A running tally of lies: Adi-Imile v/s Malini - Page 5

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Kahaan se aate hain aise log man I just cannot.. absolutly cannot..

Even by that logic poora aadmi kisne churaya and kaun chadh raha tha uss admi main facts dein kya receipts present karein kya. ?

Absolutly cannot deal with this mindset where the love of life is equivalent to roti oh well 🤷

Yeh mystery solve karte karte toh umar beet jaayegi, behen🤣.....Next level mindsets padhne ko milte hain yahaan that are STILL justifying a woman forcing herself into a man's bed😆

100 baaton ki ek baat yeh hai ki certain people will never accept the truth that Imlie is Adi's wife.....lol even after the divorce is finalized with Malini, some people will forever live in their fantasy (just like Didi herself) ki Adi sirf Malini ka husband hai.....divorce and all ke FACTS also won't matter to them😆.....alag hi kahaani chalaani hai dimaag mein chaahe on ground facts explicit ho about what actually happened 😆

I'll be waiting with popcorn to read the justifications for Didi trying to murder someone also as all justified cuz she was once "lied to"😆.....

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeh mystery solve karte karte toh umar beet jaayegi, behen🤣.....Next level mindsets padhne ko milte hain yahaan that are STILL justifying a woman forcing herself into a man's bed😆

100 baaton ki ek baat yeh hai ki certain people will never accept the truth that Adi is Imlie's wife.....lol even after the divorce is finalized with Malini, some people will forever live in their fantasy (just like Didi herself) ki Adi sirf Malini ka husband hai.....divorce and all ke FACTS also won't matter to them😆.....alag hi kahaani chalaani hai dimaag mein chaahe on ground facts explicit ho about what actually happened 😆

I'll be waiting with popcorn to read the justifications for Didi trying to murder someone also as all justified cuz she was once "lied to"😆.....

Wqit karne ki kya zaroorat hai yeh le 🍿

They are still justifying her kidnap and the way she covered up. Woh maarne se kam tha kya? His life was at stake ..khud phansa kekhud chudhane ka naatak karke credit lena hai and jab nahi mila toh sur nautanki karni hai. But yeah bhool jao ke kidnap Karaya kisne tha🤣😆

FACTS sunane ke liye dimaag ki khidki kholni padti hai and woh bohat mushkil kaam hai .. waise bhi show dekh lein toh oata chal jaaye sach kya hai but nahi uske bina idhsr udhar ke clips pe time waste karna hai.. bada stamina hai Boss

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeh mystery solve karte karte toh umar beet jaayegi, behen🤣.....Next level mindsets padhne ko milte hain yahaan that are STILL justifying a woman forcing herself into a man's bed😆

100 baaton ki ek baat yeh hai ki certain people will never accept the truth that Imlie is Adi's wife.....lol even after the divorce is finalized with Malini, some people will forever live in their fantasy (just like Didi herself) ki Adi sirf Malini ka husband hai.....divorce and all ke FACTS also won't matter to them😆.....alag hi kahaani chalaani hai dimaag mein chaahe on ground facts explicit ho about what actually happened 😆

I'll be waiting with popcorn to read the justifications for Didi trying to murder someone also as all justified cuz she was once "lied to"😆.....

And how many lies has she dished out.🙄😂

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeh mystery solve karte karte toh umar beet jaayegi, behen🤣.....Next level mindsets padhne ko milte hain yahaan that are STILL justifying a woman forcing herself into a man's bed😆

100 baaton ki ek baat yeh hai ki certain people will never accept the truth that Imlie is Adi's wife.....lol even after the divorce is finalized with Malini, some people will forever live in their fantasy (just like Didi herself) ki Adi sirf Malini ka husband hai.....divorce and all ke FACTS also won't matter to them😆.....alag hi kahaani chalaani hai dimaag mein chaahe on ground facts explicit ho about what actually happened 😆

I'll be waiting with popcorn to read the justifications for Didi trying to murder someone also as all justified cuz she was once "lied to"😆.....

