Raghav's Redemption vs. Pallavi's Redemption - Page 2

I agree so far she hasn't done any that grave a mistake that she has to be redeemed. However she has to repent for her own stupidity. Like @lateuser1234 said how can a woman not realise a man's unethical / lusty intentions? I just cant believe that Pallavi is so naive. She is not a kid for gods sake!

Originally posted by: Sunaina7

I get what you are saying between the lines 😂😂😂😂

Now watch the show for only pallu pure friendship with mandar and raghav as supporting husband 😂😆

He is the biggest sinner in the show who has caught the angel pallu in his cage. So his only redemption is to support pallu in her humanity endeavours

hope you are getting what I am saying 🙊

This time also I am sure he will feel guilty for not understanding Mandaars pain and not trusting Pallavi enough to reveal about challenge.

He will come around and help Mandaar and Pallavi in this beautiful bond of friendship and redeem himself . People just need to have a little patience.

In the meantime I will redeem myself by finding a new show. I have already started by stopping watching the show. Next step would be not renewing my hotstar subscription. 😆

Redeeming is not the right word for it but she needs to realize that she is taking Raghav's feelings for her granted and Mandar is taking advantage of her "acchai". I do understand when people say Pallavi is not getting the red signals. Because there were enough hints but she is so oblivious to it. That's why when aai tried to make her understand things, she dismissed her. Raghav not being upfront is also not helping either. They still need to work on certain aspects of their relationship.

And yes, Raghav had to redeem himself because he wronged her in past. Putting her in front of truck and tarnishing her character were his worst mistakes and can't be justified at all. But it's not like he has always created troubles in her life. In fact, by buying the shop and challenging her time and again, he gave her new hopes, new wings and the identity which she lost while being DIL of Deshmukhs. He rescued her from the goons, gave her business advice, made her win a competition, he also cleared her name during abortion track but it was Pallavi who was ready to take all the accusations and blame on herself for the sake of her family's happiness. Sorry but pre-marriage Pallavi had no self-respect. She was blinded by her family's love to the extent that she didn't even listen to her real brother when he called out Deshmukhs and took a stand for her. I was so happy when Pallavi realized who really are her true people and was clear that only aai and kaka consider her as a part of their family and genuinely wish well for her. But sadly, she is back to square one again where she is unable to notice the changes, wrong things happening around her and putting in extra efforts to help Mandar regain his memory when it's not even needed.

Originally posted by: ShyNomad

I agree, relatively speaking he has wronged her pretty severely. I hated the blackmail wedding which is why I wrote another version of it.

I think the difference here is now they're supposed to be in this loving marriage and so her mistakes real or imagined take on a different significance in that role. Don't get me wrong, I am pro Pallu (and also pro Raghav), I just want to see these crazy kids be happy together.

One thing I appreciate with this show is it burns through tracks quickly - so it's rarely boring, but I realized that in show time, Mandar has been back a week maybe? Three days for the DNA test and then another few days of that stupid 7 day challenge. And in that time we've had Raghvis ILU confession, a ring, a new phone, a celebration, a photoshoot, a tracker, and all the Mandar nonsense.

So I'm sure eventually Pallavi will catch on but it's literally been days that she's been trying to help D fam, just to put things in perspective. I wish people would cut her some slack.

Are you talking about the fan fiction called Hooked? Kinda off topic, but I really love your writing! Can't wait for the 7th part!😆❤️

I too want them to just live happily together and I am super happy with the pace of the show. The writers and director do a really good job of showing us important scenes and avoiding filler or draggy episodes now. I also think that Pallu will have some breaking point and that's when the sherni we recognize will come out :)

I've noticed that unfortunately some people are brutal when it comes to criticizing/hating female characters in ITV. Really unfortunate because I adore Pallavi.

Originally posted by: lateuser1234

I only remember one word Pallavi. Hold hand. She is my wife. Not eat food. Pallavi to come get out of room. Will eat from her hand. Will take her back when have DNA report. Goes to RR mansion. Claims her to be his wife and come to D house. When refused sob story. Telling pandit I m married. Calling and messaging anytime. Coming to home if not able to talk on msg. Emo blackmail to wear bangles. Mirror drama.

These r just wt he did in front of her. Still she thinks everything is hunky dory and rainbows and unicorn. That is y P's character in show is termed the words for which victim card is taken out by many.

But this doesn't explain why she has to redeem herself... Yes, Mandar's actions are freaking disgusting and Pallu should have seen the red flags by now, but unfortunately she hasn't. So, does that mean she's at fault? Are you saying that someone who cannot identify red flags in a relationship, when they are the victim, should have to redeem themselves because they are at fault? If anyone is to blame, it's Mandar who can't respect the relationship of a husband and a wife. If anyone has to redeem themselves at the end of the track, it should be Mandar. (Though I don't even want his redemption, I just want him gone from RaghVi's life 😆)

I am not saying I agree with Pallu's behavior but I do not think she should be compared to Raghav when he has done far worse things to her.

