Maybe its for the best!! - Page 4

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

I see a lot of people got their mood off after today’s episode. can I suggest watching today’s Pandya store Murga-Murgi bit… I am not very fond of over the top sugary Pandya store but comic sequences are pretty good there…. especially Krish scenes… go watch if you want to lighten your mood… just a suggestion…⭐️

Yaar ek serial se dil laga kar ye haal hai dusre ke mooh nai lagna ab. I also have to learn my lesson hard way i guess 🙄😒🙄😒🙄

Originally posted by: Shivi.forever

Yaar ek serial se dil laga kar ye haal hai dusre ke mooh nai lagna ab. I also have to learn my lesson hard way i guess 🙄😒🙄😒🙄

But I guess you already follow PS right?

Originally posted by: JayashreeR

This is completely my Perspective

I don't think she is not guilty she is happy that moved on from her past.

She is concerned only with the Ayi as she said she only thinks ayi and kaka as her family

But anyway I don't trust that as Pallavi is totally mad and dumb when it comes to Deshmukh's

She is helping Mandar for getting back his memory only for ayi

And she just want to get rid of all the Ehsaan she got from Ayi

That is why Mandar is using the name of ayi to make her emotionally weak as Mandar got her weakness

And the dialogue of Pallavi saying that she is feeling better as ayi supporting her and sending back to home after pooja

Also indicates the same

And whao akele hay

this dialogue from Pallavi I really didn't like that as it is completely wrong he is not alone he has a family to support.,....

Okay I am trying my max to justify Pallavi but failed hard as

Iam not able to justify her act on the name of humanity it is indeed her stupidity and dumbness

She needs to open her eyes.

iam disappointed with Pallavi of today episode

Bring back the pallavi which we got in Hyderabad ...

P. S I really need a break will come back by evening hopefully....

But most of the viewers ko ye ex pati current pati ke beech ki silsila se zyaada pallavi pe gussa iss Baat pe ho rah hai ki Jo bhi ho Kai na Kai mandaar ki creepiness pallavi ki saamne ho ke bhi as a girl vo kuch Nahi Kar rah hai.

Originally posted by: fria319

@bold/underline/italics: THIS IS WHAT I WISH FOR SO BAD. The one solace in all this is that Raghav + Pallavi are consistently trying to get it on () and Mandar doesn't even know 🤣. I don't even care if it really sets off his crazy but I would love to see him see them not even paying attention to him. It doesn't even have to be something super dramatically romantic, even a small gesture of affection or closeness that shows how much they care for each other, sigh. Would've been gold.

If this happens... raghavi closeness ... further.. irritates and adds on to the anger of mandar, aai & other deshmukhs will kick pallavi-raghav out of the house..... mandar's trick will work in raghavi favor....

Originally posted by: subbuappu

But I guess you already follow PS right?

Had started my return to itv from that serial coz i was a kinshuk fan. But i didn't get connected to it. So left. U thought so because of my name na. 🤩 Now only raghvi. That also not lasting long i m feeling

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

Okay before everyone gets angry please hear me out

I can't believe I am saying this buttttt

Pallavi being so sympathetic towards Mandar, her character changing like this, it's not just because she is innocent

I'm starting to think she is actually guilty for moving on with Raghav, and Mandar has ofc added to that

I don't blame her for being guilty

but if anything, her love and interactions with Raghav are going to make her feel even worse for what happened to Mandy

at this point, even if Raghav says something about the 7-day challenge, she might not believe it because she is consumed with guilt

one line of hers stood out "this is a tough time for all of us but at least we are together, mandar is alone"

so maybe, just maybe, her temporarily going to D-house to help Mandar would be best

I still hope she doesn't stay there, I hope she comes back everyday to RR mansion, or Raghav goes with her as well!

but this would open her eyes because

1) she won't feel guilty so she'll be able to think straight

2) she is still completely in love with Raghav, she's very clear about that, so she will easily see if Mandar tries to change the dynamic of their relationship

I know for all of us this sucks, seeing her character so weak

but guilt is something we all face! maybe they are doing this for TRP sake but this track would make some sense at least!

it is logical that she feels guilty, yes she should not ignore Raghav's feelings right now but just think about it, if she keeps trying to please Raghav, according to her, she will feel even more guilty for Mandar

Share your thoughts please!

Hey dear I am only optimistic about Raghu that's it ..

I am way upset with the way pallu is reacting.. it is not acceptable for me as a woman. A woman who is not at all comfortable with that creep she must raise her voice.

And after so many bts pics n videos of RR it seems as if TUKRA K MERA PYAAR MERA INTEQAM DEKHENGI types vibes mil rahe h ..but then also I will trust Raghu.. he can't loose so easily...

Originally posted by: Lonelythots

Guilty of having moved on makes a lot of sense. But the writers need to make pallavi voice it out to raghav. It would be much more impactful than doing this on a humanitarian basis or ayi-baba as she says. Also she can tell raghav to give her space for the same to process and come to terms with it before they move ahead in their relationship. Raghav could’ve just been the protective person giving her space but also seeing if she is not forced to do anything. It is much more mature writing and wouldve suited raghav-pallavi as well.. right now raghav pallavi scenes are disconcerting and very nibba-nibbish with the ilu’s and what not.

guilt kaisa guilt? in which century are we living in? can’t a girl after the death of her husband of few hours marry someone else? and they are taking it slow only. she was a widow for two years and they had been attracted to each other the moment they met but didn’t want to accept due to rivalry and their own personal demons (Raghav’s aversion to love and distrust of women in general, Pallavi’s sense of responsibility and gratitude towards trashmukhs) … suddenly a ghost from the past came back and she is supposed to feel guilty and lament over moving on in life… she has wholeheartedly accepted Raghav her husband.. the guy literally put efforts for her once he realized his mistake… on the other hand this so-called first husband was an arranged match with a very egoistic family..did nothing for her so far

apart from Aai, Kaka, Nikhil and to some extent Mansi initially who cared for her? Life of a widow is not easy in our society and she was always under the scanner for all her choices .. whether she ditched white clothes or chose to move ahead in life and smile… she does have a life and while I respect your opinion… I would say No she has nothing to feel guilty about and should not be.

I get where you're coming from and I can see why she'd feel guilty because that's just how she's accustomed to feeling over the past few years. However, I don't think it's a step in the right direction to show a perfectly able and capable woman feeling guilty about her happy and prosperous life.

Pallavi didn't want to become a widow, she would've been happily married to Mandaar if he stuck around. She didn't want to marry Raghav, she did that to protect her family. She's been harassed tremendously for her widowhood over these years and now that she's finally found her footing, she's being pushed back in the toxic cycle of feeling guilty for something she didn't even do. She never cheated on Mandaar. Hell, she shouldn't have even been living as his widow when that marriage lasted all of 30 minutes before he disappeared! She played by society's rules and then when she finally found her light at the end of the tunnel, she shouldn't have to feel guilty for it. She remarried after the apparent death of her first husband. It's as plain and simple as that.

Where I agree with you in terms of why she naturally resorts to feeling guilty is that this is the unfortunate reality for plenty of women in our society. We tend to feel guilty if we mismanage one of our many responsibilities, if we aren't giving our 100% as a beti/bahu/girlfriend/biwi/maa/saheli at all times. Why can't Pallavi just be a happily wedded wife without the baggage of showing up as a daughter and an ex-wife?! It's not fair to her, it's not appropriate to ask that of her either.

She needs to value herself far more than this and put an end to this nonsense. She's so used to being pulled in different directions that her subconscious isn't raising a red flag at all this tugging and pulling.