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I think I am in minority I loved the last scene because it was much needed to move their story forward other than that I hated the dialogues 😡

I totally understand Raavi is at breaking point but she has no right to call Shiva Jungli, gawar😡 like someone else also mentioned sorry I forgot the name inferiority complex is really serious issue and Raavi telling him that he is Jahil, Gawar she did the mistake by marrying him is making it worse 😕 in a same way Shiva lashing out at Raavi is not right either but Raavi is been doing the same as well( Won't be discussing manhandling here because it's been discussed so many times and it's a big no no for me but according to me Raavi women handle him as well so I always try to ignore it)

If we are giving a pass to Raavi because she is angry then I would also like to give Shiva a pass for saying that precap dialogue. I know he has no right to question her character but he is angry too and people say a lot of things in anger even though they don't mean it.

For some reason I can't sympathize with Raavi (something is really wrong with me 😕). Writers please give Raavi better dialogues, right now she is coming out really mean and shallow person.

Why the writers are not showing Raavi defending Shiva in front of her friends😡 and what kind of friends they are 😕

Even though I know Shiva is more at fault here. He is been acting like a complete jerk for last 2 weeks but I still feel bad for him 😭 because I think I can relate to Shiva more. In real life we all face insecurities on daily basis no matter how confident you are in your own skin you will find someone who is always there to point out your flaws. If I was in shiva's position (being a independent women with proper job and University degree) and I hear my husband's friend (girl friend who had cursh on him) telling him why he married me he could have had better options and my husband is just standing there not defending me main bhi insecure feel karti maybe in a anger I would have told him too bhi ja uske pass eh ja (not in public though)

Lastly, I didn't mind the fight scene I would have loved it more if Raavi slapped his friend Rahul/Rohan but I am happy Chattan pandya did the job 👏. If this was real life scenario, my husband (super patient guy) would have beat the shit out of my friends too or I have done the same (I understand violence is not the answer )

I have so much to write but I don't want to bore you.

Sorry for the long rant. Loving all the discussions and it's so good to read different point of views 😘😘

Originally posted by: kitm

I think I am in minority I loved the last scene because it was much needed to move their story forward other than that I hated the dialogues 😡

I totally understand Raavi is at breaking point but she has no right to call Shiva Jungli, gawar😡 like someone else also mentioned sorry I forgot the name inferiority complex is really serious issue and Raavi telling him that he is Jahil, Gawar she did the mistake by marrying him is making it worse 😕 in a same way Shiva lashing out at Raavi is not right either but Raavi is been doing the same as well( Won't be discussing manhandling here because it's been discussed so many times and it's a big no no for me but according to me Raavi women handle him as well so I always try to ignore it)

If we are giving a pass to Raavi because she is angry then I would also like to give Shiva a pass for saying that precap dialogue. I know he has no right to question her character but he is angry too and people say a lot of things in anger even though they don't mean it.

For some reason I can't sympathize with Raavi (something is really wrong with me 😕). Writers please give Raavi better dialogues, right now she is coming out really mean and shallow person.

Why the writers are not showing Raavi defending Shiva in front of her friends😡 and what kind of friends they are 😕

Even though I know Shiva is more at fault here. He is been acting like a complete jerk for last 2 weeks but I still feel bad for him 😭 because I think I can relate to Shiva more. In real life we all face insecurities on daily basis no matter how confident you are in your own skin you will find someone who is always there to point out your flaws. If I was in shiva's position (being a independent women with proper job and University degree) and I hear my husband's friend (girl friend who had cursh on him) telling him why he married me he could have had better options and my husband is just standing there not defending me main bhi insecure feel karti maybe in a anger I would have told him too bhi ja uske pass eh ja (not in public though)

Lastly, I didn't mind the fight scene I would have loved it more if Raavi slapped his friend Rahul/Rohan but I am happy Chattan pandya did the job 👏. If this was real life scenario, my husband (super patient guy) would have beat the shit out of my friends too or I have done the same (I understand violence is not the answer )

I have so much to write but I don't want to bore you.

