Originally posted by: Summerholiday
I was waiting eagerly for the fireworks. Guess I expected too much from these writers. 😓The episode turned out to be such a dampener. If anyone from now on praises this particular maa beta bond, then they are disillusioned. This maa beta bond is toxic not only to the beta but everyone around them. The repercussions of ishwari's deeds are felt by all of them & causes not just unhappiness in their lives but utterly destroys their life. She is a big failure as a mother & as a human being. Until now, ishwari was tolerable to a certain extent mainly because we all understood her insecurities even if we disliked her for it. But today, she crossed her limit.
And Dev instead of standing up for his son's happiness, tried to pacify his wife into accepting the name change. He has never taken a stand for his wife, now he didn't take a stand for his son. He has proved to be a spineless man & a failure as a husband, as a father as well as a son too. As a son he has never corrected Ishwari even when he knew she was wrong. If he had been firm with her from the start, ishwari would never have dared to cross her limits. He indirectly gave Ishwari the right to interfere in his personal life, allows her to take major decisions even when it concerns his family & as a result brings unhappiness in their lives, allows her to insult, humiliate his wife by not taking a stand for her & the list goes on. Parents should be treated with respect & love but a child should never be blind to their faults. They should point out their mistakes politely but firmly which Dev never did & this has encouraged her to be obstinate and wanting to control every aspect of their life.
I was disappointed with Sonakshi too. She should have gone home, given Ishwari a piece of her mind & told her that the pooja done to change Ayush's name had no legal standing in court & hence not valid & that she would excercise her rights of a mother & take steps to ensure that all the legal formalities were completed with Ayush's name in the documents. And then she should have walked out of the house with her three children with her head held high & as a parting shot ask Dev whether he wanted to remain a mamma's boy for life or wanted to be a responsible father to his kids.
Hopefully in tomorrow's episode, Bijoy makes her realize her mistake in leaving behind her children in the Dixit house under Ishwari's supervision/ control & Sonakshi takes charge of them & brings them to the Bose house along with her. She also needs to make it clear to Dev that she will no longer tolerate Ishwari's interference in their lives.