Good listener

Now I realize why people say being a good listener is very important in life. I wish Sai had learned this and especially in the medical profession it's very important to have this skill where you pay attention to what others are saying and not cut them off. If Sai had listening skills she would have understood below ones

1.if Sai hadn't cut Virat off and allowed him to speak when she questioned his story, he would have confessed his feelings for her.

2. In the monologue, she says she never heard anything which made her feel he loves her, if she had good listening skills she would remember the words he said which indicated his love for her. He had said she is special to him, he likes her as she is unique, he cannot live without her, he wants to make this marriage work, he is no longer committed to Pakhi, he stopped her from leaving because he cannot imagine a life without her. In numerous ways, he has shown what she means to him.

3. In the monologue Sai says he hasn't said anything to Pakhi not to wait. Ok, I understand she doesn't know what Virat said to Pakhi in her absence but did she forget how he treats her lately. He has stood against her yet Sai feels Virat loves her. What is love according to Sai? Stand against that person, insult them, not talk with a straight face and get irritated with their presence. This is how Virat treats Pakhi lately so I guess this is how you love someone.

She is sympathetic towards a stalker. She has witnessed how uncomfortable he was in her presence in the hospital and at home but yet she feels sorry for the abuser. It's time she gives importance to actions as well.

4. In the monologue, Sai changed the sequence of events. If she was a good listener she would remember, Virat told her about his past before the wedding, not after the marriage. If he was wrong in getting into a deal marriage then she was wrong too to accept it. She wanted him to run away instead of that she could have said the truth to the villagers about his conditions.She is someone who doesn't shy away from saying the truth so why didn't she do that. She agreed because she knew marrying him was a better option because he didn't expect her to be his wife and she was not ready to be one. At least take ownership of your decisions.

5. Sai says this marriage is fake, ok then why she is with him still and why she behaves like a wife to him? The number of times she has claimed her rights on him in public and has said she knows him better. What was that girl?

I tried to sympathize with Sai today but I was more irritated with the way she concluded without letting Virat speak. I hope Virat develops some self-respect and stops running after her. From her words, feel like he is forcing himself on her. It's unfair to her and him.

Sai's monologue was so irritating in parts, who is this dialogue writer! she just won't listen to anyone and conveniently blame the other! I'm annoyed with sai to say the least! wonder how this mess is going to get solved! As per KD its a very very long track! and samrat doesn't really seem to be useful nor play a very important character to me after listening to his monologue !

I really hope the CVs just let virat ignore sai for a while and spare us the torture! The episodes seem to be getting nowhere except on my nerves! its been so long with no proper progression at least the "Vaada" crap should have been cleared by now!

High time we take a break!

People trying to defend sai but i find all this nonsense.. She clearly saw and heard many things from virat which proved that how pakhi has no importance in his life..just because he sympathies with sai would he insult and keep away his love that much? Did virat ever do anything to make pakhi happy? Like he did birthday celebration, pendent gifting to sai? If he still loves pakhi how can he close door infront of pakhi's face and stay with sai behind closed door infront of pakhi? Will he keep saying pakhi samrat will be back wait for him? What is the issue with pakhi i really don’t get it..and she bahves as if she doesn’t understand anything like why a man try to get close to her,kiss her,hug her and cry for her miserably.. I mean sai joshi a smart girl who can't take shit from others and fight back can be that much bhola? I don’t know..after all this drama she still not ready to listen what virat has to say..if she isn’t ready to accept Virat's feelings why she is showing her feelings to virat like take care of him when he is sick,hug him when she is happy, doing his works what supposed to do by a wife,getting anxious when he talk about his death..isn’t it also playing with his emotions and giving him wrong signal? I know virat has many faults but this time sai is wrong no matter how anyone defend her..if she is so concern about virat's commitments to pakhi she shouldn’t have melt when virat cried and told her to come back miserably and hug him, accept forehead kiss by him..she should have clear that time that It's better for us live separately cause i am not sure about your feelings for me and i am getting wrong signals so i need to stay away from u..

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Now I realize why people say being a good listener is very important in life. I wish Sai had learned this and especially in the medical profession it's very important to have this skill where you pay attention to what others are saying and not cut them off. If Sai had listening skills she would have understood below ones

1.if Sai hadn't cut Virat off and allowed him to speak when she questioned his story, he would have confessed his feelings for her.

2. In the monologue, she says she never heard anything which made her feel he loves her, if she had good listening skills she would remember the words he said which indicated his love for her. He had said she is special to him, he likes her as she is unique, he cannot live without her, he wants to make this marriage work, he is no longer committed to Pakhi, he stopped her from leaving because he cannot imagine a life without her. In numerous ways, he has shown what she means to him.

3. In the monologue Sai says he hasn't said anything to Pakhi not to wait. Ok, I understand she doesn't know what Virat said to Pakhi in her absence but did she forget how he treats her lately. He has stood against her yet Sai feels Virat loves her. What is love according to Sai? Stand against that person, insult them, not talk with a straight face and get irritated with their presence. This is how Virat treats Pakhi lately so I guess this is how you love someone.

She is sympathetic towards a stalker. She has witnessed how uncomfortable he was in her presence in the hospital and at home but yet she feels sorry for the abuser. It's time she gives importance to actions as well.

4. In the monologue, Sai changed the sequence of events. If she was a good listener she would remember, Virat told her about his past before the wedding, not after the marriage. If he was wrong in getting into a deal marriage then she was wrong too to accept it. She wanted him to run away instead of that she could have said the truth to the villagers about his conditions.She is someone who doesn't shy away from saying the truth so why didn't she do that. She agreed because she knew marrying him was a better option because he didn't expect her to be his wife and she was not ready to be one. At least take ownership of your decisions.

