Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#79|Shaadi Ka Galat Faisla (GREEN) - Page 17

Originally posted by: SlytherInMe.

ughhh this is what annoyed the fcuk out of me too

raavi always wait for someone to complete their thoughts and then defend shiva or say something

bro as soon as Sneha/Rohan had opened their mouths, you should have shut them down right then and there

there is nothing cute about standing there with a shocked expression on your face while your friends say all the nonsense in the world

@bold- EXACTLY MY POINT 🤦‍♀️

Originally posted by: Swastika34

Mtlb yeh sab to theek par direct aake muh pe bol dega aise jungllee, jahil!! Aisa kaun krta hain? 🤷‍♀️🙂

Doggy Dogs hain sab ke sab 🤢

andhe aur jealous ke saath badtameez aur inhuman bhi 🤪

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

It was green for me! I liked the episode.. the only thing I did not like was that we lost our original Shiva after he fell for Raavi. I just want him to be back.

Yes! I genuinely liked that Shiva ❤️

However, I do think a lot of his recent decisions are stemming from his inferiority complex and his insecurities. It doesn't help that he lives in a house with his brother, the "Prince Charming" that Raavi wished to marry. I think after falling in love, he just wanted to move on, but when he realized Raavi didn't reciprocate his feelings, he didn't know how to control his emotions, and with each remark, it became harder and harder for him to control the anger.

I hope we get the mischievous boy back. He needs to love himself and be comfortable with himself

Originally posted by: ForeverForU

Raavi dint hear them, did she?? The inferiority complex part was wrong but she was angry..also she was already near her breaking point due to Shiva..I saw this outburst coming..she made some correct points and said some ugly things too..Shiva will also go one step ahead tomorrow..bring it on I say🔥

I'm sure she will come around..Raavi cannot stay angry for long..I hope she stays angry and angsty this time though

I didn't think her pointing out Shiva's inferiority complex was wrong - he does have one and it needed to be said. Especially since he goes around saying it doesn't affect him, but we all saw how deeply everything affected him. What she doesn't realize that his inferiority complex stems a little bit from her superiority complex. She has made comments here and there that shows she thinks of herself to be a bit better than Shiva.

I want her to be angry and angsty about whatever Shiva has said to her - because he has hurt her so damn much as well but I also want her to reflect on how much she has hurt him as well.

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

Doggy Dogs hain sab ke sab 🤢

andhe aur jealous ke saath badtameez aur inhuman bhi 🤪

Sacchi ink saath rhe kar na Raavi aisi bann gyi!! 🙂

Originally posted by: deeps07

Yea .I agree totally on this..she doesn't knw shiva from heart..she just knws what he is showing outside...

ps..Mkbkb?😆

mami ki behen ki beti 😆

Originally posted by: mpks1

We all thought Shiva has insecurities, Raavi had a light bulb moment and termed it inferiority complex.

Insecurity is feeling unsafe and uncertain.

Inferiority complex is feeling others as better than you and you are not as good as others.

A feeling of inferiority will also lead to insecurity. When a person does not have faith in himself he becomes prone to feeling insecure.

Insecurity and inferiority are not same but related.

This proves what Piu said, Raavi thinks too highly of herself and her friends😕

💯 well said! ❤️

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

I'm probably in the minority here, but I actually wish they have a serious, full month separation track. Today's episode was enough to tell me that they had a toxic relationship, and that Raavi is perhaps the most confusing character in this entire show. Saying she wants to move on, but not willing to address Shiva's baggage. She wants a perfect husband... and I don't think a one week separation will really make her realize that "perfect" is hard to achieve.

Meanwhile, Shiva's insecurities is causing his anger to become uncontrolled, he needs time by himself, he needs to distance himself from Raavi (and the issues that cause him to feel insecure) so he can introspect healthily. The tree scene where he is all by himself (which is upcoming) will be the first step, but he also needs some time at home where he can be Shiva and not Shiva, Raavi's husband.

Marriage was pushed on both of them when they least expected it. They didn't have the time to process. They didn't have the time to talk about their expectations. It reminds me of Alice's recent story where she says it is important to talk about preferences, wishes, expectations, and Shiva and Raavi have done none of that. They really need time to heal, because every time they were together, they refused to talk, open up, and understand each other. They need to understand that communication, respect, and trust are all important things in a relationship.

And maybe I am a little sadistic, but even if Raavi comes back home, I do wish Shiva and Raavi secretly proceed with a divorce track. Their blow up was intense, and as an audience we might wish for them to be together, but if I was either Shiva or Raavi's friend, I would say they need a marriage counselor, and if that doesn't work, a divorce where they can find the perfect spouse.

Well said, and definitely not in the minority here. I want a month long seperation too. They just have too much to realize and understand. They need time to process all of it and start a fresh. And not fresh like Raavi suggested, but fresh as in coming on middle ground and truly knowing and desiring what one wants from this relationship (if they want it) and work on every aspect of relationship. Not just love, not just physical aspect for kids, etc.

And totally agree. If this was a fried or family member, I would have told them marriage counselor and then divorce if it doesn't fix issue. Their relationship as is very unhealthy and toxic. At this rate, they'd drive each other to madness or worse.

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

Yes! I genuinely liked that Shiva ❤️

However, I do think a lot of his recent decisions are stemming from his inferiority complex and his insecurities. It doesn't help that he lives in a house with his brother, the "Prince Charming" that Raavi wished to marry. I think after falling in love, he just wanted to move on, but when he realized Raavi didn't reciprocate his feelings, he didn't know how to control his emotions, and with each remark, it became harder and harder for him to control the anger.

I hope we get the mischievous boy back. He needs to love himself and be comfortable with himself

Actually once he clears his head of his inferiority complex or insecurities.. and wants ravi back ..I sort of want him to go to mami house and irritate mami a lot...and with ravi in a romantic way. 😆..the confident funny shiva back..

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

I'm probably in the minority here, but I actually wish they have a serious, full month separation track. Today's episode was enough to tell me that they had a toxic relationship, and that Raavi is perhaps the most confusing character in this entire show. Saying she wants to move on, but not willing to address Shiva's baggage. She wants a perfect husband... and I don't think a one week separation will really make her realize that "perfect" is hard to achieve.

Meanwhile, Shiva's insecurities is causing his anger to become uncontrolled, he needs time by himself, he needs to distance himself from Raavi (and the issues that cause him to feel insecure) so he can introspect healthily. The tree scene where he is all by himself (which is upcoming) will be the first step, but he also needs some time at home where he can be Shiva and not Shiva, Raavi's husband.

Marriage was pushed on both of them when they least expected it. They didn't have the time to process. They didn't have the time to talk about their expectations. It reminds me of Alice's recent story where she says it is important to talk about preferences, wishes, expectations, and Shiva and Raavi have done none of that. They really need time to heal, because every time they were together, they refused to talk, open up, and understand each other. They need to understand that communication, respect, and trust are all important things in a relationship.

And maybe I am a little sadistic, but even if Raavi comes back home, I do wish Shiva and Raavi secretly proceed with a divorce track. Their blow up was intense, and as an audience we might wish for them to be together, but if I was either Shiva or Raavi's friend, I would say they need a marriage counselor, and if that doesn't work, a divorce where they can find the perfect spouse.

Yep. If they take this time to start falling in love process, realisation, confession then im all in for it but if they decide to stretch it by adding in a third angle then jealousy etc then there's no use of anything. Although I would like to see raavi experience jealousy this time but again I don't want another oily in the story😵 God knows what they have in stores for us but im hoping after this separation track things becomes bearable for them and for us as viewers.

@Bold that's too logical for ITV😆