Disgracing women - Page 3

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

When I was studying, we were made aware how to approach HR, if this happens.

It would have been better if showed office politics involved and Kinjal's voice left unheard, but still Kinjal tries her best and wins the case

Everyone supported her but no one told her to not quit the job...

Thw first thing came in my mind was- why someone smart and intelligent and strong girl like Kinjal will say that she has to quit the job. I agree she is afraid of whatever happened with her, who will not, we all girls have to face this situation at some time in our life. But then the next day she would have shared this with all and would have taken a proper action against her boss.

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

And man Kinjal doesn't trust TOshu or what? After all the mess he has done, she might not be able to trust Toshu. Toshu is her husband, he has first right to know this

It didn't go well with me. Toshu kaisa bhi beta ho but he is her husband and he should know what has happened with her. Abb wo baat alag hai ki pata nahi makers Toshu ka take kaisa dikhate hai iss situation me.? 😶

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

Loan lena matlab aafat ko khud invite karna barabar hi hai.

Kuchh log loan bharne ke liye loan lete hi rehte hai...Khatam nahi hota yeh cycle

The problem would have solved itself if Samar had accepted the assignment abroad.

So many poor people who also value family ties go and work abroad, even if its menial jobs like cab-driving, cooking, waitering or housekeeping, just because it pays in dollars/euros/dirhams instead of rupees and will help them pay off debts faster.

The same work, if they do here, will not pay enough and they will take ages to clear debts, maybe even have to pass it to the next generation. They return home after they have earned sufficiently.

But mahaan Anupamaa has two such extreme sons, one just wants to escape so that he can romance is wife at his convenience, and the other wants to just crawl back into his mother's womb like a kangaroo joey.

Not one person is decent or practical.

Maybe Hasmukh, but he is too feeble to be of substantial help.

Haan dekhte hai is dholakia track mein kya hota hai. Yeh track to abhi shuru hua hai to abhi isme jyaada kguch nahin kaha jaa sakta

Abhi is track ke baare mein jyaada kuch keh nahi sakte. Do teen episode ke paat chalega ki aakhir cvs isko kaise handle karte hain

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

The problem would have solved itself if Samar had accepted the assignment abroad.

So many poor people who also value family ties go and work abroad, even if its menial jobs like cab-driving, cooking, waitering or housekeeping, just because it pays in dollars/euros/dirhams instead of rupees and will help them pay off debts faster.

The same work, if they do here, will not pay enough and they will take ages to clear debts, maybe even have to pass it to the next generation. They return home after they have earned sufficiently.

But mahaan Anupamaa has two such extreme sons, one just wants to escape so that he can romance is wife at his convenience, and the other wants to just crawl back into his mother's womb like a kangaroo joey.

Not one person is decent or practical.

Maybe Hasmukh, but he is too feeble to be of substantial help.

Beautifully you've written. At this time they have to be practical and not emotional. This I have said yesterday too that if Samar take his decision for abroad then it would be help for Anupama's academy as well as for his career as well as for the 20L problem. But whatever they are trying to show is just tangent to my brain, not even a tangent.! If they are showing practical and realistic problems then their solutions should also be practical and realistic. So that we viewers learn from it. Agar aise me bhashan dene lagu na kisi bank me jakar Anupama jaise to mujhe waha se bhaga denge, no one entertains like this.!

Originally posted by: musicalstorm

The problem is a real world but I feel the problem will be solved in an unrealistic way.

Agreed but sometimes Anupama should listen and let others speak I don't know why but today I really felt anxious hearing her blabbering yes I agree most of the women face harrasment and have their share of experience but for everyone it's different some strongly oppose some are shamed by peers or family, some one's confidence go down so if she is so great to understand another women she must let them speak it felt like she was putting words in Kinjal's mouth there wasn't any debate going on and you have to tell your opinion she was sharing her story kinjal just needed an ear not lecture after some time when she has said all the things and quite Anupama could have given her lecture .maybe intitially she needed some word but after that I felt so anxious don't director writer think beforehand. Main lead doesn't have to know each and everything without other's speaking it only makes them human no need to put her on pedestial even mother's need a Little hint

Originally posted by: Saumya96

They have to show Anupama's lectures and long dialogues. Without that the 22 minutes show is incomplete. Few things are common daily, Anupama's bhashan, Kavya's nonsense, Samar's meri mummy, Baa's taunts... Without these things Anupama show is incomplete 😶

Yaa in every matter she has something to say either in favour or opposite women listen atleast sometimes

Originally posted by: Saumya96

Let's talk real, how come Dholakia orders Kavya to join back.? Inke office me HR and management naam ki chize hai ya nahi.?

Anyway, talking about Kinjal and her state of mind was so real. She is afraid, she is anxious and hence could not share her situation with anyone. If Toshu would have been near her then most probably she would have shared this with him. Thank god atleast she shared this with Anupama and I loved Anupama's confidence. But again I felt like yelling when Anupama said me maa hu aur mere hote hue tujhe kuch nahi hoga (aisa hi kuch kaha tha I guess).

Instead she would have said I am a woman and we women have to support each other in this situation. And as a woman I feel you should raise your voice, aisa kuch they should have shown.

I don't know what they are going to show about Kinjal, I am expecting a realistic take on this. Please don't end it up with a bhashan. Proper treatment and actions has to be taken against that Dholakia.

No words for Kavya, I don't give her importance now.!

@bold - Seriously! All her words ecouraging Kinjal was good, but the bubble burst as soon as she uttered "maa ke hote hue...."🤔 Why bring motherhood into everything under the sun? This is one show that brings up real world problems into light, but comes out with one & only solution - motherhood. Give me a break!

I do not understand why Kinjal should quit her job. Doing that only enables workplace harassment further. I wish they had shown Kinjal handling this at work by reporting it. He should not get away with it.

Originally posted by: SanchiIndu

Yaa in every matter she has something to say either in favour or opposite women listen atleast sometimes

Anupama is enough sensible what to do. She also know sirf baatein karne se khuch nahin hoga karne se hoga

And after all anupama is main character and too central character of serial

When story is about anupama then of course all track anupama ke chaaro taraf hi ghumenge . Anupama se saare character connect hain

Anupama is primary character

Baaki sub secondary character hai ,without anupama character then yeh serial bhi nahin hai

Philhal jo vanraj dholakiye ko jo dande se peetne jaata raha hai use anupama ne rok ke bahut bhadiya kaam kiya kyonki aisa karne se shah parivaar buri tarah fas sakta hai.