I am not Done yet...as SRK says 😆 ...but...Comign back to your Q's i will answer it

How Simar should Prcoeed..

1st she should have told everything to Rishi, they are husband nd wife afterall nd thats most important and above all realtionship as it was put up by Rishi himself that we should never hide anything from each other . she Lost at the first place itself..nd digging her own grave

2nd As soon as she comes back from "Honeymoon"😳..she should take Veera's class and should speak everything infront of Rishi..as in any relationship if you hide something then chances of it lasting,goes haywire..same in Friendship 😃

3rd Rishi..well in few words..i think he has let me down..BIG TIME maybe we have expected him to deliver everything far too soon..nd i am strictly talking about char here 😃

4th Simar should..takeover amrit transport and no power of attorney should not go to Rishi at any cost 😊

Phew....enough for now... 😆

that was nish at her fiery best. hi dear. i totally agree with you about the orthodox, repetitive nature of the serials being aired. I just feel that somehow sometimes it feels good to talk about certain issues and discuss them so that we know we have calibrated our hearts and brains correctly.
We are just having fun and trying to make the forum lively and i am only trying to contribute to this. Hope it helps us make new friends in the Grahasti forum.

Originally posted by: chalia

that was nish at her fiery best. hi dear. i totally agree with you about the orthodox, repetitive nature of the serials being aired. I just feel that somehow sometimes it feels good to talk about certain issues and discuss them so that we know we have calibrated our hearts and brains correctly.
We are just having fun and trying to make the forum lively and i am only trying to contribute to this. Hope it helps us make new friends in the Grahasti forum.

yup true chalia...this way we'll know each other better😛 but i still stand that...i watch shows or to say one show Grihathi because of a FAce value😆 if no andy or andy's character god forbide bids adieu tomorrow i will never watch Grihatshi again in my life😆as simple as that...i am being blunt but truthful here

and Shows..they can experiment nd should do that..i am not saying that dont make woman centric stories...no it will not work as TV is medium of women...but they can be little adventerous ,right nowall shows are playing safe nd few those who have tried to swim against the tide...are so..experimental that...they lost midway...😊

my thoughts...no offecnce , in any way.😃

all of us are only here for andy of course. i weep on the days that he is not around. You are right that all the women centred serials go haywire midway. So i will also quit the day andy does. True women power is there for those who stand up to their values, unafraid to face the world of men and make their mark. i am with you on that.

oke I am not crying over andy... but the main reason to watch this serial was kiran... and his acting....
andy was just the icing on the cake... and I will continue to watch the interesting parts ....with or without andy....

for the simple reason ... its'a spere production and I am hoping to see woman standing up for them selfs....

i began watching this show for kiran kumar but he made his exit too soon. was hoping the girls will show some spirit. too early to say.
will have to wait and watch shali and see if the women really stand up for themselves.

they will... with the right guidance they can stand.... and there is were rishi comes in.... I want him to take balraj place....but not make the woman depended on him...but to help them to find their strength and bringing that out...

well right but i wnat to see -ve side of Rishi yaar hes been good to his mom..his FIL his MIl his wife...even to hhis sis in laws...arey...do something...nasty 😆