Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #81|Kuch Toh Tha Tere Mere Darmiyaan - Page 6

Originally posted by: Mayame27

Rightfully said👍🏼

They both really need to understand that they aren't bickering children anymore.

I don't know if I missed something but I thought he did accept her for who she is never tried to change her.Do enlighten me If I missed something New to the show😊

That’s exactly I am thinking as well. When did he find fault with her education, or the way she behaves with people except that one time she tried put Dhara down when she joined with Rishita. That’s the only time he called on her, All along he has been saying that he is not good enough for her and refuses to introduce him to any of her friends. Ok she doesn’t have to introduce, that is her choice but why does she wait for her friends to badmouth him and in the end asks them to shut up or just changes the topic or keeps quiet😕 I never understood this part of her which proves Shiva’s statement true that she agrees with her friends.

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

I agree! Although 21-22 is on the younger side to be getting married, Shiva and Raavi are both adults who need to grow up and mature.

Personally speaking, he hasn't accepted her for who she is. His inferiority complex is blinding him from accepting the fact that she has friends outside of him and his relationship. If he had accepted her, I believe he would have said, "I don't mind meeting your friends. However, if they insult me, I will never meet any of them in the future."

Again, a relationship is a two-way street, and Shiva doesn't seem to understand that Raavi has a life beyond the Pandya pariwaar. She went to college, she was exposed to different thoughts and ideas, and she expresses herself as a young 21st century woman hugging her male friends (there is nothing wrong about this). If he had fully accepted her for who she was, he wouldn't feel tense when she is with her friends, he wouldn't feel insecure (because despite what the town thinks, he knows that she will always be with him)... just my two cents!

True!!!

They need to grow up.Maybe they were brought together by fate to grow up and complete each other but it took a toxic turn.

Rightfully said👍🏼

You know At this point I really love and hate both of them equally. Is it weird to wish divorce for the couple I like

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

I agree! Although 21-22 is on the younger side to be getting married, Shiva and Raavi are both adults who need to grow up and mature.

Personally speaking, he hasn't accepted her for who she is. His inferiority complex is blinding him from accepting the fact that she has friends outside of him and his relationship. If he had accepted her, I believe he would have said, "I don't mind meeting your friends. However, if they insult me, I will never meet any of them in the future."

Again, a relationship is a two-way street, and Shiva doesn't seem to understand that Raavi has a life beyond the Pandya pariwaar. She went to college, she was exposed to different thoughts and ideas, and she expresses herself as a young 21st century woman hugging her male friends (there is nothing wrong about this). If he had fully accepted her for who she was, he wouldn't feel tense when she is with her friends, he wouldn't feel insecure (because despite what the town thinks, he knows that she will always be with him)... just my two cents!

Avi, I think he said he doesn’t care what she does with her friends but definitely is affected when she doesn’t defend him or introduce him. He is of the opinion that she agrees with her friends.

Originally posted by: Mayame27

True!!!

They need to grow up.Maybe they were brought together by fate to grow up and complete each other but it took a toxic turn.

Rightfully said👍🏼

You know At this point I really love and hate both of them equally. Is it weird to wish divorce for the couple I like

@bold, I believe quite a few of us have reached to this conclusion that they would be better off divorced than together 😆.

I believe a divorce should be end-game if both of them can't sort out their differences; however, I do think a long separation (not 1 week or 2 weeks) but an entire month, or more, of separation will teach them what marriage is and how important it is to respect your partner's opinions despite them being different from yours.

Originally posted by: mpks1

That’s exactly I am thinking as well. When did he find fault with her education, y or the way she behaves with people except that one time she tried put Dhara down bu joining hands with Rishita. That’s the only he called on her, All along he has been saying that he is not good enough for her and refuses to introduce him to any of her friends. Ok she doesn’t have to introduce, that is her choice but why does she wait for her friends to badmouth him and in the end asks them to shut up or just changes the topic or keeps quiet😕 I never understood this part of her which proves Shiva’s statement true that she agrees with her friends.

Well I feel if he is insecure...She somewhere is the root of his insecurity.

That's what I took the Shiva as. I always thought that he accepted her for just the way she is except for the one time she tried to behave differently than her character to put Dhara down.I never thought he had a problem with her meeting her friends just had a problem with how fast they were to judge him.

Originally posted by: Mayame27

True!!!

They need to grow up.Maybe they were brought together by fate to grow up and complete each other but it took a toxic turn.

Rightfully said👍🏼

You know At this point I really love and hate both of them equally. Is it weird to wish divorce for the couple I like

As much as this relationship is toxic, I will be the last person to advocate divorce. They definitely need time apart ( I am all in for a longgggg separation) and need to realize and reevaluate their life. Both should definitely learn to respect each other which is lacking big time. Foundation of a successful marriage is always respect, understanding, adjustments and love will automatically happen. This is from my personal experience.

Since they married shiva has been in this mode that raavi has been wronged as she hadnt chosen to marry a guy like him but a gentleman guy like dev. HIs self deprecating mode was most evident when dev apologized to him in the haveli but he never voiced this to raavi herself but to others who dismissed his tone and thinking. This has been brewing longer than that sneha day but it didnt trigger him so much till he started to feel for raavi.

Hello. It's been a while 😂.

I'm honestly slightly disappointed but also in a huh this was interestingly done phase ,which is a weird thing to say.

I'm disappointed because I wanted Shiva and Raavi to be better , to get over their issues and move on. But I'm also curious , because it's oddly sorta realistic ? Forced marriages are unlikely to ever be as smooth as they show on Ekta kapoor shows. So all these bumps and fights are truer to life than most shows I've watched.

Not at all sure how I feel about having shiva display all the toxic masculine:how dare she have male friends she can talk and laugh with, that are not me attitude . There are tweens thinking this family friendly -sexy times + child safe version of kabir Singh shiva is sexy and a hero.

Ugh. No he's not.

That said , while I like the show overall, right now shiva, hell shivi fell like they're the definition of a toxic relationship. The break will be good for them

Raavi is still caught up in seeing shiva as a consolation prize she's settled for and has to adjust with, and not as just her husband and partner. But of the two, I think she's in a better headspace than shiva is.

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

@bold, I believe quite a few of us have reached to this conclusion that they would be better off divorced than together 😆.

I believe a divorce should be end-game if both of them can't sort out their differences; however, I do think a long separation (not 1 week or 2 weeks) but an entire month, or more, of separation will teach them what marriage is and how important it is to respect your partner's opinions despite them being different from yours.

I wish

But for that they both need to get out of the fact they aren't children who are bickering and to treat each other as if they are still kids.

Also I personally feel Raavi need to looks within and see what she has done wrong.She can't just blame him for everything.😕

Originally posted by: manny136

but lets not forget all the insults and throwing things at her whenever she came to his house, tried to be nice to him etc

then he tells her to kill herself in front of a truck and yeah he saved her but it could have gone wrong too both are crazy lol

still kept quiet due to janus insult of dhara so dev could marry her again whole family barring suman was wrong their

pushing pulling even after marriage yeah she insults him but he isnt cowing down either and he blows up at her even when she isnt doing anything.

the whole kangan kaand he might have not planned this but he basically valued those kangans more than raavi it was insulting.

He always saves her he is her hero but he still is on attack mode with her in normal times cant he talk to her nicely for once he is ready to insult her or take everything she says the wrong way. Just look a the time she offered her jewels to pay for the room instead of insulting her he could have said no thank you but no he had to add an insult to her sweet gesture.

Would you please wait for my opposite list too. I will write all the bakwaas Shiva has done till date