Shivangi Khedkar {Pallavi} AT #28 | Love Endures - Page 45

Originally posted by: tiara_remixfan

Ooohh...i love yellow, in fact it is my go to colour after blue. Waise inhone khud bola it is celebrated every Tuesday, then in that case shouldn't they dress up every Tuesday? Maybe tab co-ordinate kar de.

Hopefully but I think they won't show the pooja after this mostly

Same blue is my go to color for everything

Originally posted by: drnidsur

Thanks!

Haaye, mere philosophical lines ko kisine dhyan hi nahi diya...I'll frame it in a better way next time😆

Sojaa sojaa...kal aur dhakke khaane hain subah se humein🤪

We might need strength😆

Originally posted by: Inese_20

According to me, what makes it easier to understand Raghav more in the ….

Since we were talking on this.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

I definitely agree. I'm not loving her decisions either, and I wish she'd talk to Raghav about them, because I don't like filling the gaps of the narrative myself all the time. But just...idk, having these theories in my head makes it easier for me to enjoy the story, so I do it 🤷

Good !! Do it for me too🤣 coz these days I have no time to look at all possible angles and theories.. and even with everything you said and which is what I will try to remember next time she says "mere baba" and I feel irritated.. some of things she says, or does or does not do, leaves me frustrated. Who is stopping them to call and communicate? She must know that Raghav will not make up something like the 7day challenge. Fine, they dont want Pallavi to know all that just yet from story POV. But they can talk whenever they want.. they live in the same city .. she can go meet him and he can also come whenever he wants.. he has apologized so all's sorted. Baba's kasam has not made her a prisoner. Jab milna hai milo, jitna baat karna hai karo. Bina baat ke itna rona dhona kyu?

Originally posted by: fria319

I'm the opposite. I love the net, chiffon, georgette and organza sarees. They're much more age and status approp for her now. The silk banarasi ages her way too much. She pulls it off bc it's Shivangi and she's just that pretty lol.

The only sarees I liked before were the solid color georgette ones with the printed blouses (similar to the one she wore on her first night back at D house)

I am fine with rhe georgette and organza ones but not the net wali saree. I mean at times it fines but continuously it's not.

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Since we were talking on this.

Where's the full post?

Originally posted by: unicornwriter

Is it just me or you guys are also getting irritated with them giving net sarees to Pallavi or whatever they are called (sorry i have very low knowledge in terms of clothing material)

I genuinely miss her old sarees. She looked so good today in that peach saree she used to wear or in the precap in that mustard/ yellow one.

I miss her old sarees from before her wedding too but I like her in net sarees as well... She looks really nice and it flatters her figure well. I didn't like her sarees from the initial days of her marriage, I thought they were too heavy for her and the colours were too jhatak (bold) for my liking but recently I'm loving her sarees

Originally posted by: Inese_20

According to me, what makes it easier to understand Raghav more in the current scenario is the fact that the emotion he’s undergoing is a very usual one. We all have known this insecurity and fear too well at some point in our lives. But honestly how many of us have even witnessed a situation that Pallavi is in. A widow living with her in laws. The in-laws with whom she shares a cordial relationship with and treat them as her own parents. Let’s not forget that she is an orphan by birth. That is bound to have an impact here. They are now her ex in-laws to us, but to her VD remains a father figure only. I had a tiff with my parents years ago, and it went so bad in my head that I didn’t speak to them for months. At that time I was sure I was never going to. But today I am as attached to them as I ever was. What made me snap out of my ignorance was seeing my father hurting due to my behaviour. I put all my complaints to rest then and there. I couldn’t see him like that. You don’t forget, maybe you don’t even forgive but you melt down. You can’t be bitter or harsh for too long, especially to your family, that too in the situations which are already too hard on them. Because at the end of the day you are a human with varying range of emotions. That is exactly what’s happening here!

Another thing is, we equate Pallavi with ourselves. I would have done this or that in her situation. But she is not us. Sabka apna apna tareeka, timimg hota hai deal krne ka.

Example- if a friend comes and tells me that I hurt them with my words, but according to me my words were well known facts which shouldn’t have hurt anybody under normal circumstances : what should be my counter response?

1) itna toh kuch hua bhi nhi. You are overreacting.

2) or I should stop and think maybe this person is very sensitive. Or maybe she is going through certain difficult circumstances that a trivial things feels like a huge deal to her. Or maybe it has something to do with her past experiences that my words were hurtful uske liye.

I prefer going (2) way. If someone comes and tells me they are hurt- so they are hurt. Period.

I don’t get to decide if they should or should not feel hurt. What’s not hurtful for me might be extremely painful for them. And vice versa.

So I see pallavi in this light only. If she’s telling me that she still feels attached and responsible towards her in-laws toh baat whin khatam. IMO, I don’t get to decide how she should or should not feel. There must be so many factors which have lead to this.

So well explained 👏👏

That's what it boils down to. The enormity of what the Deshmukhs are going through is frankly incomprehensible. And coming to wondering what I'd do in Pallavi's shoes- had to stop doing that months ago, because phir show ek week mein hi khatam ho jaata.

Originally posted by: drnidsur

Yaaa that imagination wale mein she looked so prettyyy

These people need to get some good sarees

Lagta hai we will have to contribute🤣

🤣like nutellla

I am ready to contribute yaar.

She looks good in pink sarees but then they over do at times.

I even liked that dinner date wali pink floral saree. She looked beautiful in that

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Kaafi realistically explained. Even I wanted to state the same.

You did it well❤️

Also, Tera Bye Bye hona nahi hai yahan se dikh raha hai mereko🤣