Raghav cannot do anything now - Page 3

Originally posted by: fria319

I want her to be emotionally upset that she's at D house and I want them to actually show how unhappy she is being there. ONLY because maybe now she'll understand more where he was coming from and what he was worried about. Like yeah we can always point at him and be like "let go of your insecurities" but its easier said than done because he hasn't gone through therapy yet and hasn't fully tackled his mental issues. And her actions about reassuring them have been mixed - she says a lot, but her actions don't necessarily follow up.

I'm actually kind of annoyed that the writers turned it into insecurity thing. It's not just that. There's also the fact that he's worried Mandar will do something to her - and that has nothing to do whether Pallavi loves him or not. IDK, at least thats how it seemed when this track started. In the beginning he never once seemed insecure about Pallavi's love and his initial concern was that they would take advantage of her goodness, so how did this turn into an issue of him being insecure about her love? IDK. I don't think he has confidence in her love for him bc he finds himself lucky to have gotten her, but idk if that's insecure. Or maybe it is and I'm interpreting it wrong. IDK anymore LOL. I need a break LOL. 🤣

@bold I’ve been thinking the same. I feel Raghav is more worried about her safety and security than anything else

Originally posted by: SruthySudeep

I am in the arjit Singh mode today ... After seeing Raghu ka Dard 😭

Aaj sirf sad song gaayegi Mai ...

Tu safar Mera hai TU hi Meri Manzil Tere Bina guzaaraa. . ae Dil hai mushkil ..

I really loved all the scenes today. There was so much pain and it all felt so real. Nothing OTT acting but still you can feel the emotions that both of them were going through

Originally posted by: fria319

I wish people would recognize how mentally damaged he actually is - that too caused by his own mother leaving him. They have not touched on his abandonment issues at all yet it's the underlying reason behind why he is the way he is about those he loves. I'm not saying that absolves his actions - he's too impulsive and that's what made him mess up and mess up he did, big time - but just like how everyone can understand Pallavi is someone who is easily emotionally manipulated because of her kindness, people need to understand that deep-rooted insecurities aren't just things someone "get over" that quickly. It takes years sometimes, and that too with professional help, for people to get over those kinds of issues.

Pallavi does know about his past, but she's not a psychologist/therapist/etc., he needs to get his issues sorted and tell them to Pallavi. He can't adequately communicate his issues to her, and she can't read his mind. But to even do that first, he needs to recognize them himself.

TBH I don't have much faith in the writers for making the story this nuanced. They're only focusing on his insecurity of losing Pallavi to Mandar. DivyaaaV made a good point that they're showing how it turned into that type of insecurity - which I can understand. But I don't know if they'll ever go into why or even connect it to his abandonment issues. I think at most they're only going to connect to him not thinking he's good enough for Pallavi.

TBH the more I think about it, the more I wish this track happened before they confessed their love to each other. It would've made everyone's actions a lot more palatable.

I do wish they went through his abandonment issues

Thank you for writing this, it opened up a new perspective

But I don’t think ITV is really about emotions at the end, it’s really just using scenarios to create drama unfortunately

I don’t think we will get such a nuanced track, where we see why he is like this

I’m not sure about the confession situation though, I mean I feel like if they hadn’t confessed, Raghav’s abandonment issues would only hurt him more right?

He’d think she left him because she doesn’t love him, which would break him more? Not sure at this point

And he has been proved right..

My perception, today she didn't go to d -house for mandaar, neither she accepted to stay in D-house for him, after going to D house also she was contemplating about returning to rr mansion,

and like aaye said u can just keep coming .it was because of VD she reluctantly accepted...

Today I don't blame pallavi, I can understand her position, VD has been a father figure for her since last two years, she has treated him as her Father , however he had treated her....so for anybody in that situation, it would have been difficult to outrightly say no ..

Originally posted by: d.padmini

And he has been proved right..

My perception, today she didn't go to d -house for mandaar, neither she accepted to stay in D-house for him, after going to D house also she was contemplating about returning to rr mansion,

and like aaye said u can just keep coming .it was because of VD she reluctantly accepted...

Today I don't blame pallavi, I can understand her position, VD has been a father figure for her since last two years, she has treated him as her Father , however he had treated her....so for anybody in that situation, it would have been difficult to outrightly say no ..