Sorry for the long rant. Loving all the discussions and it's so good to read different point of views 😘😘

You are putting across your POV and there is nothing wrong with it. I like reading long posts and I agree with some of your points😃

Originally posted by: kitm

I think I am in minority I loved the last scene because it was much needed to move their story forward other than that I hated the dialogues 😡

I totally understand Raavi is at breaking point but she has no right to call Shiva Jungli, gawar😡 like someone else also mentioned sorry I forgot the name inferiority complex is really serious issue and Raavi telling him that he is Jahil, Gawar she did the mistake by marrying him is making it worse 😕 in a same way Shiva lashing out at Raavi is not right either but Raavi is been doing the same as well( Won't be discussing manhandling here because it's been discussed so many times and it's a big no no for me but according to me Raavi women handle him as well so I always try to ignore it)

If we are giving a pass to Raavi because she is angry then I would also like to give Shiva a pass for saying that precap dialogue. I know he has no right to question her character but he is angry too and people say a lot of things in anger even though they don't mean it.

For some reason I can't sympathize with Raavi (something is really wrong with me 😕). Writers please give Raavi better dialogues, right now she is coming out really mean and shallow person.

Why the writers are not showing Raavi defending Shiva in front of her friends😡 and what kind of friends they are 😕

Even though I know Shiva is more at fault here. He is been acting like a complete jerk for last 2 weeks but I still feel bad for him 😭 because I think I can relate to Shiva more. In real life we all face insecurities on daily basis no matter how confident you are in your own skin you will find someone who is always there to point out your flaws. If I was in shiva's position (being a independent women with proper job and University degree) and I hear my husband's friend (girl friend who had cursh on him) telling him why he married me he could have had better options and my husband is just standing there not defending me main bhi insecure feel karti maybe in a anger I would have told him too bhi ja uske pass eh ja (not in public though)

Lastly, I didn't mind the fight scene I would have loved it more if Raavi slapped his friend Rahul/Rohan but I am happy Chattan pandya did the job 👏. If this was real life scenario, my husband (super patient guy) would have beat the shit out of my friends too or I have done the same (I understand violence is not the answer )

I have so much to write but I don't want to bore you.

Sorry for the long rant. Loving all the discussions and it's so good to read different point of views 😘😘

That was a lovely post! Do post more in the EDT if you feel like it, we always like ranting and reading long rants 😆

I agree with most of your points 💖

You are putting across your POV and there is nothing wrong with it. I like reading long posts and I agree with some of your points😃

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Thank you 😘😘

I am just going by the ITV and trying to make sense so I can enjoy the show because right now I am only liking gaumbi, Krish and Risihta

Everyone else make no sense to me and they have so much drama is there life I feel like my life is super boring 😴😴

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Originally posted by: deeps07

Exactly.. I am having a lot of problem with suman especially after kua kaandh...this would be a good time to make her the sensible women we need at the moment.

Definitely. Raavi needs to understand her issues too..I am enjoying it actually seeing thag both are wrong in their own way..I hate it when only one is the victim and the other the manhandler like in gul shows. .😆..let both of them have mud in them..let both of them suffer..let both of them get themselves up. And let both of them evolve together..thats my motto..🤪😆

Hhhmm no never..one is never the victim and other the manhandler... It's always both ways... or should I say, it's understood that way..And shiva is no better than other heros..he comes from the same mould...they r all the same , they do the same things, they are replied back in the same way, they are justified in the same way , even the arguments r same 😆 It all depends on which couple we like and who we don't like. Gul ko chodo, #2 trp show , wo bhi wahi hai..and the recently shut down professor show, woh bhi wahi tha..they just need 1 trigger , that is, their family, and they all lose their sanity ..show them the mirror , they lose their sanity ...n they all come around 😆 and we say "what chemistry". I am not being sarcastic..I have been there , done that..still doing..

Originally posted by: Oeindrila

I personally don't like Raavi's character much but I'll agree with you on this 💯. The Pandyas behaved like real opportunists in using Raavi's dobiness and not letting her know about Dev's true feelings.

