Kissing a sleeping person - Page 2

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

She needs to set her boundaries here.. no means no.. everybody can understand that..

but look at her reactions

6 kiss attempts so far

Holi kiss- both intoxicated, I am discounting it

Ladoo kiss - she was upset when he didn’t kiss

Gift kiss - she didn’t know let us discount

Forehead kiss - almost kiss and she was eager again just saved by alarm

Forehead kiss - kiss after hospital, she was willing

Cheek kiss - she was asleep..

Exactly ...after the laddoo kiss she told Virat you can't tread two ways in family confrontation scene.. ... Like she said she was distracted till she saw the whole waada talk...and hence forgot things...forgot what relationship she shared with him..

Forehead kiss like I said .I take it in a heat of moment kind of kiss..and also a kiss of care/concern...but then again you are willingly taking it...So she has given him the permission..

Cheek kiss..well the discussion is about that ..and knowing Sai ..I always see she cannot and soes not deny Virat anything when they are being good to each other...and alone ...when didi comes into picture.. she would deny him a finger touch also .

Funniest part was viru pretended to sleep 🤣

Poor chap was horny since morning ☺️😆

Chance pe dance Mar liya 🤣😈

SaiRat both are attracted to each other so often makes small moves.. It's natural ..

We never got Sai's inner monologue that's why it looks awkward often. They both behave life spouses but talk about everything else under the sky except themselves .

Originally posted by: sadiltl

May be if he had sexual intentions at that moment, it would have been wrong because he doesnt have consent. Consent is required for husband also, legally too! But that kiss looked more sort of loving and out of adoration. So it is okay.

Just wondering if the genders are reversed, do we think this much?!

If not in ITV, in real world, it is not illegal or immoral to ask your wife for intimacy. But if she DENIES, he should stop. With this in mind, Virat can kiss her if it is the first time and he is unsure. If she objects, will he do it again?

Its not illegal, he just went with the flow of his emotions, and he just couldn't withhold himself. Its not a sin, what he did was just an impulse act of love.

But if she objects or doesn't like him in that way, he'll surely stop and wouldn't ever try again. Virat is an absolute gentleman, in that way.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Exactly ...after the laddoo kiss she told Virat you can't tread two ways in family confrontation scene.. ... Like she said she was distracted till she saw the whole waada talk...and hence forgot things...forgot what relationship she shared with him..

Forehead kiss like I said .I take it in a heat of moment kind of kiss..and also a kiss of care/concern...but then again you are willingly taking it...So she has given him the permission..

Cheek kiss..well the discussion is about that ..and knowing Sai ..I always see she cannot and soes not deny Virat anything when they are being good to each other...and alone ...when didi comes into picture.. she would deny him a finger touch also .

@bold

Haha this cracked me up. very true.

What I think is given virat and Sai are husband and wife, he can proceed until unless she denies him. ITV logic aside...but if you think them as two lovers, then he needs consent even to touch her. purely my opinion.

Originally posted by: QNefertiti

Wo to isliye ki marital rape ka concept hai hi nahi 🤔 India me we don't have it but sabko pata hai na ki ye wrong hai fir kaise blame nahi kar sakte? 😅

Its just that scenario plays a huge role. Other cases can't be taken into account here, coz Virat isn't forcing himself on her. It was just an impulsive act of love. He's never crossed his boundaries before, since he knows Sai's consent is important and he himself isn't that kinda guy. So people aren't much offended with this kiss. There's also the understanding, that even if Sai was awake she never stopped his advances during those near kisses. So it'd not be a big deal to her, now as well.

In my family, we are not allowed to kiss even a sleeping baby. It is not considered good there. That's a different thing that we still kiss the small babies, because they are so cute, and then we get scolded by our elders😆.

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

Haaan.. It was barely peck on the cheek.. AKA platonic kiss🤣

Yaar in all seriousness, the point of the kiss wasn’t to be a long and intense one na. It was gentle and soft for a reason. He got carried away in his emotions, saying he loves Sai out loud for the first time to her even if she was asleep. It was the purest indication of his love. He did not want to wake her…he just wanted to take in this moment and remember it forever. I thought it was perfect- subtle yet so meaningful…

IMO it was an innocent and affectionate cheek kiss, that too a husband to his wife. He did not intend on crossing limits beyond that with his sleeping wife. There are limits that even a man with his own wife should not cross of course when it comes to intimacy, but I felt nothing wrong with virat giving his sleeping wife a peck on her cheeks lovingly. And twice now virat has leaned in to kiss sai when sai knew what he was doing, especially in the hotel room yesterday, and then sai let him kiss her forehead when they were making up after her accident when they returned home, so I don't think there is a big deal or a need for sai to take offense at an innocent gesture like a cheek kiss from him.

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

Yes I agree.. Even the ladoo kiss then.. she seemed disappointed right when he went for the ladoo instead of her lips..

Haan wo toh hai..but then we also have her monologue cum conversation with Virat Pakhi..that she got distracted and forgot certain things..but she is back to reality now... So then again she is back to the deal that way 😆

Originally posted by: Sudharies

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Its not illegal, he just went with the flow of his emotions, and he just couldn't withhold himself. Its not a sin, what he did was just an impulse act of love.

But if she objects or doesn't like him in that way, he'll surely stop and wouldn't ever try again. Virat is an absolute gentleman, in that way.

I have closely seen a divorce case, and I came to know some legalities. You can contest a marriage if there is no intimacy and it is one of the easiest ways to get divorce. ITV wale show all the pure love magic. Jokes aside, husband and wife are considered one body one soul by the ritual itself. More than half the arranged marriages in India would fail if people think about consent on SR. They just go with the flow...love follows. 🤣 As Virat said yesterday "Go with the flow na?"