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Originally posted by: tptwi

Beautifully put, Laksh ❤️ I wrote something similar in this thread but forgot to tag you 🤣

What you have written about Virat needing to protect himself is so apt. Up until this point, Sai has (understandably) had a huge wall around her heart, but Virat has left himself entirely vulnerable. This time Sai’s harshness has crossed every line, and his walls, too, will come up….it’s going to be a painful journey…

Just going through the thread and read one of your comments. I think am reading backwards 🤣🤣. Will try to read from where Nethra had tagged me.

Btw 🙌 I couldn’t really see ego being a reason why Virat ousted her. I haven’t really been able to see him being egoistic and I thought that I am missing it. I do read views of others and try to understand whenever they feel he has been egoistic.

You are the first one whom I have come across who feels the same. I just read that even Rdigest feels the same way 😃.

You have written brilliantly Lakshmi! I agree to Sai's state of mind. If you see her as confused, then you will understand her better. She has no peace of mind. She is like this lawyer who wants to get truth from his mouth by hook or crook. Samrat's talk about freeing Pakhi hit her hard. She is thinking whether she should do the same but she can see Virat's love for her (even though she cannot accept it). Thats where the confusion is! If she goes along with Virat, she has to be clear that he is with her with his whole heart. Sai is selfless in this way. Same goes to Virat. He wants to free her. He would have never thought he would have to do it this way, by hurting her. But Sai's situation forced her to speak those hurftul words. now he is pushed back, insulted and hurt. That is the reason, he had to also respond in a harsh way...it is a tendency to make others hurt to make them feel the same pain they are feeling. So I empathize with them both. They love each other and want for themselves, but because of their doubts they want to free them also. Two opposite forces are tearing them apart.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

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Yeah they should have added that granted dialogue too.

I think they deliberately cut the part where emon tries to talk to rono calmly. Because there despite emon willing to talk calmly rono denies to talk.

Here as far as I know virat never hesitates to talk to sai when she talks with him calmly. So it would have been out of character of virat had they copied this.

I wish they didn't showed virat manhandling sai. That was so wrong of him considering his profession. He need not to hurt others physically to make them understand his hurt. That was wrong.

"She calls it a deal, tries to push him away, tells that she would leave the house, tries to maintain distance, acts indifferent and all of these are to protect herself and rightly so too but what about him? I would say that even if he is at fault, been wrong in many ways, he needs peace too. He needs to protect himself too. She did it to protect herself and he is doing it to protect himself by not getting misunderstood any further, not getting hurt by her harsh exterior any further, by not letting her allege him that he is playing with two people, by not letting her invade his space, his feelings and his heart and at the end to hurt him saying she is anyway here to leave. He is also doing it because that is what she wants. He is also doing it to set her free, to give her what she wants. "

This is so beautifully written especially the one in bold ❤️❤️. At this point like you said he is too exhausted to keep investing in the relationship where what he sees is Sai is not understanding him. Anyone would be broken with Sais choice of words yesterday about 2 timing and him not being happy that Samrat was back. I wish She should have just let him be at night instead of prodding him on why he is sad.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

You have written brilliantly Lakshmi! I agree to Sai's state of mind. If you see her as confused, then you will understand her better. She has no peace of mind. She is like this lawyer who wants to get truth from his mouth by hook or crook. Samrat's talk about freeing Pakhi hit her hard. She is thinking whether she should do the same but she can see Virat's love for her (even though she cannot accept it). Thats where the confusion is! If she goes along with Virat, she has to be clear that he is with her with his whole heart. Sai is selfless in this way. Same goes to Virat. He wants to free her. He would have never thought he would have to do it this way, by hurting her. But Sai's situation forced her to speak those hurftul words. now he is pushed back, insulted and hurt. That is the reason, he had to also respond in a harsh way...it is a tendency to make others hurt to make them feel the same pain they are feeling. So I empathize with them both. They love each other and want for them, but because of their doubts they want to free them also. Two opposite forces are tearing them apart.

👏👏 Wow

@bold Wow, I could see that and you have explained it really well.

True, she is confused as what to do. At the lovers point she had said that if that is what Virat wants then him and Pakhi should get back together but after they all met Samrat, after getting to hear all those from Samrat, she is hit back with the reality. She is able to understand what it actually means to let go of Virat. Samrat never stayed with Pakhi but she has been with Virat and she can see his love. She just doesn’t understand if she should fight for the love or let him go. To be honest, Sai’s quest has already started and that is how I saw it. Virat told her that she will see a different face of his and told her explicitly that he is breaking all ties with her. But even before all this, she was disturbed by Virat’s silence. She was bugged to see Virat who was so unlike him, not talking anything to her. He wasn’t asking her questions or fighting with her and not even sharing or crying to her about how he was feeling after meeting Samrat. It was eating her up which made her poke him. She was literally poking him to get to know what was running in his head 🤣. I had written in EDT too that her restlessness made her ask him questions but it ended up ugly.

