Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #81|Kuch Toh Tha Tere Mere Darmiyaan - Page 95

Originally posted by: spdp

Agree.

Verbal abuse is uncomfortably normalized in pandya house.

For Raavi using for Shiva- her & Shiva have different equations going since childhood. Their chipkali, bandar, Gadhedo are more teasing banter & jungli- gawar are raavi's still not resolved facadeblocks.

Though, RIshita's use of these words- the context always has been questionable for me. She has no right to say all these Shiva w/o knowing the back story.

What jungli thing he has done with her? What does she mean by Gawar? Uneducated? from village? what exactly she tries to imply? Does she know why Shiva left his studies? Has her MeraDev ever cared to make her aware of that reality?

Imagine if Raavi uses such words for Dev (bhagoda- technically she can say that) or Nikamma (he doesn't do much work) or any other thing...

That is why I have a problem with Rishita's selective moniker uses + amnesia + Over woke activism.

She wants to rant, points out faults in others- but doesn't want to acknowledge her own or her Dev's folllies. She never wants to be part of the solution , unless it gives her mahaan brownie points - lke in the tractorroll or jeerakaand end. Else, all she does is points fingers.

I do believe that human tends to show partiality or show favors to the person they love or even themselves.
Rishita is always partial to her family or Dev.

Dev is always partial to Dhara, Gautham.
Shiva is always partial to his family especially Dhara or his mom.

Raavi is always partial to Mami and Anita. Anita made a big mistake by spilling oil but she never told anyone till now.
No one is saint or noble person. They change their own stance based on their own favouritism. Verbal abuse is done by everyone in the show such as Rishita, Raavi, Shiva, Mami, Rishita dad and bua, ma ji. Physical abuse was also done by many character such as ma ji, Dhara, Gautham, Mami, Raavi, Shiva, Rishita Dad and bua. If I missed anyone, please feel free add their name as character in this show is never consistent.

I don’t feel sorry or bad for any character as no one is even close to get any sympathy and all are selfish in their own way.

Something just struck me 🤣

I think Raavi's pallu getting stuck, and her looking back expectantly at Shiva is ITV's way of telling she is in love with him 🤣🤣

I can't remember correctly- but even in Kekta serials, if the FL looks back longingly at ML, that means she has already fallen, right?

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Something just struck me 🤣

I think Raavi's pallu getting stuck, and her looking back expectantly at Shiva is ITV's way of telling she is in love with him 🤣🤣

I can't remember correctly- but even in Kekta serials, if the FL looks back longingly at ML, that means she has already fallen, right?

jokes apart lol

I think raavi does have feelings what they are we dont know lol

But during this whole fight and aftermath at the house what stuck me was raavi when confronting dhara said how she has turned into this person with hate in her heart when she used to be this happy loving person before the pandya family deceived her and then she was emotionally pushed by the people she trusted the most to marry a guy she grew up fighting and who openly declared his hate on her.

I think they way they have made raavi forgive everyone so easily shows she hates being angry and hateful towards anyone and even after in her mind what shiva did she was willing to stay back maybe if he asked forgiveness, heck she basically override sumans orders and asked shiva to stay back and not leave if she hated him she would have vindictively been rejoicing if he was also kicked out. If shiva had told her he liked her she would have fainted with shock and joy she would be so happy lol

Originally posted by: spdp

it is evident, quite visible how hard they are trying to push Dev's character up on mahaan padestal. make him 'gentleman' (whatever that means) & smartest bhai.

But is falling flat. from Youtube construction to kancha olympics to sawan satsang... Dev has helped not even a bit in any kind of resolution or progress.

His character comes across as more cunning, selfish everytime he is made to try this.

On the other hand, I SO miss Gaumbi- the one from bbq night, one who talked with Rishita, one who is SO soft with Raavi .... the true Bada Bhai.

Gaumbhi needs to be brought back in the forefront - it works.

Dhara & Dev overload is getting stagnanet.

I agree! The sensible gaumbi is needed.. or suman. Dhara and dev will not work here because they were responsible for Shivi's marriage in the first place

Originally posted by: spdp

as amdavad native- I take offense- MBA topper didnot go iim-a.

His mba was from motiben university.

Or from the University of YouTube and wikiHow 🤣🤣

MBA topper definitely does not have the brains to get into IIM Ahmedabad 🤣

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Something just struck me 🤣

I think Raavi's pallu getting stuck, and her looking back expectantly at Shiva is ITV's way of telling she is in love with him 🤣🤣

I can't remember correctly- but even in Kekta serials, if the FL looks back longingly at ML, that means she has already fallen, right?

You correctly caught the ITV signal 🤣🤣

It's hilarious how inconsistent Raavi is.. just 5 minutes ago she spouted heavy dialogues on character and self respect and five minutes later, she wants Shiva to stop her from leaving, by holding her pallu no less 🤣🤣

Shouldn't Shiva pulling her pallu be a disrespectful move too for her, if she hated him so much and considered him a jungli jaanwar? 😆

Is there any chance of finishing this thread before the next episode? 😆

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

Something just struck me 🤣

I think Raavi's pallu getting stuck, and her looking back expectantly at Shiva is ITV's way of telling she is in love with him 🤣🤣

I can't remember correctly- but even in Kekta serials, if the FL looks back longingly at ML, that means she has already fallen, right?

dare she says that she loved him den.......

itna fight kiya, insult kiya, karvaya, left home and expecting ki wo roke? bl...y hell.........make up your mind.....and you dont even like shiva.......so love bolna bhi mat........

m sure wo matlab nahi he hoga 🤣

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

dare she says that she loved him den.......

itna fight kiya, insult kiya, karvaya, left home and expecting ki wo roke? bl...y hell.........make up your mind.....and you dont even like shiva.......so love bolna bhi mat........

m sure wo matlab nahi he hoga 🤣

Arre, ITV me saddiyon se ye parampara chalta aa raha hai

Pallu stuck on inanimate object +

Girl looking back expecting boy to have held pallu

=

Girl subconsciously in love with boy but does not know it herself

+

(Divorce Notice

+

NDE on boy)

=
Girl realizes (Sindoor ki kimat + Janam Janam ka pyaar)

Le PS to Hindi TV serials:

Koi hai to do update for tonight?? 🥺