5. Sai says this marriage is fake, ok then why she is with him still and why she behaves like a wife to him? The number of times she has claimed her rights on him in public and has said she knows him better. What was that girl?

I tried to sympathize with Sai today but I was more irritated with the way she concluded without letting Virat speak. I hope Virat develops some self-respect and stops running after her. From her words, feel like he is forcing himself on her. It's unfair to her and him.

Agree with you Sai is not a good listener but same is the case with Virat.. atleast Sai had said so many time what her problem is but Virat has not given any heed to her words...today also she said what is bothering her but viru ne nahi "dhyaaan" diya. He gone to another hi tangent uske dil me mere liye kch nhi hai.

Both doesn't listen to each other but if they start den koi didi bichme nahi aa sakti.

Originally posted by: ppnn7191

Sai's monologue was so irritating in parts, who is this dialogue writer! she just won't listen to anyone and conveniently blame the other! I'm annoyed with sai to say the least! wonder how this mess is going to get solved! As per KD its a very very long track! and samrat doesn't really seem to be useful nor play a very important character to me after listening to his monologue !

I really hope the CVs just let virat ignore sai for a while and spare us the torture! The episodes seem to be getting nowhere except on my nerves! its been so long with no proper progression at least the "Vaada" crap should have been cleared by now!

High time we take a break!

If Samrat is anything like Badash then he is another delusional char later who is far away from reality. He can never be neutral in this situation and his judgments will be biased.

More than anything I was disappointed to see her say some below the belt comments . .Virat has never crossed his limits with her and it was disappointing to see her blame him for taking advantage of her.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I couldn't connect with her monologue. It irritated me more than feeling sorry for her. She was getting on my nerves. I was happy that Mohit did not blindly support her.

If Samrat is anything like Badash then he is another delusional char later who is far away from reality. He can never be neutral in this situation and his judgments will be biased.

More than anything I was disappointed to see her say some below the belt comments . .Virat has never crossed his limits with her and it was disappointing to see her blame him for taking advantage of her.

I completely agree with you! this whole slow burn romance is getting ridiculously stupid now! Also the dialogue writers and the team suffers from severe amnesia! Sai is only going to screw up further once samrat returns and samrat, PP and sai are all going to be behind virats blood! Sunny is useless as ever!

I have no hopes from the CVs as well as they refuse to create a story of their own and are blindly copying KD! Imon and Rono were very very different from sairat! hence I feel the makers should knit a storyline that suits sairat!

Originally posted by: Momrin

People trying to defend sai but i find all this nonsense.. She clearly saw and heard many things from virat which proved that how pakhi has no importance in his life..just because he sympathies with sai would he insult and keep away his love that much? Did virat ever do anything to make pakhi happy? Like he did birthday celebration, pendent gifting to sai? If he still loves pakhi how can he close door infront of pakhi's face and stay with sai behind closed door infront of pakhi? Will he keep saying pakhi samrat will be back wait for him? What is the issue with pakhi i really don’t get it..and she bahves as if she doesn’t understand anything like why a man try to get close to her,kiss her,hug her and cry for her miserably.. I mean sai joshi a smart girl who can't take shit from others and fight back can be that much bhola? I don’t know..after all this drama she still not ready to listen what virat has to say..if she isn’t ready to accept Virat's feelings why she is showing her feelings to virat like take care of him when he is sick,hug him when she is happy, doing his works what supposed to do by a wife,getting anxious when he talk about his death..isn’t it also playing with his emotions and giving him wrong signal? I know virat has many faults but this time sai is wrong no matter how anyone defend her..if she is so concern about virat's commitments to pakhi she shouldn’t have melt when virat cried and told her to come back miserably and hug him, accept forehead kiss by him..she should have clear that time that It's better for us live separately cause i am not sure about your feelings for me and i am getting wrong signals so i need to stay away from u..

Originally posted by: Meh_sairat

Agree with you Sai is not a good listener but same is the case with Virat.. atleast Sai had said so many time what her problem is but Virat has not given any heed to her words...today also she said what is bothering her but viru ne nahi "dhyaaan" diya. He gone to another hi tangent uske dil me mere liye kch nhi hai.

Both doesn't listen to each other but if they start den koi didi bichme nahi aa sakti.

Sai = big nautanki or big dramebaz and irritating character

staying with virat hugging him even most of the time almost about to kiss him enjoying his royal treatments , after getting many chances also not leaving virat and CN end of the day screaming like deal marriage deal marriage

I stopped watching this show long back I just watch clips in IG one of the main reason is because of sai's irritating fights and her dramas uff can't take it most disliking and irritating character is sai

Unfortunately many people belived shouting screaming creating drama means standing for herself also I saw people praising her acting after every shouting and screaming session 🙄 2 mins silence for such a people 😂😂

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

You echo my thoughts. I don't understand what makes her feel Virat loves Pakhi and if she truly believed it then why is she living in his house. If she believed Virat loves Pakhi then when he was on the death bed she shouldn't have demanded to nurse him as his wife instead. There are so many such incidents where she behaved as his wife and now she blames him for celebrating a fake relationship and disrespecting her feelings

Another point here is when virat was at hospital he allowed sai to take care of him over pakhi even that time sai could doubt that he loves pakhi how can he allowed me when pakhi isn’t liking it clearly but that time she claim her right on virat to take care of him and both her and virat almost insulted pakhi to leave the hospital us waqt bechari pakhi di ki yaad nehi aai..ki use kaisa laage ga uske hote huye agar main patni ban ke virat sir ka kheal rakha to..us waqt kyu nehi chod diya dono ko ek dusre ke sath..she will behave as virats wife whenever she likes but when he wants to treat her like his patni then he is taking her fayda and ruining two lives isn’t it hypocrisy?