I will break every rule out there to find my husband, DT Note pg 49 - Page 30

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Ps143


Agreed with all of it. Mental health is a sensitive topic. Somebody who feels life so worthless that they go on to giving it up - it's sad. Situations and circumstances aren't always in our favour. Sometimes we can't help but lose ourselves in the darkness of situations we face and then, people go on to take such a huge step. Understandable not everyone can remain strong and sometimes are overpowered by circumstances. We aren't insensitive people. Malini fans don't understand that we are calling out on her action because it wasn't a deed done because she was pushed to the edge and being fragile, she couldn't handle any of it. It was straightforward manipulation. Wearing her bridal costume, uttering such dialogues - it was plain scary! She looked possessed!

If MC had been so emotionally distraught etc, she wouldn't have woken up and woven another story about KC infront of Adi. That lie served no purpose whatsoever.

Logically after that attempt, her parents should have taken her to a psychiatrist and got a counseling done.

Malini fans aren't even comprehending the characters, situations and main story of the show. They just go on to bash Aditya and Imlie.

According to them we are sadists who still support cheaters like Adilie who drove their bechaari idol to the brink of taking her life. They aren't even comprehending the arc and journey of the very idol they are desperately trying to defend.

U should see in the comments section of videos of Imlie. Those people went on to say Anu hitting Imlie's head with a tube light was right because she deserved it for ruining Malini's house. Even recently some people went on to say throwing water on Imlie, violence or abuse on her is alright.

This is the thinking of people. It's so depressing to read those comments.

We aren't saying Adilie have no flaws of their own. All are grey characters here. But M fans completely forget that.

Okay I deviated a lot from the point. In short, I agree with all your points.

Thanks Ps. And I remember reading a lot of those comments on YT. They scared me to the extent that I stopped reading comments on Imlie videos. I make sure to stick to either Twitter, IS or teh forum, coz these places usually have sane people willing to look behind pretty faces and actually understand the character.

As I specified - Mental health is a very sensitive topic and I know how difficult it may seem at one point of your life to just give everything up and finish it. But a lot of things come to your mind then and they stop you from taking that step. Even if not, when you are saved, you realize your mistake and work towards improving your situation and your emotional strength, so that such thoughts do not come back.

Malini's character did none of these things. As you and I said, she used this incident as a tool to emotionally blackmail Adi, so much so that she still uses that excuse to justify her presence in his life even today. Her not being able to move on is something I can understand, but her not making any effort to move on, despite being told categorically that your relationship is dead - that is something I cannot get on board with. That makes her bipolar & delusional, and unless it is shown she is doing something to work on improving that (which will never happen, I know), I really cannot get on board with her character as well.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: shalu79

Nahi chalega🤣

Hum Roja ke climax ki aas laga ke baithe hai

Chahe BBS aur kuto, pito aur 15 din lekin hume Rojawala climax dedo🤣

I'm with u shalu ji. I want Roja climax with Adilie. Bas.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Book-Worm

I'm with u shalu ji. I want Roja climax with Adilie. Bas.

mujhe bhi from yesterday onwards I'm rooting 4 a Roja inspired Adilie reunion sm humari mannat poori karde aur trp upar udathe. They should give us a proper promo asap
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Brilliant post! You laid it all out.

Just wanted to add that Malini is averse to reality. When AC tells her the truth about Dev’s affair and she suspects he may have a child, Malini cover3ed her ears and had a meltdown that brought the senior Ts rushing to know what happened. She’s been pampered and wrapped in delusions all her life in the name of protecting her that she believes reality is the delusion and her delusion is reality.


What she craves is adoration and attention from everyone. Mentally immature like a young child. She always smiles when T ladies praise her outer beauty, education and status. She basks in their praise, so shallow is her personality.

Another instance that proves that Malini is mentally messed up is when she goes nuts because Imli is wearing maang me sindoor. Why was that threatening to her? Again, if she suspected Adi had feelings for Imli the way he was looking out for her and defending her why not confront him with the truth? She’s scared to hear the truth.

She believes she’s entitled to whatever she decides is hers. Adi told her he and his first wife Imli love each other. yet emboldened by Sr Ts she decides to claim herself as Adi’s wife. She feels entitled that Adi should call her when he’s away(talk about insecurity), she spent 7 years with Adi so he cannot fall in love with someone else bec she decided he was hers for life. When Adi sat in the kitchen to eat with household help she made it about her. “I’ll eat with those who want to eat with me”. Playing childish games of staying back with Mom when she doesn’t get her way, only to show up hours later because he didn’t indulge her, letting her mother storm into her In-laws home and bellow her displeasure that her daughter wasn’t getting what she was entitled to in her mind.

