Originally posted by: Mountains_Lakes
And that's good and sad at the same time.
Bris want their wives to be like Dhara. At least Shiva's definitely said that. But when has he been like Gaumbi to wish for someone like Dhara?
And in diff note, GauRa though don't need to interfere in their lives, Gaumbi should have one Convo with them on how should they treat and respect their wives!
@bold, I think Dev and Shiva wanted different qualities of Dhara in their own wives.
In terms of Dhara, from the haveli episodes where he says, "I don't care what others say about me, but I do care what you say or think of me" it's clear that Dhara has a special place in his heart, and I hypothesize the reason to be that Dhara accepted him fully as who he is... with all his strings attached. Even if the town commented on him being smelly, uneducated, junglee, she never did, and I think he respected that and wanted his wife to have that trait.
Based on the show, it's clear that Shiva wants a wife who can accept who he is, someone who loves his family just as much as him, and someone who is romantically in love with him... And I think over the years, he realized Dhara had a few of the traits he wanted most (especially the first and second), so I think that's where his wish of wanting a wife to be like Dhara began...