Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#79|Shaadi Ka Galat Faisla (GREEN) - Page 14

Originally posted by: mpks1

We all thought Shiva has insecurities, Raavi had a light bulb moment and termed it inferiority complex.

Insecurity is feeling unsafe and uncertain.

Inferiority complex is feeling others as better than you and you are not as good as others.

A feeling of inferiority will also lead to insecurity. When a person does not have faith in himself he becomes prone to feeling insecure.

Insecurity and inferiority are not same but related.

This proves what Piu said, Raavi thinks too highly of herself and her friends😕

I am so freaking proud of her but I agree as well, Raavi does think too highly of herself and her friends - especially about the education and the so called manners that they have received

where were her friends' manners when they were joking about Rohan taking Raaiv along with him and running away 🤢

I hope Raavi realizes that one her friends are good for nothing and two the things she prides herself in don't matter in the long run if you can't be there for your partner

Originally posted by: SlytherInMe.

I couldn't understand either 🤣 chalo the guys said it in jealousy I'll take it but the girl? like hello are you blind? do you need see the wet wet hot af hunk in front of you? LIKE WHATTTTT

you're the only reason I'm finding this bearable 🤣

Originally posted by: ShinyShine

Honestly everything aside but Shiva saying meri biwi, tujhse shaadi karti, pani pilayega etc was the best.

Itni mast feeling aayi na kash situation bhi favourable hoti

I found it so so hot ☺️ this type of jealousy - it's over the top but so hot and passionate ☺️☺️

I cannot wait to gif tonight 🤣

Originally posted by: ItsmePriya

Sheru same same but different different🤣🤣

Omg.. what an apt pic you found👏🤣

Originally posted by: SlytherInMe.

THIS!!!

the best part was that they both went back and forth, pouring out their true feelings without any inhibitions

it was ugly and will only get uglier but this is exactly what they need, there is no point in beating around the bush

raavi and shiva both need to realize what they did wrong to each other, what do they exactly want, and what can they do now moving forward

I am excited to see how they are going to handle this (not too much because then I crash and burn) but I want to see introspection from both sides - in fact, more raavi this time than shiva

utilize Alice - she can do it

I completely agree! I want the focus to be on Raavi and her thoughts. There is still so much we are simply guessing when it comes to her. We need to hear her thoughts and she herself needs to figure what she wants in life.

Originally posted by: Swastika34

Mtlb yeh sab to theek par direct aake muh pe bol dega aise jungllee, jahil!! Aisa kaun krta hain? 🤷‍♀️🙂

Raavi gave them those rights, period. If she had stopped when Sneha did it, right in front of him, this would not have happened. Then her friends to continue to bad mouth him, she waits for them to finish, then says Shut up. What’s the use. The only way you can stop them if Raavi had slapped one of them especially tje Rohan guy who had a crush on her. It is all tje question of liberty and freedom, how much you give your friends to discuss your personal life,

Did she ever clear her standing about Shiva to them after marriage, no, right? So they al think she has been forced into this marriage. Even the other day she only talked about how handsome Shiva is and uska sserat, never talked to them about whether she is happy or not in this marriage

I want to bring this famous quote again which I posted in the DT, “ Your friends are who you are”😕

Originally posted by: Swastika34

Exactly yarr!! I mean just look at him-  🔥🔥☺️☺️

Kitna hott lag rha tha Shiva!! Meri toh kal se nazar nhi hatt rhi hain aur yeh log pta nhi kya hain!! 🤷‍♀️

Aaj toh mujhe bhi bada hot shot laga with those bikhre bikhre baal 😍😍🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😍

Originally posted by: mpks1

We all thought Shiva has insecurities, Raavi had a light bulb moment and termed it inferiority complex.

Insecurity is feeling unsafe and uncertain.

Inferiority complex is feeling others as better than you and you are not as good as others.

A feeling of inferiority will also lead to insecurity. When a person does not have faith in himself he becomes prone to feeling insecure.

Insecurity and inferiority are not same but related.

This proves what Piu said, Raavi thinks too highly of herself and her friends😕

But shiva has both inferiority complex and insecurities..as u said..one led to other..

I agree ravis friends are BS people.. one needs to clear cut be away frm them as much as possible..but what if she was the kind of girl who was popular in college and was friendly and social with everyone in the college....these guys are behaving over friendly with her becz of her nature of being very open and social when none of them were even worthy enough to be invited by her for her wedding..

I do agree she is thinking she knows it all abt shiva..but that she needs to work on..this separation will be for that...hopefully.

Originally posted by: Transference

If Shiva has an inferiority complex, Raavi has a superiority complex.

Yet to watch the episode!

Raavi has poured all her frustration towards Shiva post marriage too.

@bold: 💯 you said it! she considers herself superior to Shiva. To her he is not an equal. And until she thinks this way, there is no future for their relationship. Shiva does not deserve such a marriage. And neither will it make Raavi happy.

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

I'm probably in the minority here, but I actually wish they have a serious, full month separation track. Today's episode was enough to tell me that they had a toxic relationship, and that Raavi is perhaps the most confusing character in this entire show. Saying she wants to move on, but not willing to address Shiva's baggage. She wants a perfect husband... and I don't think a one week separation will really make her realize that "perfect" is hard to achieve.

Meanwhile, Shiva's insecurities is causing his anger to become uncontrolled, he needs time by himself, he needs to distance himself from Raavi (and the issues that cause him to feel insecure) so he can introspect healthily. The tree scene where he is all by himself (which is upcoming) will be the first step, but he also needs some time at home where he can be Shiva and not Shiva, Raavi's husband.

Marriage was pushed on both of them when they least expected it. They didn't have the time to process. They didn't have the time to talk about their expectations. It reminds me of Alice's recent story where she says it is important to talk about preferences, wishes, expectations, and Shiva and Raavi have done none of that. They really need time to heal, because every time they were together, they refused to talk, open up, and understand each other. They need to understand that communication, respect, and trust are all important things in a relationship.

And maybe I am a little sadistic, but even if Raavi comes back home, I do wish Shiva and Raavi secretly proceed with a divorce track. Their blow up was intense, and as an audience we might wish for them to be together, but if I was either Shiva or Raavi's friend, I would say they need a marriage counselor, and if that doesn't work, a divorce where they can find the perfect spouse.

THIS!!! I want exactly this and honestly don't mind even more than a month of a separation because I know that every time raavi or shiva make progress with their thoughts - one or another thing will happen which will hinder it

for example, maami will definitely taunt shiva or dhara and shiva will lose it once again and it will go down the drain

dhara and suman will try to bring back raavi and ruin any of the progress their

I wish along with their separation, they had a separation from their families 🤢 seriously none of them let anyone think things through by themselves, always overpiling themselves on others because they have nothing better to do

this will be the perfect time for dhara to focus on her tara but noooooo conveniently this is going to be the exact time where her focus shifts onto shivi