Why disrespectful attitude towards EDUCATION in this show? - Page 2

Hey Tanya🤗

Mujhe lagta hai ke iss show mai education and uneducated ki baat nahi hai 😒 par ek housewife jisne kabhi ghar ke bahar ki duniya ko thik se dekha hi nahi wo abb iss ghar ke bahar apna astitva dhundh rahi hai...Anupama 12th tak padhi hai totally uneducated nahi hai...kinjal and nandini or even Samar(not graduate but not uneducated) or vee ki bahen sab educated hai par yaha baat hai ghar ki char deevari ke beech rahnewali jo ki aunty ki age ki lady hai uske paas bhi bright Ideas ho sakte hai 👍🏼wo bhi successful ban sakti hai...Haa kabhi kabhi 5 panne ka bhashan lagta hai par ye usne apne experience se sikha hai...yakin nahi hoga ajj ki generation ko par mai khud Anupama ki age se hu aur kitni ladies ko janti hu jo Anupama jaise hi halat mai thi ya hai(including me) jo ajj bhi dusro ki khushi pehle sochte hai aur hanste hanste bewkoof bante hai but jaise kavya ya Vanraj apna nature nahi badl pate waise hi Anupama bhi nahi badle sakti completely...

Why exactly are you expecting logic from ITV makers? The motto of the show actually is that a woman can have a career only after her family and kids are well-fed, even after you are divorced, because they are helpless puppets and only the lady of the house can run them.

When my mother-n-law was forcing me to just have her kaadha during my CoVid infection and not just trust medicines, I told her that the person who prescribed this to me has devoted 9 long years of his life in getting medical education, there's got to be some credibility to it right? I can have your kaadha as a supplement, but not as a complete treatment!

But Time and again it has been shown that without absolutely any experience and taking significant time to learn anything, Anupamaa is accomplishing things in life which people take years to teach themselves. And all that while still doing all housewife work.

She is actually proving that being a housewife is trivial and not full-time work because her so-called full-time career of a dancer and teacher is experiencing no setbacks inspite of her making no compromises on her work as a housewife. Women who quit their jobs to take care of their houses are just being too lazy to multitask, they should eat whatever Anupamaa is eating and keep doing both. BTW when does she sleep and poop?

Originally posted by: dipali13

Hey Tanya🤗

Mujhe lagta hai ke iss show mai education and uneducated ki baat nahi hai 😒 par ek housewife jisne kabhi ghar ke bahar ki duniya ko thik se dekha hi nahi wo abb iss ghar ke bahar apna astitva dhundh rahi hai...Anupama 12th tak padhi hai totally uneducated nahi hai...kinjal and nandini or even Samar(not graduate but not uneducated) or vee ki bahen sab educated hai par yaha baat hai ghar ki char deevari ke beech rahnewali jo ki aunty ki age ki lady hai uske paas bhi bright Ideas ho sakte hai 👍🏼wo bhi successful ban sakti hai...Haa kabhi kabhi 5 panne ka bhashan lagta hai par ye usne apne experience se sikha hai...yakin nahi hoga ajj ki generation ko par mai khud Anupama ki age se hu aur kitni ladies ko janti hu jo Anupama jaise hi halat mai thi ya hai(including me) jo ajj bhi dusro ki khushi pehle sochte hai aur hanste hanste bewkoof bante hai but jaise kavya ya Vanraj apna nature nahi badl pate waise hi Anupama bhi nahi badle sakti completely...

Hi Dipali ji 🤗

It’s completely fine to show that housewife can successful and apna astitva ghar/kitchen ke bahar bhi nana sakti hai. My mummy is totally housewife so I can relate with the happiness jab ek housewife kitchen/ghar se bahar nikal kar bahar ki dunia mai apna astitva banati hai.

Muje education ka insult isiliye feel hota hai because iss show mai 95% educated characters Evil/Selfish dikhaye ja rahe hai. Agar education ki baat nahi hai toh 95% characters jo minimum graduate /post graduate hai woh sab ke sab evil/selfish dikhaye ja rahe hai?!

I felt bad only because of theme , samar and anupama undergraduate hai so unko hamesha glorify karo and make them right in each and every situation by hook or by crook .

