Ishwari needs therapy

I know everyone must be fuming at Ishwari today. I can't believe this woman. Aisa pyar hota hai kya? So many dark colours of her personality came out today, through her words. We saw her dominant trait of manipulation. Whether she does it consciously or unconsciously is debatable ( because most people who are toxic are not aware of it), but that is how she maintains her relationships. Like when ayush said clearly that he doesn't want to listen to her, she said that he should listen to her dadu who has told him to listen to everyone in this house. Obviously ayush is a kid and then can't logically argue with this.

Similarly, she knows that Dev and Sona wouldn't be happy about this and there can be trouble. That is why she does this in their absence. In fact, Dev ko bhi nahi bataya and did it in his absence. How did she know she won't face any backlash from Dev? Because that's how she has carved their relationship that she always the upper hand and him gaslights especially Dev speaking against her. Even gkb knew this right? Ki Dev se koi problem nahi hogi?

Phir ayi Sonakshi ko batane ki baat. She knows where she will face resistance, from Sonakshi. That's why she didn't even have the guts to talk to her herself. Dev se bulwaya. That he will make Sonakshi understand. In fact she knew ayush is sad but didn't pay attention to that as well.

We all know this I think but will say it again, ishwari has control issues and is manipulative and toxic for the people around her, especially Dev. Especially him because he has borne the brunt of it as her son. I wish they would send her to a psychologist or psychiatrist. She really needs that help because children can't live in peace in such an environment. It's bordering on abuse now.

One other thing I wanted to point out is Sonakshi's reaction. As a wife toh she is used to being sidelined and whatnot. After so many years, she has just reached a point where she can clearly say ki ma galat thi, we should have been told first. Which she didn't do in the previous seasons. Today we saw her feeling helpless as a mother as well because Ishwari is so overbearing and controlling. I had heard mothers say that they don't have the freedom to bring up their kids as they would like to but I don't know if Ishwari level ka koi hai. It's great that she didn't go back to the house, just that she should have gone back to take her kids with her.

Tomorrow ayush hugs Dev and calls Sona mumma🥺🥺. Bechara how scared he must be..

Ishwari has been a witch from the beginning. I want Sona to insist with Dev that the legal paperwork go according to their plan as Ayushman Dev Dixit orelse this whole name change will have a bad effect on Ayush & their relationship with him. All this just to please a crazy woman. Poor Ayush will feel more alienated in that house after this incident as he will realise that everything in that house only happens according to Ishwari. He was getting so comfortable and trusting with Sona but that too will change now

Ishwari doesn't have love, it's downright ownership attitude.

Had she felt love she'd have let it go at least for sake of #merapota. No chith bhi meri path bhi meri, Dev bewakoof toh hai hi.

She definitely needs therapy, she's cunningly sick.

Ishuworry needs some therapy she is a neurotic patient, crazy woman very manipulative.

Sona should have taken all three children and gone away for while at least!

Poor Ayush went the mad mansion !

Originally posted by: YASHO1997

I know everyone must be fuming at Ishwari today. I can't believe this woman. Aisa pyar hota hai kya? So many dark colours of her personality came out today, through her words. We saw her dominant trait of manipulation. Whether she does it consciously or unconsciously is debatable ( because most people who are toxic are not aware of it), but that is how she maintains her relationships. Like when ayush said clearly that he doesn't want to listen to her, she said that he should listen to her dadu who has told him to listen to everyone in this house. Obviously ayush is a kid and then can't logically argue with this.

Similarly, she knows that Dev and Sona wouldn't be happy about this and there can be trouble. That is why she does this in their absence. In fact, Dev ko bhi nahi bataya and did it in his absence. How did she know she won't face any backlash from Dev? Because that's how she has carved their relationship that she always the upper hand and him gaslights especially Dev speaking against her. Even gkb knew this right? Ki Dev se koi problem nahi hogi?

Phir ayi Sonakshi ko batane ki baat. She knows where she will face resistance, from Sonakshi. That's why she didn't even have the guts to talk to her herself. Dev se bulwaya. That he will make Sonakshi understand. In fact she knew ayush is sad but didn't pay attention to that as well.

We all know this I think but will say it again, ishwari has control issues and is manipulative and toxic for the people around her, especially Dev. Especially him because he has borne the brunt of it as her son. I wish they would send her to a psychologist or psychiatrist. She really needs that help because children can't live in peace in such an environment. It's bordering on abuse now.

One other thing I wanted to point out is Sonakshi's reaction. As a wife toh she is used to being sidelined and whatnot. After so many years, she has just reached a point where she can clearly say ki ma galat thi, we should have been told first. Which she didn't do in the previous seasons. Today we saw her feeling helpless as a mother as well because Ishwari is so overbearing and controlling. I had heard mothers say that they don't have the freedom to bring up their kids as they would like to but I don't know if Ishwari level ka koi hai. It's great that she didn't go back to the house, just that she should have gone back to take her kids with her.

Tomorrow ayush hugs Dev and calls Sona mumma🥺🥺. Bechara how scared he must be..

Ayush hugs dev but it’s shubh who calls her mumma on the phone 😂😂

Dev needs therapy first

I’m fuming at dev. Why is he not taking a stand for his son? He knows that the child ran away for exactly this reason. Isn’t he scared that it might happen again. I know I will. He is such a wuss!

Dev need therapy not eshwari. If dev could stand for his children, Esh wouldnot dare to do it.

He has phobea of listening to his mother n her emotion. That need to be treated.

And jai ho writers ki. What non sense track is this..

Ishwari is a narcissist. Every narcissist parent has a golden child who they think are an extension of them, for Ishwari it's Dev and now she wants to extend it to Ayush. I strongly believe that grandparents should pamper their grandchildren, guide them, love them but they should not parent them, they have their parents for that, and if the parents have set some rules regarding their kids under no circumstances should a grandparent break that. My own dadi and dadu never went against my parents if any decision that they took for me. Yes they used to console me when I used to get scolded but that's about it. My mom was incharge of our lives. But then again my dadi and mom were best friends.

Dev is unable to keep a balance between his mom and wife, no one is superior or inferior than the other, both have their own EQUALLY important place. But your children are your responsibility, you brought them into this world, they depend on you, you need to protect them, stand up for them, here Dev needs to stand up for his child. His mom's feelings aren't more important than his kids wellbeing.

It's hard to believe a person like Dev is a big businessman. I mean diplomacy is one of the traits of good businessman. The guy lacks it bigtime.

Originally posted by: Hari73

Dev need therapy not eshwari. If dev could stand for his children, Esh wouldnot dare to do it.

He has phobea of listening to his mother n her emotion. That need to be treated.

And jai ho writers ki. What non sense track is this..

Both needs therapy

Maa & beta both must get psychiatric help