Originally posted by: _charu_
Agree with all the positives and negatives except this. Why such hue and Cry over jungli gawar ? Raavi calls him that bec of his wild behavior and unkempt look , not bec of his education and nature of work.
Anyways.. Shiva has been bad mouthing raavi equally , starting with chipkali, and the list goes on. N pandya family really doesn't bother..patrani, bhagodi ki beti, bandar, peticot chaap,that list is also , a very long one. It's normal for them. When they are abusing each other , why would they stop Shiva raavi? They r one of them.
Agree.
Verbal abuse is uncomfortably normalized in pandya house.
For Raavi using for Shiva- her & Shiva have different equations going since childhood. Their chipkali, bandar, Gadhedo are more teasing banter & jungli- gawar are raavi's still not resolved facadeblocks.
Though, RIshita's use of these words- the context always has been questionable for me. She has no right to say all these Shiva w/o knowing the back story.
What jungli thing he has done with her? What does she mean by Gawar? Uneducated? from village? what exactly she tries to imply? Does she know why Shiva left his studies? Has her MeraDev ever cared to make her aware of that reality?
Imagine if Raavi uses such words for Dev (bhagoda- technically she can say that) or Nikamma (he doesn't do much work) or any other thing...
That is why I have a problem with Rishita's selective moniker uses + amnesia + Over woke activism.
She wants to rant, points out faults in others- but doesn't want to acknowledge her own or her Dev's folllies. She never wants to be part of the solution , unless it gives her mahaan brownie points - lke in the tractorroll or jeerakaand end. Else, all she does is points fingers.