Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#79|Shaadi Ka Galat Faisla (GREEN) - Page 13

Originally posted by: deeps07

Today it was a start..she atleast understood that its his inferiority complex and not his anger on her for sneha..so I am beginning to have hopes frm her..she will come around..😳

We all thought Shiva has insecurities, Raavi had a light bulb moment and termed it inferiority complex.

Insecurity is feeling unsafe and uncertain.

Inferiority complex is feeling others as better than you and you are not as good as others.

A feeling of inferiority will also lead to insecurity. When a person does not have faith in himself he becomes prone to feeling insecure.

Insecurity and inferiority are not same but related.

This proves what Piu said, Raavi thinks too highly of herself and her friends😕

Originally posted by: deeps07

Ofcoursw they are. ..the way shiva said tho just thunder shaadi karthi before giving that idiot a punch🤣..it felt so deep frm my heart. .really. what did that creep think. Even dev feels better infront of that creep tbh..

Honestly everything aside but Shiva saying meri biwi, tujhse shaadi karti, pani pilayega etc was the best.

Itni mast feeling aayi na kash situation bhi favourable hoti

Originally posted by: Roohani27

I hope they don't drag the separation track for a month, that would be too much😵 max one week is fine

I'm probably in the minority here, but I actually wish they have a serious, full month separation track. Today's episode was enough to tell me that they had a toxic relationship, and that Raavi is perhaps the most confusing character in this entire show. Saying she wants to move on, but not willing to address Shiva's baggage. She wants a perfect husband... and I don't think a one week separation will really make her realize that "perfect" is hard to achieve.

Meanwhile, Shiva's insecurities is causing his anger to become uncontrolled, he needs time by himself, he needs to distance himself from Raavi (and the issues that cause him to feel insecure) so he can introspect healthily. The tree scene where he is all by himself (which is upcoming) will be the first step, but he also needs some time at home where he can be Shiva and not Shiva, Raavi's husband.

Marriage was pushed on both of them when they least expected it. They didn't have the time to process. They didn't have the time to talk about their expectations. It reminds me of Alice's recent story where she says it is important to talk about preferences, wishes, expectations, and Shiva and Raavi have done none of that. They really need time to heal, because every time they were together, they refused to talk, open up, and understand each other. They need to understand that communication, respect, and trust are all important things in a relationship.

And maybe I am a little sadistic, but even if Raavi comes back home, I do wish Shiva and Raavi secretly proceed with a divorce track. Their blow up was intense, and as an audience we might wish for them to be together, but if I was either Shiva or Raavi's friend, I would say they need a marriage counselor, and if that doesn't work, a divorce where they can find the perfect spouse.

Originally posted by: Raingoddess

Both Raavi and Shiva made valid points when it came to their wedding. It’s so sad that neither of them truly made this decision yet they are the ones suffering. But everything that happened after was all on them.

After a long time, the takkar seemed equal! That is what prevents the scene from being toxic. I’m so glad Raavi spoke up about Shiva’s inferiority complex. The Shiva she knows and admires is the one who takes immense pride himself. If he had insecurities about how Raavi views him, all this would have played out differently. But like she said, no matter how much he pretends otherwise… he cares about what others say about him. It affects him a lot. I love her for saying this. I’m not happy with the slap because I don’t like physical abuse, be it from a man or woman. But I could see what prompted Raavi to react this way. What Shiva said was disgusting! And wrong! I just hope once he makes it up for his words and actions, she mentions the slap and promises to never raise her hand again.

Raavi’s friends were awful! But I’m not longer surprised by them. I do believe Shiva went overboard with the hitting. It was inhumane but they started it. They could have offered to help and then back away when it was clear Raavi didn’t want it. It was obvious that they took the opportunity to hit Shiva where it hurts. The intention was wrong. I did like when Shiva mentioned that Raavi knows him bachpan se. it brought a glimpse of the unapologetic Shiva. While I feel Shiva said a lot of things he shouldn’t have, I’m interested to see how he makes it up to Raavi and how she assures him and makes him feel loved.

They both let out all their frustration. Now what remains to be seen is how they come back stronger and healthier.

THIS!!!

the best part was that they both went back and forth, pouring out their true feelings without any inhibitions

it was ugly and will only get uglier but this is exactly what they need, there is no point in beating around the bush

raavi and shiva both need to realize what they did wrong to each other, what do they exactly want, and what can they do now moving forward

I am excited to see how they are going to handle this (not too much because then I crash and burn) but I want to see introspection from both sides - in fact, more raavi this time than shiva

utilize Alice - she can do it

Originally posted by: Roohani27

I hope they don't drag the separation track for a month, that would be too much😵 max one week is fine

1 month toh waise hi waste krdiya aab bass aur na dekha jayega par KD ne bhi kaha aabhi toh bohot kuch baaki hain, aabhi toh apne kuch dekha hi nhi blah blah... So iska mtlb abhi MU khatam nhi hoga!! 🙂😭💔

Originally posted by: SlytherInMe.

I couldn't understand either 🤣 chalo the guys said it in jealousy I'll take it but the girl? like hello are you blind? do you need see the wet wet hot af hunk in front of you? LIKE WHATTTTT

Woh bhi jealous hogi you know angor na. Mile Toh angor khatte h sab humari tarah aankhein sekh k nahi reh sakte na

Originally posted by: Namita-M

I agree. Raavi wouldn’t understand, not in a million years. Him saying so would do the trick. Let’s hope so.

We might just get a surprise😆Raavi cares for Shiva..the way she said "Shiva Tu thik hai na" before checking her own self..She just needs to realise her own feelings..and we need Separation for that

Originally posted by: funny_fubar

💯 Totally agree with you.

Honestly I always wished Shiva never changes- he picks up the pieces and figures out how awesome he is, and also finds a person giddily in love with him 😐 I wish he never has to look back at the Raavi chapter.

And this has nothing to do with Raavi becoming jealous- she can find someone she really likes, without any emotional baggage. Ya being a divorcee is tough, but that should never be an excuse. I know divorcees from my mom's age who happily remarried- my own aunt was one.

I know everyone says she does so much for the Pandya family and forgave them easily- but somhow I cannot convince myself to care as much. 😐 I would rather have had her angry at the people who wronged her, and forgiven them after holding them accountable 🤷‍♀️

💯 very well said! Completely agree with you

Shiva should never change. I wish he realizes his own worth without Raavi's validation, otherwise that would be sad 💔

Similarly, Raavi should have held everyone who did wrong by her accountable for their mistakes! The only people who benefitted by her quick forgiveness were the people who wronged her in the first place 💔

Originally posted by: Namita-M

Andhe hain aur jealous bhi. I’m shocked that Raavi has such friends. 🤢

I’m not to be honest. I made a post about this the other day. It’s because she has such friends that no one ever pointed out what was wrong with her fairytale world and dreams about Dev. And explains why she has no other goal in life except to be Pandya Bahu. One shouldn’t be judged by their friends but the people you attract and build relationships, esp friendships with say a lot about you. I don’t think Raavi was much different from them in college… except she actually has a kind heart.

Originally posted by: ShinyShine

I don't think it will happen, this week only Alice posted a story and it looked like she is in Pandya house and now PS aren't shooting 15 days ahead. So we will get it next week itself.

So I don't think it will be long ulta I feel Suman or Dhara r gonna bring back Raavi. & Nothing will again happen in Shivi's relationship.

Pata chale separation ho hi na raste se hi wo wapas pandya niwas chali jaye you know mami k ghar k bahar aake usko realise ho ki yaha toh aake aur bawal hoga chalo wapas🤣😂😂