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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: DivyaaaV


hmm yeah you are right I did say that


what I meant was:

I think she is guilty that she moved on in the context that right now Mandar is left alone to deal with this mess of a situation wherein he only remembers her name

I don't think she feels bad that she remarried, as in she never loved Mandar so she isn't feeling bad about her relationship with Raghav


does that makes any sense

Yes, it does make sense. Human emotions can be complicated and Pallavi might be in a bind, feeling obligated to the Deshmukhs, feeling guilty for having moved on and even for loving someone else, and also feeling a sense of duty towards Mandar as he was her husband albeit for less than a day. All this could be portrayed by the writers better instead of making Pallavi look like an airhead who doesn’t think of even calling her husband or checking her phone when she has been out all day long.

When you have left home and have not told your loved one, however important the reason, work, emergency, whatever, there will be a nagging need at the back of your mind to connect and let the person know. It would have been nice if Pallavi was shown to worry about not letting Raghav know or checking her phone at least. Then tying what Raghav tells her about Mandar with the phone being dead or off and correlating the two even at a later point of the story. Nothing like that transpired, she hung out with this man, wore his bangles, didn’t remove them when she came home, then kept happily yapping, why then wouldn’t the man gloat that in a few days he will make her wear his mangalsutra? Creeped me out, Mandar and his talk. Reminded me a little bit of the movie Darr.


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Pallavi raghav Rao is a real pallavi.. she is flawed but yet bold and strong. She knows when and how to speak, she observe well. She isn't fool and very well smart.

After aai raghav is most important to her. He is holding that place on her and no one can take that place. After breaking a relationship with VD she can see how much aai is left alone and by giving back mandar to them she feels her guilty would be reduced because she is very moved and she is so happy on her life with raghav, Amma and farhad who treats her like queen so she wants them also to be happy.

Neither past nor present mandar have given chance to her to feel bad or doubt him. She knows her boundaries. She is very clear that she loves her husband and only he is her husband. She is helping him out of humanity and also trying to keep herself calm Even though sometimes she really feels uncomfortable around him. She feels Mandy is a victim who needs to face a situation like this. She wants to help him so that he gets better and move on. But she don't know his real intentions, seven day challenge. She needs to know or wait for time to unfold on her face. She is driving by guilt inside for mandar and unconditional love for raghav.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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If Pallavi to going to D-house, Let Raghav also go with her. Want Raghvi forever.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: DivyaaaV


Pallavi will know that Raghav will be hurt so I think she will go only if Raghav accompanies her, this could be her demand and Mandar would have to agree since he wants her there "for his health"


The only thing that can save the plot from being ultra creepy now.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

share your thoughts please!



This is completely my Perspective


I don't think she is not guilty she is happy that moved on from her past.


She is concerned only with the Ayi as she said she only thinks ayi and kaka as her family


But anyway I don't trust that as Pallavi is totally mad and dumb when it comes to Deshmukh's


She is helping Mandar for getting back his memory only for ayi


And she just want to get rid of all the Ehsaan she got from Ayi


That is why Mandar is using the name of ayi to make her emotionally weak as Mandar got her weakness


And the dialogue of Pallavi saying that she is feeling better as ayi supporting her and sending back to home after pooja

Also indicates the same



And whao akele hay

this dialogue from Pallavi I really didn't like that as it is completely wrong he is not alone he has a family to support.,....


Okay I am trying my max to justify Pallavi but failed hard as

Iam not able to justify her act on the name of humanity it is indeed her stupidity and dumbness


She needs to open her eyes.


iam disappointed with Pallavi of today episode


Bring back the pallavi which we got in Hyderabad ...



P. S I really need a break will come back by evening hopefully....

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: DivyaaaV


she has indirectly said she feels bad that he is alone right now

and going to D-house to help Mandar recover and get his memory back would help with her guilt, she isn't guilty that she moved on and remarried

she's guilty that he is feeling alone right now while dealing with this health issue, whereas Raghvi are there to support each other


obviously not going to D-house would be the best, but I think she will go there with Raghav following her

Pallavi will know that Raghav will be hurt so I think she will go only if Raghav accompanies her, this could be her demand and Mandar would have to agree since he wants her there "for his health"

Thanks for the tag Divya. I am assuming your name is actually Divya.