Baki sab jo bhi graduate/post graduate hai usme 95% characters ko evil dikhao and target achieve karo that education doesn’t matter at all and 95% educated people are evil only and only undergraduate people like samar/anupama can be pure person.

1 educated character evil ho samaj aata hai that they just want to show educated person can be evil/dumb but 95% educated characters ko evil/dumb dikhane ka toh yahi matlab hota hai they can make every next educated character evil/crass/dumb just to glorify undergraduate lead.

In process to empower housewife, they should not insult “Education “ by making 95% educated characters evil/selfish.

Yeah I have also noticed that in doing their favourite thing of over-glorifying Anupama's character, the makers of this show often like to minimise the importance of education...

Like how on Earth has a woman who studied in vernacular medium and has no degree become a teacher in an English medium school in the first place? In reality she would probably end up working in a shop or something...

It's getting to a point where the show no longer seems to have any clear message, moral or purpose anymore, except that Anupama is the greatest best person in the world who can never do any wrong, and simultaneously also the world's biggest victim 😆.

And this is getting hard to digest for many of us because:

a.) It's embarrassingly shallow to make one character's never ending greatness the sole message/purpose of a story.

b.) Anu as a character isn't actually even that great, she makes plenty of weird/bad choices all the time and has quite a few flaws.

Originally posted by: Anjalika01

Yeah I have also noticed that in doing their favourite thing of over-glorifying Anupama's character, the makers of this show often like to minimise the importance of education...

Like how on Earth has a woman who studied in vernacular medium and has no degree become a teacher in an English medium school in the first place? In reality she would probably end up working in a shop or something...

It's getting to a point where the show no longer seems to have any clear message, moral or purpose anymore, except that Anupama is the greatest best person in the world who can never do any wrong, and simultaneously also the world's biggest victim 😆.

And this is getting hard to digest for many of us because:

a.) It's embarrassingly shallow to make one character's never ending greatness the sole message/purpose of a story.

b.) Anu as a character isn't actually even that great, she makes plenty of weird/bad choices all the time and has quite a few flaws.

@bold :
I have a same question. Even though she is taking just cooking classes, how on earth a woman who studied in vernacular medium without having bare minimum graduation degree like B.Ed/M.Ed/B.A/M.A become a teacher in an english medium school in the first place?? Even for cooking classes, no convent school hires 12th pass vernacular medium candidate.

They can empower housewife in their show but why to make fun of "Education" using educated people in that process?

Definitely this show is all about showing anupama is always right and whatever anupama does is always right and mainly focus is only on how to glorify lead and demean "Education" using educated people.

Anupama character herself is classic example of senseless, low self esteem woman who always feels over whelming in every next situation and badly needs to attend meditation/yoga session to improve her mental health.

95% educated characters of this show are evil!😲lol only samar and anupama character who are under graduate can behave like good human, otherwise graduate characters are evil/selfish/ what not!

Originally posted by: NiharikaMishra

Why exactly are you expecting logic from ITV makers? The motto of the show actually is that a woman can have a career only after her family and kids are well-fed, even after you are divorced, because they are helpless puppets and only the lady of the house can run them.

When my mother-n-law was forcing me to just have her kaadha during my CoVid infection and not just trust medicines, I told her that the person who prescribed this to me has devoted 9 long years of his life in getting medical education, there's got to be some credibility to it right? I can have your kaadha as a supplement, but not as a complete treatment!

But Time and again it has been shown that without absolutely any experience and taking significant time to learn anything, Anupamaa is accomplishing things in life which people take years to teach themselves. And all that while still doing all housewife work.

She is actually proving that being a housewife is trivial and not full-time work because her so-called full-time career of a dancer and teacher is experiencing no setbacks inspite of her making no compromises on her work as a housewife. Women who quit their jobs to take care of their houses are just being too lazy to multitask, they should eat whatever Anupamaa is eating and keep doing both. BTW when does she sleep and poop?

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Completely agree with your each and every word.

@bold underline : Such a regressive motto is helping them to garner good TRP which represents orthodox mindset of indian population.