@bold I agree, very true and this is what I think too.

I think Sai’s introspection has already begun. It started right after she left the anniversary party. Let’s see what they have in store for us. I really hope that they don’t make it too ugly. I think we will all get to see some amazing acting by both of these in the upcoming episodes.

Originally posted by: laksh

Just going through the thread and read one of your comments. I think am reading backwards 🤣🤣. Will try to read from where Nethra had tagged me.

Btw 🙌 I couldn’t really see ego being a reason why Virat ousted her. I haven’t really been able to see him being egoistic and I thought that I am missing it. I do read views of others and try to understand whenever they feel he has been egoistic.

You are the first one whom I have come across who feels the same. I just read that even Rdigest feels the same way 😃.

If he were to have ego he would never have asked for forgiveness from Sai in the 3 worst scinearios so far in the story . But Sai we have never seen her apologizing to Virat even once for saying such hurtful things.

Originally posted by: Rdigest

"She calls it a deal, tries to push him away, tells that she would leave the house, tries to maintain distance, acts indifferent and all of these are to protect herself and rightly so too but what about him? I would say that even if he is at fault, been wrong in many ways, he needs peace too. He needs to protect himself too. She did it to protect herself and he is doing it to protect himself by not getting misunderstood any further, not getting hurt by her harsh exterior any further, by not letting her allege him that he is playing with two people, by not letting her invade his space, his feelings and his heart and at the end to hurt him saying she is anyway here to leave. He is also doing it because that is what she wants. He is also doing it to set her free, to give her what she wants. "

This is so beautifully written especially the one in bold ❤️❤️. At this point like you said he is too exhausted to keep investing in the relationship where what he sees is Sai is not understanding him. Anyone would be broken with Sais choice of words yesterday about 2 timing and him not being happy that Samrat was back. I wish She should have just let him be at night instead of prodding him on why he is sad.

@bold How could she have? His indifference and silence has already started to bother her 🤣🤣. Infact I think that her words and approach was mainly because he was acting too strange by not talking to her or fighting with her or even expressing his hurt about Samrat not willing to talk to him. It was so unlike Virat. She knows that she had crossed a line by talking about Karma and hurt him at the anniversary venue too but she wanted to know it from him 🤣 if that was bothering him but instead poked him asking about Samrat and other things to get some reaction out of him.

Originally posted by: laksh

@bold How could she have? His indifference and silence has already started to bother her 🤣🤣. Infact I think that her words and approach was mainly because he was acting too strange by not talking to her or fighting with her or even expressing his hurt about Samrat not willing to talk to him. It was so unlike Virat. She knows that she had crossed a line by talking about Karma and hurt him at the anniversary venue too but she wanted to know it from him 🤣 if that was bothering him but instead poked him asking about Samrat and other things to get some reaction out of him.

This is actually crazy. I literally wrote pretty much the same exact thing responding to msin just now 🤣

Originally posted by: laksh

👏👏 Wow

@bold Wow, I could see that and you have explained it really well.

True, she is confused as what to do. At the lovers point she had said that if that is what Virat wants then him and Pakhi should get back together but after they all met Samrat, after getting to hear all those from Samrat, she is hit back with the reality. She is able to understand what it actually means to let go of Virat. Samrat never stayed with Pakhi but she has been with Virat and she can see his love. She just doesn’t understand if she should fight for the love or let him go. To be honest, Sai’s quest has already started and that is how I saw it. Virat told her that she will see a different face of his and told her explicitly that he is breaking all ties with her. But even before all this, she was disturbed by Virat’s silence. She was bugged to see Virat who was so unlike him, not talking anything to her. He wasn’t asking her questions or fighting with her and not even sharing or crying to her about how he was feeling after meeting Samrat. It was eating her up which made her poke him. She was literally poking him to get to know what was running in his head 🤣. I had written in EDT too that her restlessness made her ask him questions but it ended up ugly.

@bold I agree, very true and this is what I think too.

I think Sai’s introspection has already begun. It started right after she left the anniversary party. Let’s see what they have in store for us. I really hope that they don’t make it too ugly. I think we will all get to see some amazing acting by both of these in the upcoming episodes.

Sai is young, because of her age, she has some flaws. we need to see her that way, then she appears normal.

@bold

Exactly, she was going crazy. I would do the same. Poke your husband till he get frustrateds. And it is natural that in hurt, you say things you wish you never had spoken.

Neither virat can stay away from her seeing her affections for him, nor Sai can push him far seeing his love. The rope with which they are playing tug of war should break at some point. That is why all these confrontations are needed.

Originally posted by: tptwi

This is actually crazy. I literally wrote pretty much the same exact thing responding to msin just now 🤣

I just read that and I was about to let you know about it. I had also typed about her realisation part after anniversary as a reply to Sadhika’s comment but then removed it to make it short 🤣🤣. Oh god, how is it even possible 🤣🤣.