I have hated Pallavi’s behavior for a while and I tried justifying it

I still wish she didn’t go to Mandar today but if we’re going to get Pallavi’s brain back then this is the way to go

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

I do wish they went through his abandonment issues

Thank you for writing this, it opened up a new perspective

But I don’t think ITV is really about emotions at the end, it’s really just using scenarios to create drama unfortunately

I don’t think we will get such a nuanced track, where we see why he is like this

I’m not sure about the confession situation though, I mean I feel like if they hadn’t confessed, Raghav’s abandonment issues would only hurt him more right?

He’d think she left him because she doesn’t love him, which would break him more? Not sure at this point

I think him not confessing would've aligned more with his hesitancy of not being able to tell Pallavi about the challenge, being open about his insecurities (whatever they were) etc.

I don't think he ever had real issues of her not loving him. This is why he never pushed her to confess (until she brought it up) or asked her to start a romantic relationship with him. He was a-okay with his one-sided love (from his POV). So I don't think it would break him more. Regardless, he's kind of in the same position because he doesn't fully believe her love for him. Even in the kitchen scene, when he asked her, "what happens when Mandar remembers his love for you" she replied with "i'll remind you of your love" she didn't say "I'll remind you of my love for you" so either way, he's not sure if her love for him can with stand Mandar's plotting. Tbh, I always wondered why they got her to answer his question that way. It seemed odd to me but maybe I misunderstood?

Originally posted by: fria319

I think him not confessing would've aligned more with his hesitancy of not being able to tell Pallavi about the challenge, being open about his insecurities (whatever they were) etc.

I don't think he ever had real issues of her not loving him. This is why he never pushed her to confess (until she brought it up) or asked her to start a romantic relationship with him. He was a-okay with his one-sided love (from his POV). So I don't think it would break him more. Regardless, he's kind of in the same position because he doesn't fully believe her love for him. Even in the kitchen scene, when he asked her, "what happens when Mandar remembers his love for you" she replied with "i'll remind you of your love" she didn't say "I'll remind you of my love for you" so either way, he's not sure if her love for him can with stand Mandar's plotting. Tbh, I always wondered why they got her to answer his question that way. It seemed odd to me but maybe I misunderstood?

Yeah I see what you are saying

I thought that dialogue was weird too, but I guess she wanted to say his love for her has changed her so much that she can’t imagine life without him or smth, I think that was the intended effect?

I know we all had lots of ideas for how this track could be better haha

I’m at least glad that Raghav is going to stop trying to change Pallavi’s views on Mandar, it was making him emotionally weak

Raghav should now just take a deep breathe and should focus on buisness ...

Glad pallavi have chosen what she want now it's turn to pay the price

I am so happy raghav is free now ...😊👍🏼no bothering of 7 days ka bakwas ..

Originally posted by: Kavila

Raghav should now just take a deep breathe and should focus on buisness ...

Glad pallavi have chosen what she want now it's turn to pay the price

I am so happy raghav is free now ...😊👍🏼no bothering of 7 days ka bakwas ..

Yes exactly

Pallavi’s selflessness for d-family, her promise to baba, it’s all going to bite her back

Raghav should just keep his arms open for her, be strong so he can hold her when she falls and trust his love

bold & underlined

Because at the very end of this track, Raghav will forget Pallavi.

And she will be running from pillar to post reminding him of his love for her . And he won’t remember.

The wound in the back of his head From the freak nail accident will cause his partial memory loss.
☹️

Originally posted by: fria319

I think him not confessing would've aligned more with his hesitancy of not being able to tell Pallavi about the challenge, being open about his insecurities (whatever they were) etc.

I don't think he ever had real issues of her not loving him. This is why he never pushed her to confess (until she brought it up) or asked her to start a romantic relationship with him. He was a-okay with his one-sided love (from his POV). So I don't think it would break him more. Regardless, he's kind of in the same position because he doesn't fully believe her love for him. Even in the kitchen scene, when he asked her, "what happens when Mandar remembers his love for you" she replied with "i'll remind you of your love" she didn't say "I'll remind you of my love for you" so either way, he's not sure if her love for him can with stand Mandar's plotting. Tbh, I always wondered why they got her to answer his question that way. It seemed odd to me but maybe I misunderstood?