I haven't seen the episode yet (won't air until much later in my timezone), but based on the spoilers I've read, I'm really happy to see that Aai is following Amma's track. Both women are speaking up as women, not as mothers or mothers-in-law. They're standing a united front as women who uplift and support other women through these societal plights and pressures. Very happy to see the supporting cast given such impactful dialogues and screen time. 👏
As for Pallavi... I think I'm as much of a pendulum towards her as she is towards Mandar. Sometimes I'm in favour of her words and actions, other times not so much. One thing I have realized this week and primarily through this thread is that she is consistent. She always takes her time to unravel any situation, she's far from impulsive, and she easily forgives and forgets because she only cares to move along in her blissful life with Raghav. I've come to appreciate her consistency and her composure. She'll speak and react when absolutely necessary, otherwise she'll let matters be because they're all petty to her in the grand scheme of things. Quite the queen, indeed! ❤️
Abi you have beautifully written and explained our Pallu and her character🤗
Originally posted by: aye-masakalii
Abiiiii ❤️🤗
Ekdum badhiya post.
Res for now. Shaam ko episode dekh ke aati hoon.
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Unres karne aa gayi!!
Pallavi has always been this way- sabka kaha chup chaap sun legi, without creating a tamasha around it, but she'll do only what she believes is right. She doesn't get blackmailed or guilted into things by people's manipulations, but she also does not make a point to explicitly call them out on it. Suno sabki, karo man ki.
She set her boundaries with the Deshmukhs, ki ab se bas Ayi aur Kaka mere hain, and since then she's given two hoots about whatever anyone else is spewing. She knows that Mandaar is a victim here (from her POV), and she decided she'll help him, not purely on humanitarian grounds, but on the grounds ki he's her Ayi's son, and she's doing what it takes. It may make her uncomfortable, the warning bells are clearly going off for her, she looks like a deer caught in the headlights whenever he's around her and making advances, but she pushes her own discomfort aside to do what is, for all intents and purposes, the right thing to do. VIjay and Sulochana may have wronged her, but Mandaar didn't, so she's helping him recover.
Today's episode reminded me of the episode where Vijay forbids her from working with Raghav. She lets him get his anger out, but does not concede. When Sharda scolds her for leaving the sangeet like she did, she conceded that she should have informed someone, but she doesn't concede that she did the wrong thing, because she wasn't doing the wrong thing, so why let herself be blamed for it?
Her boundaries with Mandaar are the same- anything that she can be expected to do as a human being or a family member, she'll do it for his sake, even if it makes her uncomfortable, because helping him recover is a priority. This includes sitting with him in the car, or listening to the doctor's advice on food, or making the sheera today. All things that can be expected of family, and frankly most people would be willing to do all this to help someone recover from trauma. There's no intimacy in these actions- the fact that Mandaar is perceiving intimacy here is on him, and his own creepy, disturbing mindset.
Any time the 'haq' goes from 'family' to 'wife', Pallavi is unflinchingly firm. She is Raghav's wife, and no one else's. She made her point in private, at RR Mansion, and when Mandaar and Sulochana tried to put social pressure on her today by putting her in a spot, she again reinforced her point without a moment of hesitance. She unfailingly corrects every assertion of being married to Mandaar, and she matches pace with Raghav leaving that house with him, hand in hand. She may have disagrees with Raghav's behaviour once, but that disagreement is restricted to their bedroom- as far as the world is concerned, they've put up a united front. I'm so proud of them both, this is exactly as it should be!
Unres!
Originally posted by: RosyRosh
Pallavi is a queen. She is strong, smart, and knows what she wants.
Yes she is and she sways through it.
Originally posted by: unicornwriter
My goodness!!
This is amazing ❤
Everything that i felt today about her character.
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Important note: Kindly ignore my typos. 😆
Today`s episode made Pallavi look more graceful to my eyes.
Pallavi is free flowing, she may go with the flow, but her depth is unimaginable. She is perspicacious, she ponders into the situation thoroughly. She cannot come forth with an impulsive conclusion, her essence is rooted deep and she keeps thriving to find a connect with the situation. She is a listener, she gives an ear to everyone`s thoughts without a speck of judgment.
That`s what she did today, she placed her boundaries and remained intact to it. She neither moved a step out, nor did she let anybody take a step in. She knows what she wants and she is clear about it. Has she not been like that always? She knows what to speak and when to speak, and when she speaks, people remain stunned.
The first person ever to be stunned was Raghav and look where it took him. It took him to her reign and he is smitten for the rest of his life. So are we. Who wouldn`t fall in love with a headstrong woman who can go to any extent to protect her husband?