In fact the moment they got to know about Dev-Rishita's relationship , they should have informed Raavi. But no, they decided to keep her as an option until they got a nod from Janu's family which, ultimately, they didn't get and went on with their planning like before for the sake of rishtas, samman and all that , never caring a hoot about what the girl may have to go through in future.

I’m no Raavi fan but Dev/Dhara/Gaumbi cheated her. She might be an idiot but she didn’t deserve that.

Shiva was the only one who told Dev to tell the truth. I don’t understand why Raavi forgave them so easily. I was hoping she was going to rip Dev a new one.

I don't like raavi either..she lacks substance..but she has a lot of good in her n uske saath bahut kuch bura hua hai , she has suffered a lot but still try to be happy in her environment..she made peace with her fate way too soon ..she is a normal girl who led a cushioned life..

If I heard her complaining about Shiva, I would say she is a shallow immature girl but I have never seen her picking up fights With him..she saw the good in him too but he failed to do so..she just answers back when he is rude to her unnecessarily which she should..otherwise she is generally good to him , smiling at him, serving him ,he doesn't even deserve that With that kind of behavior. Why should raavi try to read shivas mind ? Nobody can..nobody is antaryami...what is her value in shivas life? she is not feeding his insecurities..that's his problem n he should deal with it...dhara is facing taunts from all sides but she didn't lose her sanity over people's opinions on her. He DID act like a jungli today . And she is NOT characterless.

Originally posted by: _charu_

I don't like raavi either..she lacks substance..but she has a lot of good in her n uske saath bahut kuch bura hua hai , she has suffered a lot but still try to be happy in her environment..she made peace with her fate way too soon ..she is a normal girl who led a cushioned life..

If I heard her complaining about Shiva, I would say she is a shallow immature girl but I have never seen her picking up fights With him..she saw the good in him too but he failed to do so..she just answers back when he is rude to her unnecessarily which she should..otherwise she is generally good to him , smiling at him, serving him ,he doesn't even deserve that With that kind of behavior. Why should raavi try to read shivas mind ? Nobody can..nobody is antaryami...what is her value in shivas life? she is not feeding his insecurities..that's his problem n he should deal with it...dhara is facing taunts from all sides but she didn't lose her sanity over people's opinions on her. He DID act like a jungli today . And she is NOT characterless.

I agree with you on some points. Shiva shouldn’t have said anything about her character, that’s unacceptable.

As for reading minds, no one expects her to read minds but Raavi is absolutely clueless.

Yes, she feeds his insecurities. Dhara doesn’t lose her mind because at the end of it all, she has Suman, Gaumbi and her Devar’s support.

Heck, even Raavi has support. Where is Shiva’s support? Raavi wants to compromise and move on, you don’t compromise for something so huge. Make a decision. That’s what I felt Shiva was trying to do in his weird way. It would have been better to have a conversation but again Raavi was adamant about staying yet continuously reminding him that he wasn’t who she wanted. Nice clothes matter more than who a person is.

There is no relationship, it’s better to end. Raavi was staying for all the wrong reasons. That’s not how marriages work.

Both are at fault but I hope they realize that they can’t continue this way.

Shiva was always shown to respect women but his behaviour has been anything to be desired for. Not sure why maker’s had to have him push and shove.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Hhhmm no never..one is never the victim and other the manhandler... It's always both ways... or should I say, it's understood that way..And shiva is no better than other heros..he comes from the same mould...they r all the same , they do the same things, they are replied back in the same way, they are justified in the same way , even the arguments r same 😆 It all depends on which couple we like and who we don't like. Gul ko chodo, #2 trp show , wo bhi wahi hai..and the recently shut down professor show, woh bhi wahi tha..they just need 1 trigger , that is, their family, and they all lose their sanity ..show them the mirror , they lose their sanity ...n they all come around 😆 and we say "what chemistry". I am not being sarcastic..I have been there , done that..still doing..

Yea..I get what u r saying..sadly aggression is defined as passion rather than mutual understanding and care..