Originally posted by: Chahat_A_Doshi

I don't want any redemption for Pallavi not even a sorry and even Raghav won't expect her to he knows her and that's why he told her that he fears they will take advantage of her acchai and take her away from him

He has expressed clearly her fear of losing her but she is all is well type ki

No all is not well esp in her case

What I want her from this whole track is to leave her Andra parivar Prem for Deshmukhs and use her brains

This is the same reason she fell in Raghav's trap

She signed the shop papers without the installment feed and he used it

He knows how she is and how she can be manipulated he has done it so he fears it

He used Nikhil to marry her

That same way Raghav can be used as her weakness

I want Pallavi to wake up and walk into anything with open eyes and brains

She is being helpful and nice to Mandar she thinks the whole world is like her

Why can't she see his obsession with her

She read SunKi expressions and that stupid necklace drama and realized they are a couple

What happens to her senses in case of a Deshmukh

I dont wven want her to cut ties with aai and kaka they are famimy let hernrun to them in troubled times but please thoda chavanprash almonds kha lo Pallavi

She sensed Raghav looking at her at the shop

He was sitting 8 ft away

This double battery touches her hands keeps on looking at her says these things and nothing no alarms raised

@1st bold - Yes, me too! I didn't want to seem too harsh which is why I mentioned that if anything at all, Pallu could apologize but I also think she doesn't even need to do that.

I really like your explanation. I now understand the other perspective people have, I guess. Raghav is insecure about losing Pallavi so he's trying to protect from Mandar who is doing the same thing that Raghav once did to Pallu.

Yes, it's unfortunate that she can't open her eyes and see who Mandar really is for but it's only been a week or so as someone mentioned in this thread, so I don't particularly blame her. But now with Raghav's insight, hopefully she can drop Mandar on his head soon and live with Raghav happily :)

@2nd bold - I know! Can Raghav please cut Mandar's hands off?? 😡 It's literally so disgusting how many times the man touches Pallavi and Pallavi is so naive when it comes to such matters :( (Apologies for the harsh thoughts but I seriously cannot stand that excuse of a man)

Originally posted by: vimeo

I agree so far she hasn't done any that grave a mistake that she has to be redeemed. However she has to repent for her own stupidity. Like @lateuser1234 said how can a woman not realise a man's unethical / lusty intentions? I just cant believe that Pallavi is so naive. She is not a kid for gods sake!

That's what concerns me too. I wouldn't call it stupidity but naivety, sure. She has already created this impression of Mandar in her mind from years ago so she believes he's a good man. So, I think she doesn't give much thought to the way he easily grabs her hands. But I think after Raghav shares his thoughts now, she may rethink on it. She has a proper sense of judgement (as we know from the Sunny kaand) but gets blinded by relationships. Her naivety when maintaining such relationships causes her to not pay attention others' real intentions. In my opinion, she doesn't even need to repent for something like this because she is the victim here.

Originally posted by: Jiarao

I got what you are saying 😆 They have kept one thing constant in the show ...RR feeling guilty. 😆

This time also I am sure he will feel guilty for not understanding Mandaars pain and not trusting Pallavi enough to reveal about challenge.

He will come around and help Mandaar and Pallavi in this beautiful bond of friendship and redeem himself . People just need to have a little patience.

In the meantime I will redeem myself by finding a new show. I have already started by stopping watching the show. Next step would be not renewing my hotstar subscription. 😆

I do agree with one thing you said, he should feel guilty for not trusting Pallavi enough because she has trusted him a lot! The angst that's now building up between RaghVi is worth watching :)

And, it's great to see you still being active on the forum despite not watching the show anymore :) Hope you find a good show to watch and do let me know which one it is! Mehndi Hai Rachne Waali brought me back to watching ITV and raised my standards, so I hardly find other ITV shows enjoyable nowadays 😆

Originally posted by: Jiarao

I got what you are saying 😆 They have kept one thing constant in the show ...RR feeling guilty. 😆

This time also I am sure he will feel guilty for not understanding Mandaars pain and not trusting Pallavi enough to reveal about challenge.

He will come around and help Mandaar and Pallavi in this beautiful bond of friendship and redeem himself . People just need to have a little patience.

In the meantime I will redeem myself by finding a new show. I have already started by stopping watching the show. Next step would be not renewing my hotstar subscription. 😆

Oh Jia... 🤗

I know how you feel.

RR ke bina TRP nahin ayegi but they have to screw his character up. WTH

I thought PB was bad, they did mess up HS' character but they didn't do this to him. I mean, HS too was the USP of that show.

I am not getting the made for each other feels about RaghVi anymore. They had more natural chemistry in the first pallu wiping scene than they do now. Something's permanently broken in the execution. Raghav's redemption track was full of tears and guilt but most of the sequence in Hyderabad were far more coherent. The jhadu scene is where it went downhill. I don't see how they can recover from this.

Pallavi has been doing a lot of illogical things since the start of the show but those are her quirks. There's nothing so far that would call for a redemption.

Even with Raghav, I think the only thing he intended to make up to her was depriving her of her family but in the process he showed her exactly how selfish they were. I think he went above and beyond what he needed to, even if he failed the challenge.

Regarding the truck thing, etc.. I don't think it was part of their redemption plan. Their scores had been reset to zero all before he defamed her. It was during that party that he went in the negative and had to work hard to redeem himself for everything that happened afterwards.

Also, since they both decided to willingly stay married, there shouldn't be scorekeeping between them. Both will make mistakes and this is why Shivangi gave everyone a heads up in her insta post because she expected people to have such reactions during this track and future ones.