When Mandaar asked "Is he making it awkward? sorry," she said it`s fine. That is the line she drew for him and that is where it ends. She might listen to his words, but will not agree to the nonsense he says. We saw that when she chose to sit next to Raghav. She is affirmative of her opinions, when she is certain she will not back off. And when it comes to Raghav, nobody can let her opinion differ.
When did she ever give up on Raghav? When the world failed to believe him, she held his hands and refused to let go of him. She stood like a pillar, shielding him from the inconsiderate dark littering fear around his expanse. She protected the altruistic man, preventing him from being self-sacrificing. She had the guts to burn the differences down, she had the mettle to break his shell and conquer him. Once a queen, always a queen. She is the queen of Raghav`s heart and will continue to be.
She is the queen of our hearts too!
Like a queen, she set her reign.
Like a queen, she stood by Raghav
Like a queen, she trusted him and kept trusting him,
unwilling to relinquish their relationship.
And like a queen, she sat beside Raghav.
Did you see her eyes during the puja? It clearly expressed 'Nobody messes with Raghav.' She belongs with nobody other than him. She will keep claiming her position with him until the sun fails to rise.
"Ab sirf yeh mera pati hai." (Raghav)
Yes, she will choose him forever.
She will choose him over and over again.
She will hold his hand, always.
She will see through it, she will never let any of it affect her relationship with Raghav.
She is uncertain about the situation but is not oblivious about their intentions.
She is innocent but not stupid.
She is a deep thinker, once she gets into the root of the problem, Pallavi Raghav Rao will uproot it from Raghvi`s existence. And we will remain stunned again. Raghav and Pallavi are two pieces of puzzle that fix together in a perfect picture. Together with the light of love, they will fight this darkness.
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Please share your views about Pals baby; she is worth gushing. ❤️
Lovely post..and much needed insight to Pallavi.
She always knew what to ignore and what to focus on. She is quickly catching on to Raghav's vulnerability and she will rise to protecf her love and marraige .
I haven't seen the episode yet (won't air until much later in my timezone), but based on the spoilers I've read, I'm really happy to see that Aai is following Amma's track. Both women are speaking up as women, not as mothers or mothers-in-law. They're standing a united front as women who uplift and support other women through these societal plights and pressures. Very happy to see the supporting cast given such impactful dialogues and screen time. 👏
As for Pallavi... I think I'm as much of a pendulum towards her as she is towards Mandar. Sometimes I'm in favour of her words and actions, other times not so much. One thing I have realized this week and primarily through this thread is that she is consistent. She always takes her time to unravel any situation, she's far from impulsive, and she easily forgives and forgets because she only cares to move along in her blissful life with Raghav. I've come to appreciate her consistency and her composure. She'll speak and react when absolutely necessary, otherwise she'll let matters be because they're all petty to her in the grand scheme of things. Quite the queen, indeed! ❤️
@bold- The writers have sketched their characters brilliantly. It needs a great applause.👏
Yes, Pallavi is consistent. She stands firm under her decision. She does not let anyone deteriorate her opinion, she understands but never bends. That's a queen thing to do. 👑
Originally posted by: aye-masakalii
Abiiiii ❤️🤗
Ekdum badhiya post.
Res for now. Shaam ko episode dekh ke aati hoon.
___
Unres karne aa gayi!!
Pallavi has always been this way- sabka kaha chup chaap sun legi, without creating a tamasha around it, but she'll do only what she believes is right. She doesn't get blackmailed or guilted into things by people's manipulations, but she also does not make a point to explicitly call them out on it. Suno sabki, karo man ki.
She set her boundaries with the Deshmukhs, ki ab se bas Ayi aur Kaka mere hain, and since then she's given two hoots about whatever anyone else is spewing. She knows that Mandaar is a victim here (from her POV), and she decided she'll help him, not purely on humanitarian grounds, but on the grounds ki he's her Ayi's son, and she's doing what it takes. It may make her uncomfortable, the warning bells are clearly going off for her, she looks like a deer caught in the headlights whenever he's around her and making advances, but she pushes her own discomfort aside to do what is, for all intents and purposes, the right thing to do. VIjay and Sulochana may have wronged her, but Mandaar didn't, so she's helping him recover.
Today's episode reminded me of the episode where Vijay forbids her from working with Raghav. She lets him get his anger out, but does not concede. When Sharda scolds her for leaving the sangeet like she did, she conceded that she should have informed someone, but she doesn't concede that she did the wrong thing, because she wasn't doing the wrong thing, so why let herself be blamed for it?