@red : My mother in law is the same . She has not much faith in doctor and only believes in home remedy things. I appreciate home remedies and i myself uses it several time. There is nothing wrong in it but just to rely on those things is not at all good. I am going through my first pregnancy . With all the home remedy, kaadhas, food items i believe i should follow my doctor's advice above everything so i also explained her that home remedy/food everything is fine but i want to follow my gynaec's word because she is well experienced in her profession and knows better for me and the baby.

@blue : lol because she is rockstar wonder woman the anupama who can do all the tasks with setting 4 AM alarm even after fighting with ovarian cancer without requiring lifetime care😆She is only one rockstar mother on this planet😆Tumhare mere jaise mamuli log aise senseless banne ka soch bhi nahi sakte😆

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

Patiala babes first half till the love story starts is pretty good and decent. The portrayal of the second women again and how the child does understand it's not really the second wife fault and does show some empathy.

Samar is a character I have not talked about much since my view is pretty similar to URS and I have had arguments in this with bff and fam on the same for someone in a similar situation.

I believe that atleast grad education is necessary no matter what u want to pursue since it is a fall back options and will never go waste.

I am very conservative when it comes to money since I have come up hard way. I feel only once we are capable of completing our basic needs we should worry about others. Of course many many disagree with this opinion incl most of my fam and friends

@bold : Exactly! Graduation degree is a fall back option and will never go waste. Even if you want to make career in your hobby, everyone should complete bare minimum graduation degree. Here they are hell bent to show that if child doesn't want to continue graduation degree, mother should support him/her in such decision.

Originally posted by: dipali13

Hey Tanya🤗

Mujhe lagta hai ke iss show mai education and uneducated ki baat nahi hai 😒 par ek housewife jisne kabhi ghar ke bahar ki duniya ko thik se dekha hi nahi wo abb iss ghar ke bahar apna astitva dhundh rahi hai...Anupama 12th tak padhi hai totally uneducated nahi hai...kinjal and nandini or even Samar(not graduate but not uneducated) or vee ki bahen sab educated hai par yaha baat hai ghar ki char deevari ke beech rahnewali jo ki aunty ki age ki lady hai uske paas bhi bright Ideas ho sakte hai 👍🏼wo bhi successful ban sakti hai...Haa kabhi kabhi 5 panne ka bhashan lagta hai par ye usne apne experience se sikha hai...yakin nahi hoga ajj ki generation ko par mai khud Anupama ki age se hu aur kitni ladies ko janti hu jo Anupama jaise hi halat mai thi ya hai(including me) jo ajj bhi dusro ki khushi pehle sochte hai aur hanste hanste bewkoof bante hai but jaise kavya ya Vanraj apna nature nahi badl pate waise hi Anupama bhi nahi badle sakti completely...

I do agree with you because in real life nobody gets such handsome opportunity always get successful with every venture be it dancing or school teacher or other problems but this is serial and they can show ideal scenarios how she changed into better version of herself she doesn't need to speak fluent English or wear modern clothes but she can stand for herself now help her mother what I expected is she should have moved out to her mother's or rented place and started her dancing academy and no matter how good you are or generous you can not interfere in husband and wife matter especially V and K first of all she was treated badly by both got cheated it was heartbreaking nobody gets over this easily even is she got over she is so kind that she forgave both she should have kept distance from their personal fight and one to one relation with ba and bapuji she is nobody to teach Kavya rituals or working style of house Leela is there

Because it's seriall they can beautifully show a women's journey from doormat to self respecting confident women.

Totally agree with you. They could have totally kept Kavya's grey and practical. Thats all you need in this house to be looked down upon. Her asking V and Toshu, Pakhi to make their own tea/coffee is enough to start fights in this family.

Anupama's nose budding in everyone's business can also be another reason for Kavya's firm behavior.

Same with Rakhi. She was the best character in this show. She was the only one who could show these clowns a mirror.

They did this to Rakhi and Kavya to glorify Anupama. Which definitely does not go well with the modern/educated crowd.

Don't really know if the show is about Anupama’s journey or another old movie / drama where they are giving social message for a family to stay together . The writers are confused and hence this non sense track . I don't think any person grown with family values can become selfish or behave so differently after earning money . This really shows the family teachings of value is not gained and parents did not know till end . Pakhis case was the same . Same track different characters