Thanks for the thread, AY❤️! Completely agree with all the points you, NM ji & others have made here.

One other point I'd like to add is that this show has beautifully and subtly explored the concept of perception vs actuality of love. I sometimes feel that most people who blindly support M's character are people who feel less for the fact that she's been a victim of bigamy, and more for the fact that she's been a 'victim' of what they feel is a husband's 'spur of the moment' realization that after 7 years together, he does not love his wife 'anymore'. They twist it into an issue of patriarchal mindset, which is not depicted in this story at all. These people feel that a 7 year commitment should guarantee a lifetime's - because apparently it's been proven that time always makes every marriage or long-term relationship stronger.

If one watches the show closely from the very beginning with an open mind and an unbiased outlook towards any character - be it Imlie, Adi, or Malini for that matter - it is made abundantly clear that Adi never knew what love is and him falling for Imlie was gradual in itself. It is also evident that Malini was never in love with Adi either, because love manifests in trust, security and open communication - all sorely lacking in AM relationship. Adi falling for Imlie had absolutely nothing to do with the fact that Imlie was his first wife or that he felt a sense of obligation towards her. In his misplaced anger, he initially gave her a place in their home no one else would've been remotely accepting of and saw, with his own eyes, the qualities that she possessed from the very start - her courage, self-respect, inner strength, self-sufficiency, innocence and her true regard and love for his family, to name a few. He found her wise beyond her years, yet childlike in the way that a 19 year old girl is bound to be. She humbled him with her grace and intellect.

Nobody will ever know all the reasons why Adi fell for Imlie, not even Adi himself, because the beauty of love is that after a point, it is beyond one's choice or control. What is in one's hands, though, is what one does with those feelings, especially when one is in Adi's shoes.

Did Adi do wrong by Malini? Yes, nobody can deny that. He never should've married her, at least not before before annulling his first marriage. Sure, we can argue that Malini's weak state of mind propelled him to make the choice, but the spin he took on their wedding day speaks volumes of his integrity to make tough choices if need be. Did he cheat on Malini? No. That is against everything Adi stands for, and if people can't see that, then all I can say is they are only seeing what they want to see. He was always looking for an avenue to confess the truth to Malini once he realized his love for Imlie - there was no turning back for him. My point is that even if we accept the fact that Adi and Imlie made mistakes - mistakes that cost all three of them a great deal of pain - should Adi have to remain committed to a loveless marriage as some sort of 'penance', subjecting Malini to it as well? No, absolutely not, because that would have been the worst thing Adi could've done to Malini.

Not that she has the capacity to understand this, but breaking free from this relationship could have been as fresh a start for Malini as it's been for Adi. If she could come out of her delusions and internalize, she would see what love is when she observes Adi and Imlie's relationship, and hope to someday find that love for herself. I don't know if Malini as a character can ever rise above the level she's stooped down to, but there's a lot of ground to be covered there if the writers want to do so.

Gosh, that was too long for my two cents.😆

Originally posted by: jperalta

Thanks for the thread, AY❤️! Completely agree with all the points you, NM ji & others have made here.

One other point I'd like to add is that this show has beautifully and subtly explored the concept of perception vs actuality of love. I sometimes feel that most people who blindly support M's character are people who feel less for the fact that she's been a victim of bigamy, and more for the fact that she's been a 'victim' of what they feel is a husband's 'spur of the moment' realization that after 7 years together, he does not love his wife 'anymore'. They twist it into an issue of patriarchal mindset, which is not depicted in this story at all. These people feel that a 7 year commitment should guarantee a lifetime's - because apparently it's been proven that time always makes every marriage or long-term relationship stronger.

