A running tally of lies: Adi-Imile v/s Malini - Page 3

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Thanks, spelano :)

@bold: Well said👍🏼.....that is exactly what the contrast here is.

Which is why it's just strange to read repeated claims of how Adi-Imlie lied to Malini so that justifies her current behavior😕😆...... As if lying happens in a vacuum and context is nothing.

The writers have essentially shown us that greys can exist in multiple characters.....they exist in Adi-Imlie too obviously since they told their own share of lies for a while....but the reason for telling those lies and how they faced the consequences of their lies set them apart from a person like Malini who has only tried to demean everyone around her to deflect from her own sins. The victim card has long since run out of juice even though many still seem to be trying to squeeze something out for Malini on her behalf😆. All she knows is pathological lying, manipulation, and exploitation and that has been proven beyond a doubt in the current track......any justifications from this point are just desperate attempts to grab at straws.

Mithi was always just a pawn to Malini....the very fact that she was still supporting her Mom who continued to talk abusive crap about Mithi basically said everything about who Malini is. The token "stop it, Moms" never meant anything as we've pointed out since a long time😆

I also need to mention even imlie just after the najayaz truth too in that chawl scene was seen telling mithi ke usee jhoot ki buri aadat padh gayi hai and she doesn't know if she will ever be able to say any truth again.. she was so guilty ke usko toh yehi mahi thi ab kya kare woh .. that is the difference the girl hated lying and hated herself for saying casual lies too.. forget the big ones they weighed her down immensely along with Aditya.. but did toh jhoot ko as a superpower use kar rahi hai🤷‍♀️

Jhoot bole koi nahi kaate 🤣🤣Malini ko😛

Btw ( off topic )😉

Can you make a list the number of times AC goes off like a fire dragon on DC ? 🤣

I actually lost count 🤪😆

Originally posted by: Midnight_moon

We must also keep count of Adhithya was willing to tell truth multiple times.

1. From day 1 after returning from pd on his first meeting with Malini but she was gifting phone and saying I also died without hearing your voice… her happiness hold him back

2. Adhithya actually tell truth to Malini. But could not make any difference & forced due to her health condition

3. Marriage day he himself allowed imlie to tell truth even told her what ever happens he will not blame her.

4. He himself step forward to tell truth .

5 . Pd Sr night after imlie break her silence by giving back the firm replies … he immediately leaves room saying I want to relieve from this lie …

6. Nishanth’s return day he tried to tell truth to him

7. On Valentine’s Day

These much situations before realising his love.

Multiple times given hint to his situation to family. Imlie was forced to be send with him etc.

After realising his love I lost the count almost .

(I feel Only in Savitri episode after AC’s performance his dialogues towards imlie showed that he doesn’t like to reveal his truth… may be an execution failure, only that part doesn’t match with his character )

even with her married stuff found from the ambulance he did not wanted to reveal the truth …initials days to his marriage he was skeptical abt telling truth later it was like before family come to knw from other it is better i tell it. Later it become his reality and he wanted to tell the truth to every1 tht finally he was in love …

Originally posted by: AreYaar

No, I wouldn't put these lies in the same category.....Adi lied to Malini at that point cuz he was still confused about what to do next after realizing his feelings for Imlie.

But the basic point holds that he didn't tell any lie to HARM Malini or to cause her pain....while Malini's every lie has been to cause pain to others and prove herself superior.

So isn’t it that he started loving imli after getting married to Malini 🤔

Which is wrong

See the thing is Malini always felt that Adi is not in love with her. In recent episodes she even voiced this to her mom.... she said something like Aditya confused the per main nahi. So she must have been insecure.

Even now she deep down knows that Imlie isn't a manipulating person who stole her love hence she in her inner monologues always says hid the truth from me.

But yes if lieing is the problem than Mun and company have lied more than Adi-Imlie combined

Originally posted by: DailySoapBai

See the thing is Malini always felt that Adi is not in love with her. In recent episodes she even voiced this to her mom.... she said something like Aditya confused the per main nahi. So she must have been insecure.

Even now she deep down knows that Imlie isn't a manipulating person who stole her love hence she in her inner monologues always says hid the truth from me.

But yes if lieing is the problem than Mun and company have lied more than Adi-Imlie combined

She has not only lied WAY more than anyone else, she has also lied shamelessly to hurt others and prove herself superior. While any lie Adi-Imlie have told has been to spare others from hurt and pain. That is the difference I wanted to point out by making this thread.


As for Malini always knowing that Adi never loved her and that being the reason for her constant insecurity, doesn’t that then make it all the worse? Adi was GENUINELY confused and unsure but he stayed with her out of a sense of sincerity and loyalty. While she took advantage of the fact that he didn’t know what he wanted and kept him latched on to her at any cost. A token existence was good enough for her until Imlie showed up and proved that Adi was capable of intense and passionate love. Only THEN Malini suddenly needed Adi to give her that kind of love. Otherwise she was happy manipulating him for 7 years with whatever he could give as long he stayed with her 🙄🙄.

It’s deffo worth noting that no one seems to have an adequate response to the fact that Malini has lied to harm others😆

Instead justifications are being given that Malini is “entitled” to lie and manipulate others, to forcibly molest someone in public coz she was lied to once 😆….

And people call this “mature mentality”? 😆….So it is right to do cheap things like climbing into someone’s bed without their consent cuz they lied to you once (that too in order to protect your health)? 🤔🤔😂

Will dear , everyone will relate to the character that they see themself in 🤗

Justifying every things they do and if they didn't like it then it is a whitewash/ ruin upon convenience

Ppl still arguing the validity of Adili marriage, while Aditya / Malini / Rupy D all state that is Adilli is the Valid one while M is the second women here, Adini is just the registered one , the divorce is just a formality! While now M can not hide her jealousy and the obsession of having Adi so she holds on on the registering fact!

