Shivangi Khedkar {Pallavi} AT #21| Real Queens Fix Each Others' Crowns - Page 12

Originally posted by: unicornwriter

Is it?

I thought by now Pallavi will be dumb, characterless and what not!

Dann siku did a great job then 😂😂

i don't think anyone's said characterless yet. But dumb def I think was said, stupid I saw too. BUT in all fairness, I thought I saw that on here as well.

Tbh, it's all blur to me. I always forget which thread I'm on and have to double check before I reply 🤣. I have not yet been traumatized from MF - was active more there than here, but now I just wanna talk to everyone & read everyone's opinions. I've luckily managed to stay away from the crazies on the MF, I think...

In general though seems the consensus is - Pallavi was wrong, no one understands why she's like this, writers are doing this for the sake of trp and have dumbed her down to fit the story. So that's why I said its basically same discussion.

Originally posted by: fria319

Yeah I totally get it the hesitancy of being on MF.

I personally haven't come across comments like that but I read from others that some people were saying it and it just blew my mind that people would take it that far.

@bold: facts. Everyone and anyone can disagree about anything, dislike anything, like and defend anything. It's just about how you do it.

I personally look at those people who comment like that as people who maybe have a few screws loose lol, that's as nice as I can put it haha. It's often the people who can't separate reel from real and get ultra invested. Idk how and why all fandoms across all genres and mediums have these types of fans, but it blows my mind every time I come across them.

I bet some of these people are the same people who are harassing Sai on sm. 🤔

@bold: oh definitely. Did you see the lack of response on the post calling out offensive tweets in Sai’s comment section ! I want to be more diplomatic about it but this is the best I can do.

Even though I am mostly at Pallavi’s AT, I love Raghav and Pallavi equally. Sai and Shivangi as well, they have all my heart.

What I'm mad about is, they are making a show down to a woman's intelligence. We sense vibes so fast, it grabs our attention instantly. We are not fourteen or fifteen to under estimate such stuff. Now a days, even they sense vibes quickly. We know who enters our personal space and who doesn't. Even if we don't verbalize it, we sense it.

We confess those behaviour to our family or friends and they tell us what to do in return. We are not that dumb to listen to a sob story without making a logic from it. We don't become skeptical under such situations.

We become confused or oblivious if this attitude comes from the wrong bond - like brother, father, uncle or teachers.

Here that man is her ex!

Our Pallavi is not a bobble head to get wrapped under such a clever trap.

Originally posted by: fria319

i don't think anyone's said characterless yet. But dumb def I think was said, stupid I saw too. BUT in all fairness, I thought I saw that on here as well.

Tbh, it's all blur to me. I always forget which thread I'm on and have to double check before I reply 🤣.

In general though seems the consensus is - Pallavi was wrong, no one understands why she's like this, writers are doing this for the sake of trp and have dumbed her down to fit the story. So that's why I said its basically same discussion.

I toh don't leave this AT anymore.

Dumb toh we all call her at times on stupid decisions but I've read a few say about how characterless she is. Two timing the guys. She is still in love with Mandaar or uska purana pyaar jaag utha hai. 😂😂😂

Originally posted by: unicornwriter

Isse kehte hain aaj ki bhadki aag main paani daalna

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Maine kaha tha na sikku apna promise pura karega.

Shivi in black

Originally posted by: Inese_20

Actually having such a reaction is justified you know. It’s part of what’s happening in the show and everyone is free to have a discussion on it,

But what we see out there on MF are extreme comments. Even if there’s one out of ten, it ends up spoiling your mood and your whole day. Is that worth it?

Saying that you are not liking how it’s going is discussion.

stating that Pallavi needs to suffer for this in form of sexual/physical assault is bashing.

saying that Pallavi is being so naive yaar, why is she doing all such things. What can be her reasons- that’s discussion.

but when you say she’s inviting the possible assault by M on her - that’s outright victim blaming which has huge real life implications.

I saw your post about discussing vs bashing- I think the only difference is your choice of words. Same things can be said in 100 different ways. As long as you choose to be polite and reasonable- it’s discussion. Beyond that it’s not.

People who say this don’t really understand the gravity of these two words

It’s a scar for life mentally, psychologically, emotionally and of course physically

Originally posted by: -abz-

What I'm mad about is, they making a show down to a woman's intelligence. We sense vibes so fast, it grabs our attention instantly. We are not fourteen or fifteen to under estimate such stuff. Now a days, even they sense vibes quickly. We know who enters our personal space and who doesn't. Even if we don't verbalize it, we sense it.

We confess those behaviour to our family or friends and they tell us what to do in return. We are not that dumb to listen to a sob story without making a logic from it. We don't become skeptical under such situations.

We can understand well if this attitude comes from the wrong bond - like brother, father, uncle or teachers.

Here that man is her ex!

Our Pallavi is not a bobble head to get wrapped under such a clever trap.

I can't believe that she is the same women who:

Threatened Harish soo bad in the middle of the market without even caring who his boss is.

Slapped Raghav in front of soo many people as soon as she saw him hit a guy.

Took great care of that creepy landlord of her shop.

Spoiled most of Sunny's plan and figured out his true nature.

I just hope today's episode feedback is taken positively by Sickand and not with the attitude of dogs are barking, let them bark

It's high time he start understanding the importance of Raghvi, otherwise for tadka he will lose his target audience. 👎🏼

Today's epsiode has left such a bad taste in everybody's mouth.

Originally posted by: Wallflowers

Maine kaha tha na sikku apna promise pura karega.

Shivi in black

Main toh kehti hoon siku ka tukka laga hai. Warna itni jaldi party aur black saree kaise fit krdi storyline main 😂😂😂.

Originally posted by: aye-masakalii

Yup, that's my biggest issue with MF these days. I think anyone is well within their rights to hold whatever opinion on Pallavi, disagree with and criticise her actions if they want. To me, till today, she's not really warranted it but today she was dumb. That's just my opinion. For others, maybe she was being dumb since way back. For others still, maybe today is justified too. Whatever, to each their own.

However, no matter how dumb a woman is being, there are certain lines, the crossing of which makes me uncomfortable. No matter what she does, she's not 'asking for it'. Physical/sexual assault is not a way to 'teach her a lesson'. And so much more has been said here and there under the guise of 'jokes' and 'people taking it too seriously', but these aren't joking matters- just look at the world around us!

I'm irritated at her being portrayed as dumb and naive, but stupidity isn't a crime to warrant 'punishment'- and even if it were, assault and harassment aren't punitive measures to be prescribed to women we disagree with.

Plus, I may be annoyed at Pallavi and criticizing her, but doesn't mean I love her any less. I've loved her for almost 150 episodes now, that's not going to go away with 2-3 episodes of stupidity on her part, so seeing excessively vile and hateful language used for her is upsetting. So yeah, it's easier to stay here, where we know that we can discuss and critique her actions constructively, but won't be exposed to troubling language.

@Bold- Exactly! No matter what, no matter how dumb her action is; she didn't ask for it and people should not wish that for her. Which woman in her sane head would wish for an assault to another person? That's a whole another level of stooping low.