If one watches the show closely from the very beginning with an open mind and an unbiased outlook towards any character - be it Imlie, Adi, or Malini for that matter - it is made abundantly clear that Adi never knew what love is and him falling for Imlie was gradual in itself. It is also evident that Malini was never in love with Adi either, because love manifests in trust, security and open communication - all sorely lacking in AM relationship. Adi falling for Imlie had absolutely nothing to do with the fact that Imlie was his first wife or that he felt a sense of obligation towards her. In his misplaced anger, he initially gave her a place in their home no one else would've been remotely accepting of and saw, with his own eyes, the qualities that she possessed from the very start - her courage, self-respect, inner strength, self-sufficiency, innocence and her true regard and love for his family, to name a few. He found her wise beyond her years, yet childlike in the way that a 19 year old girl is bound to be. She humbled him with her grace and intellect.

Nobody will ever know all the reasons why Adi fell for Imlie, not even Adi himself, because the beauty of love is that after a point, it is beyond one's choice or control. What is in one's hands, though, is what one does with those feelings, especially when one is in Adi's shoes.

Did Adi do wrong by Malini? Yes, nobody can deny that. He never should've married her, at least not before before annulling his first marriage. Sure, we can argue that Malini's weak state of mind propelled him to make the choice, but the spin he took on their wedding day speaks volumes of his integrity to make tough choices if need be. Did he cheat on Malini? No. That is against everything Adi stands for, and if people can't see that, then all I can say is they are only seeing what they want to see. He was always looking for an avenue to confess the truth to Malini once he realized his love for Imlie - there was no turning back for him. My point is that even if we accept the fact that Adi and Imlie made mistakes - mistakes that cost all three of them a great deal of pain - should Adi have to remain committed to a loveless marriage as some sort of 'penance', subjecting Malini to it as well? No, absolutely not, because that would have been the worst thing Adi could've done to Malini.

Not that she has the capacity to understand this, but breaking free from this relationship could have been as fresh a start for Malini as it's been for Adi. If she could come out of her delusions and internalize, she would see what love is when she observes Adi and Imlie's relationship, and hope to someday find that love for herself. I don't know if Malini as a character can ever rise above the level she's stooped down to, but there's a lot of ground to be covered there if the writers want to do so.

Gosh, that was too long for my two cents.😆

You're welcome, jperalta 😊......and a very good post from you here as well👍🏼

I agree that the insistence on painting Malini a victim seems more knee-jerk rather than actual conclusion based on the content of the story....certain people want to view this in a reductionist manner rather than as a whole.....this is not some black and white case of "cheating" but a very complicated and circumstantial situation that unfolded.

And I'm beyond tired of this 7 year jaap. The current epis make it very clear (including the episode today where Malini so clearly manipulated Adi to bring mithaai for Mithi in order to head off any suspicions from him) that she has manipulated him for 7 long years with a fake goody goody image and he's been dumb enough to buy it......her real face is now fully revealed as a completely selfish/sadistic/psychotic one.....she doesn't give a damn about anyone.....least of all Adi, the guy she claims to love....she's simply an obsessive psycho who successfully managed to trap an idiot like Adi. He made the mistake of marrying this psycho and he will pay for it dearly for the rest of his life I guess.

Adi-Imlie's love for each other is beautiful as you described so beautifully in your post here as well.....but sadly it is all being overtaken by the slime of Didi in the story. Hard to find respite these days. Ah well.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

You're welcome, jperalta 😊......and a very good post from you here as well👍🏼

I agree that the insistence on painting Malini a victim seems more knee-jerk rather than actual conclusion based on the content of the story....certain people want to view this in a reductionist manner rather than as a whole.....this is not some black and white case of "cheating" but a very complicated and circumstantial situation that unfolded.

And I'm beyond tired of this 7 year jaap. The current epis make it very clear (including the episode today where Malini so clearly manipulated Adi to bring mithaai for Mithi in order to head off any suspicions from him) that she has manipulated him for 7 long years with a fake goody goody image and he's been dumb enough to buy it......her real face is now fully revealed as a completely selfish/sadistic/psychotic one.....she doesn't give a damn about anyone.....least of all Adi, the guy she claims to love....she's simply an obsessive psycho who successfully managed to trap an idiot like Adi. He made the mistake of marrying this psycho and he will pay for it dearly for the rest of his life I guess.

