Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#79|Shaadi Ka Galat Faisla (GREEN) - Page 23

Originally posted by: blissfulcanyon

Okay wow, this episode got my heart pounding abnormally. That last scene was beyond intense and it got me in my feelings ngl. I'm actually shOOk.

As much as I agree that it shouldn't have been public, I will gladly accept this over having the rest of the family members butting in between their conversations. This confrontation was MUCH needed otherwise they would keep going in circles because both of them just trigger each other in a certain way which keeps them from thinking and breaking down the barriers in their marriage.

Again, both Raavi and Shiva are at fault. Neither of them realize their faults in terms of what's going haywire in their marriage. Neither realize how their actions hurt each other. Shiva needs to control his anger (and I do believe Raavi could be a voice of reason to reign in his anger; and the sort of calmness he needs in his wrath when their relationship has improved ofc. It will be beautiful to watch)

Now, as much as I despise separation tracks with my whole being (I'm emo like that), the union of a pair (in ITV) doesn't happen without distance between them, and anyone can see that ShiVi need to be apart to learn a few important lessons. Currently, neither of them understand each other's worth nor do they value much about one another. It's not because they don't feel anything. It's because they won't let themselves introspect because they're always around each other! And all they've done their whole life is fight with each other. It's like second nature for them. They don't know how to communicate and because they've never felt each other's absence in their respective lives, they take each other forgranted. Knowing one another from childhood, there have to be some deep-rooted feelings they have for one another (other than hatred). It doesn't have to be love, could be anything and I believe their feelings have changed after marriage (we know about Shiva's side but Raavi's is still a bit iffy. Today, her words were as sharp as knives, and I hope she gives herself the chance to truly sit down and think about her marriage and what she truly feels about Shiva and what she wants from him).

The main point is that they both need to evaluate all their actions and words to understand where they went wrong and what their worth is to each other. Without this, they can not move on. This is a great chance for the makers to really dig deep into these characters, there is SO much potential. They could maybe even serve us some flashbacks to really pack a punch into these ShiVi scenes (I would totally love this!) After we get an insight into their thoughts, communication between them will be VITAL. I'm just truly afraid the CV's might fluff it up. (I also hope they don't stretch out the separation for months)

On another note, I might be abnormal, but I liked the fight scene (I swear I'm not violent) 😆 Also, someone please throw Anita off a cliff already.

@bold- that's the main reason I've been wanting a separation track since a month ago 😆

Right now, I'm thinking why would they fall in love with each other?? When Shiva asked her today ki shadi kyu ki, Raavi only says ki woh acha insaan hai... can she love him for that? Even for Shiva, usse Raavi kyu achi lagne lagi? Shadi usne sirf Dhara bhabhi ke liye ki...So does he like her because she loves his family?

I know it may be too much for ITV but I really hope we get some good introspection for both of them.

Originally posted by: Namita-M

Thank you!! Since, I’m a biased Shiva fan, I’ll be here 🤗

I do miss chatting with you all.

I agree, there is a huge Raavi fan base here, I am one of them too , also like Shiva equally, but since Shiva has only handful of them like you, Aaliya and Sri, supporting him would like to join you all to increase his support base😆

My guilty pleasure is watching Shiva go all out on Chomu🤣 I was cheering for him throughout

Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes

She called him that after the wedding when she felt he married her to take revenge on her and h affirmed that on their wedding night. And then she said that to taunt him with kidnapping MU.

Pre-wedding and during haldi ceremony, it didn't give me that kind of vibe.

But yes, if she were to use that as a taunt when she feels she was wringed then, she does have Superiority complex.

she calling him jaahil and gawar today, which was uncalled for IMO. she should have used words like violent, rude or out-of-control. Why jaahil and gawar?

Let's pour in some woke knowledge here:

1. Junglee- it's a casteist slur as it's an insult to tribal people who are known as Jungle Dwellers.

2. Ganwar- the origin of the phrase is from Gaon or village. Calling someone ganwaf is shaming village people.

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

she calling him jaahil and gawar today, which was uncalled for IMO. she should have used words like violent, rude or out-of-control. Why jaahil and gawar?

That part I agree! It didn't make sense and was uncalled for. However, I took that as heat of the moment because those three words are used together by everyone, so she's kind of clumped them together. Doesn't make it right. Just trying to guess why she said those two words as well.

Originally posted by: mpks1

I agree, there is a huge Raavi fan base here, I am one of them too , also like Shiva equally, but since Shiva has only handful of them like you, Aaliya and Sri, supporting him would like to join you all to increase his support base😆

Welcome to the club Prema! I love both Shiva and Raavi.. but Shiva more than Raavi 😆

Everyone here except a handful speaks in favor of Raavi like you said, that is why I end up speaking in favor of Shiva most of the times😆

Originally posted by: mpks1

I agree, there is a huge Raavi fan base here, I am one of them too , also like Shiva equally, but since Shiva has only handful of them like you, Aaliya and Sri, supporting him would like to join you all to increase his support base😆

wow I feel so left out 😭 dhoka

Originally posted by: ItsmePriya

His hands🤣🤣

Tara Pandya is happy 😆

Tara Pandya is ready to come into existence 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Transference

Let's pour in some woke knowledge here:

1. Junglee- it's a casteist slur as it's an insult to tribal people who are known as Jungle Dwellers.

2. Ganwar- the origin of the phrase is from Gaon or village. Calling someone ganwaf is shaming village people.

Knew the second one. I thought junglee referred to someone who's wild and has animalistic traits.

The way he went ballistic when he was beating up the guys with that roar, I thought that was a bit junglee, because he could have driven the point home without getting into violence.