Her boundaries with Mandaar are the same- anything that she can be expected to do as a human being or a family member, she'll do it for his sake, even if it makes her uncomfortable, because helping him recover is a priority. This includes sitting with him in the car, or listening to the doctor's advice on food, or making the sheera today. All things that can be expected of family, and frankly most people would be willing to do all this to help someone recover from trauma. There's no intimacy in these actions- the fact that Mandaar is perceiving intimacy here is on him, and his own creepy, disturbing mindset.
Any time the 'haq' goes from 'family' to 'wife', Pallavi is unflinchingly firm. She is Raghav's wife, and no one else's. She made her point in private, at RR Mansion, and when Mandaar and Sulochana tried to put social pressure on her today by putting her in a spot, she again reinforced her point without a moment of hesitance. She unfailingly corrects every assertion of being married to Mandaar, and she matches pace with Raghav leaving that house with him, hand in hand. She may have disagrees with Raghav's behaviour once, but that disagreement is restricted to their bedroom- as far as the world is concerned, they've put up a united front. I'm so proud of them both, this is exactly as it should be!
💯 this is everything! If there’s someone who actually knows Pallavi inside out, it’s you Ash 😆
Hugs for you 🤗🤗
@bold: so so proud! 🥺
Originally posted by: aye-masakalii
Abiiiii ❤️🤗
Ekdum badhiya post.
Res for now. Shaam ko episode dekh ke aati hoon.
___
Unres karne aa gayi!!
Pallavi has always been this way- sabka kaha chup chaap sun legi, without creating a tamasha around it, but she'll do only what she believes is right. She doesn't get blackmailed or guilted into things by people's manipulations, but she also does not make a point to explicitly call them out on it. Suno sabki, karo man ki.
I know right! That's her biggest flex. She does not undermine anybody and also never pulls herself down.
She set her boundaries with the Deshmukhs, ki ab se bas Ayi aur Kaka mere hain, and since then she's given two hoots about whatever anyone else is spewing. She knows that Mandaar is a victim here (from her POV), and she decided she'll help him, not purely on humanitarian grounds, but on the grounds ki he's her Ayi's son, and she's doing what it takes. It may make her uncomfortable, the warning bells are clearly going off for her, she looks like a deer caught in the headlights whenever he's around her and making advances, but she pushes her own discomfort aside to do what is, for all intents and purposes, the right thing to do. VIjay and Sulochana may have wronged her, but Mandaar didn't, so she's helping him recover.
So true. She is doing this out of a responsibility of gratitude towards Aayi not as a responsibility towards Mandaar. She does not bother to call a spade a spade. Nobody should underestimate her!
Today's episode reminded me of the episode where Vijay forbids her from working with Raghav. She lets him get his anger out, but does not concede. When Sharda scolds her for leaving the sangeet like she did, she conceded that she should have informed someone, but she doesn't concede that she did the wrong thing, because she wasn't doing the wrong thing, so why let herself be blamed for it?
Exactly! She won't take a false blame and will not let her closed ones take a false blame. A literal Queen!
Her boundaries with Mandaar are the same- anything that she can be expected to do as a human being or a family member, she'll do it for his sake, even if it makes her uncomfortable, because helping him recover is a priority. This includes sitting with him in the car, or listening to the doctor's advice on food, or making the sheera today. All things that can be expected of family, and frankly most people would be willing to do all this to help someone recover from trauma. There's no intimacy in these actions- the fact that Mandaar is perceiving intimacy here is on him, and his own creepy, disturbing mindset.
You said it all Ashi. Pallavi is doing this on the basis of humanity and she is not leading him on. Mandaar is the one to take wrong hints. (Somebody should thwack his head)
Any time the 'haq' goes from 'family' to 'wife', Pallavi is unflinchingly firm. She is Raghav's wife, and no one else's. She made her point in private, at RR Mansion, and when Mandaar and Sulochana tried to put social pressure on her today by putting her in a spot, she again reinforced her point without a moment of hesitance. She unfailingly corrects every assertion of being married to Mandaar, and she matches pace with Raghav leaving that house with him, hand in hand. She may have disagrees with Raghav's behaviour once, but that disagreement is restricted to their bedroom- as far as the world is concerned, they've put up a united front. I'm so proud of them both, this is exactly as it should be!
She does not give two hoots to anybody's opinion when it comes to her relationship with Raghav. She chose him and she knows what to make of it. Raghav is nothing less, he has stood by her during each step of this situation. Queen and King stuff. 👑
You have written a brilliant analysis Ashi! 💖
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