Usually I am right there along with you always, in being positive and being optimistic about the track as it is yet to unfold but today even I am unable to do so yr.

I agree with your guilt theory explanation you gave, to be explicit the explanation that you gave in response to another users comment/query where you kinda clarified your thoughts.

But frankly speaking I can’t digest the bangle thing at all. I mean when she was refusing to accept it she should have stood her ground and should have been firm because not doing so made Mandar more confident and how creepy was he when he said ki woh kya hai na usko meri pariah si hai to Raghav. She should have refused the bangle. And even after noticing 3 times that Raghav is not okay with her accepting the bangles she didn’t take them off once when he asked why she is wearing them and then twice she noticed him staring at those bangles with a hurt look on his face. I really hope she not only removes them in tomorrow’s episode but also returns them because this is not acceptable. Maybe I am coming off too strong about this and I accept I might also be biased here since I am myself in a long term relationship but seriously accepting such a gift is really not acceptable.

@bold - Even in that situation I want it to be Pallavi who insists on Raghav accompanying by saying that I will go only if you come with me and she makes it a demand and not Raghav just tagging along ya being invited by aayi. And Raghvi moments should be publicly shown in front of all D family and in private as well and some moments only witnessed by Mandar. As of now this is the only way I will be able to justify this track that too after their wedding photo shoot goes off without a hitch and the bts party sequence romance of Raghvi isn’t interrupted and whatever drama will happen in that party should take place only after that. This is the only way to save the track from being ultra cringey.

They really need to give Raghvi some breathing room otherwise show will lose essence. It’s just too much yr. Kuch moments interrupt ho rahe hai for the sake of drama koi baat nahi but saare moments interrupt karna is not justified. This is driving the audience away. In fact in the past I have stopped watching a show in the past despite the leads having amazing chemistry. I had started watching midway around 150th episode and left after 60 episodes or so because the leads were always struggling to be together and fighting all the time without a moments relief and I had read aage ki story and that it remains the same way all the way to the end both of them fighting to be with each other but are always unable to do so. The show had already ended when I started watching.

Edited by Medha0609 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#27

Why didn’t Raghav say anything about the 7 day challenge to Pallavi? He is with her all the time if he’s not outside or at the office, and he is with her all night too. can he not find a time to tell her already? This is getting ridiculous.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: DivyaaaV


yes this could be very possible! because Pallavi isn't feeling bad that she is in love with Raghav, she is feeling bad that Mandar is alone right now and has lost his memory


she will stay there with d-fam just so his health picks up and he gets his memory back sooner, Raghav can follow her and it would be perfect!


I would actually like this track!!


Frankly speaking I would not want thia track they ll never be in peace being in same roof as bandar. Pallavi ll not even be able to talk to anna with out mandar getting his dauhre as mentioned. The moment raghvi share a scene. Bandar s found fallen on ground n people start badmouthing pallavi and Raghav. Better they find other route. To end this track.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I see a lot of people got their mood off after today’s episode. can I suggest watching today’s Pandya store Murga-Murgi bit… I am not very fond of over the top sugary Pandya store but comic sequences are pretty good there…. especially Krish scenes… go watch if you want to lighten your mood… just a suggestion…⭐️

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Guilty of having moved on makes a lot of sense. But the writers need to make pallavi voice it out to raghav. It would be much more impactful than doing this on a humanitarian basis or ayi-baba as she says. Also she can tell raghav to give her space for the same to process and come to terms with it before they move ahead in their relationship. Raghav could’ve just been the protective person giving her space but also seeing if she is not forced to do anything. It is much more mature writing and wouldve suited raghav-pallavi as well.. right now raghav pallavi scenes are disconcerting and very nibba-nibbish with the ilu’s and what not.

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