Ishwari needs therapy - Page 2

I am sorry to say I don’t think dev or Ishwari needs therapy. If a person does mistake one time, that’s okay but if keep repeating its not the mistake. They are just taking u forgranted. Every separation dev and Sona has is because of ishu-maata. I am fed up of her. If its me i would take a stand and refuse to live with her. Sona should ask dev to choose between sona-kids or his mother. He can take care of her, get kids to meet her on weekends but i think she should not be involved in parenting. Because she will make kids like dev: spineless, easy to manipulate and someone who is not capable to think independently.

I don’t like maami. But have to say she might be a better motger than Ishwari for sure.

Originally posted by: 07RB

I am sorry to say I don’t think dev or Ishwari needs therapy. If a person does mistake one time, that’s okay but if keep repeating its not the mistake. They are just taking u forgranted. Every separation dev and Sona has is because of ishu-maata. I am fed up of her. If its me i would take a stand and refuse to live with her. Sona should ask dev to choose between sona-kids or his mother. He can take care of her, get kids to meet her on weekends but i think she should not be involved in parenting. Because she will make kids like dev: spineless, easy to manipulate and someone who is not capable to think independently.

I don’t like maami. But have to say she might be a better motger than Ishwari for sure.

That's what a personality disorder is. You keep doing the same things in a circle, you keep repeating the same mistakes until you get profesional help. Here in this case therapy. Both Ishwari and Dev require tons of therapy. Poverty causes major psychological issues, they haven't healed from that phase, none of them have. Even if Sonakshi gives him ultimatum, it won't help anyone. Toxic people will remain toxic no matter where you live, you have to create boundaries within that house, you have to take a stand infront of her. You think Dev will not see his mother every day, he won't talk to her everyday, even if he lives in another house, because even a five minute conversation will flip his mind. He needs independence emotionally that will happen after therapy. He needs to realise healthy boundaries, again therapy. I agree Ishwari needs to stop meddling with the parenting and hence she needs therapy. All Dixit family members need therapy. They all need help. Ishwari might be a narcissist, and Dev probably has borderline personality disorder, the inconsistency in his character kinda explains that. Even Neha deserves therapy.

Originally posted by: Koolcat21

Ishwari has been a witch from the beginning. I want Sona to insist with Dev that the legal paperwork go according to their plan as Ayushman Dev Dixit or else this whole name change will have a bad effect on Ayush & their relationship with him. All this just to please a crazy woman. Poor Ayush will feel more alienated in that house after this incident as he will realise that everything in that house only happens according to Ishwari. He was getting so comfortable and trusting with Sona but that too will change now

I sincerely hope they go with Ayushman Rohit Verma itself, because in what world is it a legal requirement that the father's name must be attached to your legal name? Like Dev said- "naam jo bhi ho, beta toh mera hi hai na?" My own name in fact, has no trace of my father's name (not even his last name), despite my parents being very happily married for the past 25 years (I'm 23).

This Dixit family is so insane overall. We all know Ishwari is a horrible toxic woman. She even knew her daughters would have an issue with it, and made an excuse not to tell them. GKB is a joker as is. But Maamaji? He knows this is wrong, he knows it's happening without Dev or Sona's knowledge- how is he letting it happen? Why wouldn't he at least call Dev? What a stupid bunch these Dixits are.

Originally posted by: them2d

I sincerely hope they go with Ayushman Rohit Verma itself, because in what world is it a legal requirement that the father's name must be attached to your legal name? Like Dev said- "naam jo bhi ho, beta toh mera hi hai na?" My own name in fact, has no trace of my father's name (not even his last name), despite my parents being very happily married for the past 25 years (I'm 23).

This Dixit family is so insane overall. We all know Ishwari is a horrible toxic woman. She even knew her daughters would have an issue with it, and made an excuse not to tell them. GKB is a joker as is. But Maamaji? He knows this is wrong, he knows it's happening without Dev or Sona's knowledge- how is he letting it happen? Why wouldn't he at least call Dev? What a stupid bunch these Dixits are.

If you watch the previous seasons carefully, Mamaji has never really intervened or solved any problem even though he observes everything & understands everything. Most often, his wise observation & conveyance of it where it wasn't needed have actually caused trouble.

For example,

1. When Dev told Ishwari about Devakshi's relation, Ishwari was unhappy, but she didn't know why. Mamaji came & specifically asked whether she was afraid that aab bete ka pyar baantna padhega. Which I think made Ishwari see Sonakshi as her competitor & make matter so many times worse than it already was.

2. When Ishwari downed those pills it was again Mamaji who swiftly put the idea in Dev's head that he has failed to notice his mother's pain, his mother's disliking towards Sonakshi. This is what made Dev take the rash decision of breaking up instantly.

3. When Ishwari was upset that Dev was addressing Asha as Maa, it was again Mamaji who pointed it out to Dev that Dev calling someone else Maa have hurt Ishwari. Which resulted in Dev calling Asha Aunty.

& so on....

Mamaji is only mature & understands the situation better, but at the end of the day he wants to keep his sister safe & happy, irrespective of whether she is doing right or wrong. I thought very highly of Mamaji when I first watched season 1....but after rewatching it few times, I have realised that he is also a very problematic character. So I don't expect him to actually do anything that might solve a problem.