Adi-Imlie's love for each other is beautiful as you described so beautifully in your post here as well.....but sadly it is all being overtaken by the slime of Didi in the story. Hard to find respite these days. Ah well.

Thanks, and so well put.

@bold: How true. They are insisting on all viewers doing devi ji ke darshan everyday. Words have started to fail me when it comes to this character, so I'm learning to conserve my energy. 😆 These days, her scenes are ranging between deranged and comedic with a touch of horror, and all I can do is watch her with second-hand embarrassment as a woman myself. 😕

Will the writers please have mercy on us? Soon?

There are three answers to all of Malini’s psychotic actions with people. 1. The most used sexist regressive one: Imlie deserves it, it’s revenge time 2. The offended: Writer ruined Malini to make people hate her and justify Adi Imlie’s relationship 😆 Aise toh main bhi keh deti hoon writer wrote adi imlie’s arc to make people hate them 😆 Also, a relationship built gradually over time into a strong bond which was accepted by the ground audience and had an online fanbase too. Why would they need justification? Kuch bhi.

Lovely posts and I wholeheartedly agree 👍 with the 3 of you.. I am myself at loss of words here and have nothing. Uch to add except +1

It is so rare to see some reasonable good posts in the forum these days so thanks for these

Originally posted by: spelano.ws

There are three answers to all of Malini’s psychotic actions with people. 1. The most used sexist regressive one: Imlie deserves it, it’s revenge time 2. The offended: Writer ruined Malini to make people hate her and justify Adi Imlie’s relationship 😆 Aise toh main bhi keh deti hoon writer wrote adi imlie’s arc to make people hate them 😆 Also, a relationship built gradually over time into a strong bond which was accepted by the ground audience and had an online fanbase too. Why would they need justification? Kuch bhi.

Spelano, I think you meant to add a number 3 in your list here, right? Did it get left out by accident? 😆

Just saw number 2 being used to glorify Malini for the zillionth time 🤣…..this stuff is more rinse/repeat than the writers ki script right now 😆….People actually RESENTING someone for giving validity to his FIRST marriage 😆

And yes, the hate for Imlie is purely sexist and classist. Her every proof of obvious goodness is disregarded to try and glorify the Didi who is succeeding in driving TRP audience away for the zillionth time. Slow claps 👏😂

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Spelano, I think you meant to add a number 3 in your list here, right? Did it get left out by accident? 😆

Just saw number 2 being used to glorify Malini for the zillionth time 🤣…..this stuff is more rinse/repeat than the writers ki script right now 😆….People actually RESENTING someone for giving validity to his FIRST marriage 😆

And yes, the hate for Imlie is purely sexist and classist. Her every proof of obvious goodness is disregarded to try and glorify the Didi who is succeeding in driving TRP audience away for the zillionth time. Slow claps 👏😂

Arey haan, I just joined 2 and 3 in number 2, ek hi baat thi almost 😆

That and the fact the other one is coming to an end due to a mutual divorce, she lost a lot of ground after all her harkatein, and I am sure the regard he had for her. I mean are you kidding me? The woman climbs into his bed without knowledge, chipak rahi hai dancing when he is clearly uncomfortable and a bigger problem is him talking to his wife ?? cause ek paper pe sign nahi kia ab tak? I mean witnessing that isn’t it what she needs too lol saari umar delusion mein rakhna hai kya and why the hell should he care about her at this point lol. Clear obsession and scary delusions ko kyun barhawa de? why have any regard for her supposed ‘feelings’ no one is even clear on when she is going around insulting every other person every other second.

To me the worst will be ‘pati chor/deserves to be insulted’ comments. On other platforms I see people I would expect better from using them too. It is tiring now, and scary. As if aditya is a toy she took and not a person with his own will and feelings. As if it was not him who went after her. As if her marriage should hold no value to the girl. And all of that despite never demanding anything of him. SM cry regressive progressive but is quite regressive itself here when it reduces the whole story to and makes one who they want to burn at stake and one who is the bechaariast most wronged on earth on the basis of who ends up with the guy. It saddens me, the mindset.