Even Adi before Adini marriage was hesitated and admit that he was already married even if it was a force one!

Why he didn't annulled it? Because he was hurt! His ego get in the way!

Why he bring her home? Coz he had already feeling for her! He concern about her! A fact that he didn't want to admit to himself!

He was concern and interested in her before the force marriage! But M waiting for him which he was obligated to her made him refuse to register any love interest, and her(imlie) age too, she is just too young!

Ppl also still arguing if adini get physical or not! Like it is now matter or have a difference to add to the storyline!

M herself was outing several facts that show there incompatibility! Like on Vday, she said that Adi he sure say to her I love you a lot, but he never was comfortable in romance it get awkward!

But to find this you need to open your eyes and workout your mind, coz they never spoon feeding us that, but there is a lot scope of viewers who want the fact to be fed to them to accept it

You will not win with them, because makers already enjoying this and they will never give them the facts on a golden plate 😂

I am not judging them really, coz at the end it is just a show, getting involve in it is not anyone plate to eat from every day! Ppl just watch it to pass a 20 min, not have the strength to overthink what is not visible

but I could not relate to them

I feel like I'm writing essays for myself in this thread so might as well write one more😆

So reading all these claims that Adi said "I Love You" to Malini so many times, so that must mean he loved her and he suddenly fell in love with Imlie cuz she "phasaaoed" him😆, I have some thoughts😆.......

Firstly, it would be nice if people had the capacity for PERCEPTION....of understanding how to match words with actions😆....I know it's hard when you root for someone as empty headed as Didi ji, but one must still try😆.

Adi said "I Love you" many times to Malini, claimed so many times that she understands him the most.....yet in 7 years, all he did was prioritize work over her? 😆 It's not a hard task to wonder why a guy who keeps telling you he loves you can't seem to make time for you😆. If Malini really felt loved, then why did she still feel constantly insecure despite so many "I love yous" from him? Clearly, the words were not matching the actions.....but she didn't have the guts to ask why.....it's so much easier to wait around to play victim for the inevitable falling apart😆.

Was it a lie? Not at the time.....Adi genuinely believed that this is all love is so he had no hesitation in stating it to Malini😆.....is it a crime to speak your truth as you understand it in the moment? Not in my books. Evolution is a human trait.....no one is born with all the knowledge and understanding in the world at their fingertips....people evolve with life and experiences....so did Adi. It takes a lot of courage to accept that you could be SO wrong about your perception of love.....but Adi fully owned his mistake and chose to live his truth once he realized what love actually is.

One can feel bad for the collateral damage left in the wake of Adi feeling confused, sure.....and that's very much valid.....people can make mistakes, say sorry, own up to their mistakes.....but the damage has been done no matter what - totally understandable why the pain of that can linger......but that also does not give other people the license to malign the person who made a mistake - especially if he had the grace to apologize and atone for his mistake....which is what Adi has constantly done since then.

So circling back to the main point.....saying "I Love You" to someone at one point in your life when you thought you loved them does not make it a life sentence to keep being obligated to for the rest of your life once you realize you were wrong.

If all it took to build a lifelong relationship with someone was getting ten "I Love Yous" from them while they barely made time for you otherwise, phir toh relationships would be like instant noodles😆....which I suppose is how Malini perceived it to be anyways......lol. Love is something that is shown through ACTIONS more than words.....I love you ka kya ACHAAR daaloge life mein if someone can't even be bothered with prioritizing you in their life? 😆

So an actually sensible/mature woman would have been like, "Dude, I don't think you love me" and said goodbye to Adi after 2-3 dates, max😆......it would have ended on an amicable/mutual note and they could have moved on....but nope, these two morons had to drag their mutual convenience for 7 years cuz ek puri brainless/psycho aurat thi and the guy was too detached/polite/scared to actually do the work of conducting a proper relationship😆......toh token "I Love Yous" se chalaa liya itne saal.

This story is essentially drawing that contrast between how many people fall into relationships of convenience without bothering with actually understanding each other or understanding actual love/care......and those people who discover a love that is true/deep and are willing to fight for it in the face of all kinds of adverse circumstances.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

It’s deffo worth noting that no one seems to have an adequate response to the fact that Malini has lied to harm others😆

Instead justifications are being given that Malini is “entitled” to lie and manipulate others, to forcibly molest someone in public coz she was lied to once 😆….

And people call this “mature mentality”? 😆….So it is right to do cheap things like climbing into someone’s bed without their consent cuz they lied to you once (that too in order to protect your health)? 🤔🤔😂

It takes guts to accept that your fav can be flawed.. it takes too much grace .. and need to take off the bias tinted glasses.. nobody would actually acknowledge that she is wrong caz she simply is. There is absolutely no justification for what she is doing right now.. all the imlie ko hata doongi has a base like who are you kidding?

There is absolutely no harm in acknowledging the flaws of your fav character and still continue liking it just caz you do for soem odd reason but atleats have the guts to accept they are bad and you like it. What is this ajeeb ajeeb justifications nikalna..bhai like karna hait oh akro dhadhale se

I swear half the people cannot accept her flaws simply caz she is a woman and she plays a bechari so when she bahaooes 2 tasve everyone thinks oh look at her poor aurat and forget her wrong doings lmao ..sorry things Don't work like that

And jawab tukhe iss liye nahi aa rahe caz logic ko logic se counter karna is hard.. 🤷‍♀️