Kissing a sleeping person

Is it okay to kiss a person who is sleeping when you are unsure if the other person reciprocated your feelings?

Other times he has tried - Holi and yesterday she was awake and they were both going with flow, I understand their attraction and if not for disturbance they might have end up kissing. So glad they had a conscious forehead bandage kiss for first kiss before this one.

I am just curious if ITV romanticies such scenes without giving too much thought. Like where should the line be drawn? When is it acceptable?

What if Vankar shows in future, a divorced pakhi kissing sleeping Virat thinking he once was attracted to me, it's still deep buried in him, I love him and intend no harm, will that be acceptable?

Or should I just shut up, enjoy the episode and not raise such questions 🤔?

In all the attempts that Viroo did to kiss his wife,Sai never looked uncomfortable at all, rather she looked besotted and actually waited it to happen. Only during Harini birthday she rushed off but then also she did look interested only.

Sai Joshi is bold enough to say it out if she has a problem with his proximity and then with his six attempts to kiss. She didn’t object at all.

Virat kissing on her cheek is more as a gesture of good wish on their anniversary which is quite in sink with the occassion.

Virat is a true gentleman who will never cross the line of decency without Sai’s consent. So I feel it is ok to take a small liberty and kiss his sleeping wife.

Ethically speaking, yeah it's wrong to do that. Especially given their relationship status they're not real couple, yet. If a husband kisses his sleeping wife when they're couple in real sense, then it's not an issue as he knows his wife consent is always there. Here it's a different scenario though. He is still not sure if Sai reciprocates his feelings and if she'll be fine with a cheek kiss at this point. So at the moment, it is not that right.

This is the exact question that raised in my mind..

I decided to shut my brain off and go with the flow.. 🤣it was after so much penance we got to see some romance in Ghum…

yes.. it is wrong when that person doesn’t love you..

But again he kissed her earlier and she eagerly accepted it.. if she had pushed him away earlier, this is definitely iffy..

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

This is the exact question that raised in my mind..

I decided to shut my brain off and go with the flow.. 🤣it was after so much penance we got to see some romance in Ghum…

yes.. it is wrong when that person doesn’t love you..

But again he kissed her earlier and she eagerly accepted it.. if she had pushed him away earlier, this is definitely iffy..

That's why in my post I said if not reciprocated..Sai and Virat behave like lovers and talk something else..Just yesterday she was fine with being geela geela and all in a room with Virat and did not change/cover herself as well when Virat asked Aise Jaogi...

About forehead kiss ...I don't know I saw it has something to be in the moment of extreme emotions..both one .that is more about care than love..Cheek kiss is the first kiss of love ❤️

May be if he had sexual intentions at that moment, it would have been wrong becasue he doesnt have consent. Consent is required for husband also, legally too! But that kiss looked more sort of loving and out of adoration. So it is okay.

Just wondering if the genders are reversed, do we think this much?!

If not in ITV, in real world, it is not illegal or immoral to ask your wife for intimacy. But if she DENIES, he should stop. With this in mind, Virat can kiss her if it is the first time and he is unsure. If she objects, will he do it agian?

Well if the love is not reciprocated , then surely it is morally and ethically wrong..

I don't think there's anything wrong since she hasn't objected before this too. Infact in Harinee's birthday her running away wasn't because of her not reciprocating but she felt shy. And, Virat is someone who'll never cross his limits without Sai's permission.

It was an anniversary wish kiss and i don't find it wrong even if sai woke up she would have give consent to it becos whenever such moments happened b/w them she is always comfortable and wanting it to happen. I don't find it wrong furthermore its a small peck a gesture of good wish & love

I think that at this stage of their marriage where he sees that she definitely cares for him as a wife does for a husband- a feather light cheek kiss on their first wedding anniversary is definitely something he can afford to do even if shes asleep. Even if she doesn't "love" him back yet because she's figuring out her feelings she would not object to an affectionate cheek kiss. There is a fine line- yes but i dont think that there is any violation of consent.

Sai is not affected negatively by his gestures of affection, but what bothers her is whether he does these gestures out of pressure because now they are tied together despite still not being out of love with pp. If she feels like he is not 100% hers- mind, body, soul she will not take kindly to it. For Sai- i think -If he is her husband and only hers, he has every haq on her but if he harbors any residual feeling for pp, Sai will be very hurt. Sai is very black n white like that...

When he comes close to her, she feels validated that yes he is moving on. But when something said/done by pp or him reminds her of virats past with pp, she immediately shuts herself, gets her guards up.

Samrat coming back n coming to divorce pp will probably make Sai feel or remind her of the circumstances of this marriage n the past....i feel it will make her retreat into a shell. Its only if sge sees samrat/pp move on that she will get out of her negative mindspace....