As long as Adi was dancing to her tunes she felt she found someone easy to manipulate. Imli came into the picture and gave Adi a swift kick that woke him up to the shallow life he was leading. Imli challenged him to find his inner strength and courage to live life on his terms.

Even before they tied the knot Malini let her mother insult and berate Adi for his lack of status to match theirs. She always gave a token protest with no consequences Mom, and never fought for Adi.


KC was the only man who didn’t play her games and called her out for her delusions. Malini should face her emotional baggage before getting into a marital relationship or it’s bound to be a freaking nightmare.

+1 to everything you said. That is why I said that she is delusional. Now adding diabolical as well to hold on to her obsession, which she assumes is her 7 saal ka sachcha pyaar, is making her even more difficult to bear.

While KC was the only one to show her the mirror, he also falls for her apparent "charms" so much so that even he gives her a free pass. So unless he tells her to grow up and come out of her delusions, and she actually chooses to do so and move away from Adi & Imlie, this character is not going to change till the end of the show. Since the makers love to keep her in the middle for drama, possibility of that happening seems extremely slim.

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Posted: 4 years ago

I just want to say that all you gals in this forum are so inspiring and amazing. Be it Sutaji who punctually opens the written updates thread or nimji or Apsji who writes review thread everyday no matter how heart wrenching the episode is…

Each one of you are so positive and quick-witted. I did not watch episodes past 4 days but I cannot stop myself from visiting this forum to reach your thoughts and instantly my mood lightens

Truly u girls Rock…😊

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Thanks Ps. And I remember reading a lot of those comments on YT. They scared me to the extent that I stopped reading comments on Imlie videos. I make sure to stick to either Twitter, IS or teh forum, coz these places usually have sane people willing to look behind pretty faces and actually understand the character.

As I specified - Mental health is a very sensitive topic and I know how difficult it may seem at one point of your life to just give everything up and finish it. But a lot of things come to your mind then and they stop you from taking that step. Even if not, when you are saved, you realize your mistake and work towards improving your situation and your emotional strength, so that such thoughts do not come back.

Malini's character did none of these things. As you and I said, she used this incident as a tool to emotionally blackmail Adi, so much so that she still uses that excuse to justify her presence in his life even today. Her not being able to move on is something I can understand, but her not making any effort to move on, despite being told categorically that your relationship is dead - that is something I cannot get on board with. That makes her bipolar & delusional, and unless it is shown she is doing something to work on improving that (which will never happen, I know), I really cannot get on board with her character as well.


Same here. I stopped reading them too.

True, very true.


I want KC to show her the mirror, knock some sense into her and them to move ahead with their story. Makers need to understand that they don't have to have a love triangle to extend the show or for TRPs. Why don't they go onto realistic things or organic as they have termed it. Why don't they go onto Imlie's challenges, how the social and age difference between them creates problems but they overcome it with their love.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: shalu79

Nahi chalega🤣

Hum Roja ke climax ki aas laga ke baithe hai

Chahe BBS aur kuto, pito aur 15 din lekin hume Rojawala climax dedo🤣

tum sach mein kis ke fan hoo btw roja movie 3 hrs KI thi uss hisaab se 6 - 7 days mein niptana chaiye


Btw ek khayal mere dil mein aaya yeh Anand bhai neh aatang kaha phelaya hain … Northeast , west mein kaha im not able to connect with this anand Bhai’s origin and region of aatang …🥸 bcoz hindi belt has baagi …

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: shalu79

Nahi chalega🤣

Hum Roja ke climax ki aas laga ke baithe hai

Chahe BBS aur kuto, pito aur 15 din lekin hume Rojawala climax dedo🤣

I want a new intense piyatose reprise bgm 4 their reunion just like Roja movie as intense as d one in d movie plus we are having such wonderful leads in the form of Gashmeer and Sumbul who are nothing less than Aravind Swamy nd madhoo even in the movie its the city guy village belle thing pattikadu here its jhalli so plz makers don't disappoint us I'm so excited!
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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Ps143


Same here. I stopped reading them too.

True, very true.


I want KC to show her the mirror, knock some sense into her and them to move ahead with their story. Makers need to understand that they don't have to have a love triangle to extend the show or for TRPs. Why don't they go onto realistic things or organic as they have termed it. Why don't they go onto Imlie's challenges, how the social and age difference between them creates problems but they overcome it with their love.

See while viewers like us would love that side of things to be explored, somewhere with how the remaining shows on IT are going, love triangles are one of the genres what the TRP audience is asking for. While the others have well defined characters (positive & negative), ours is losing out on that complexity, as the third wheel in our triangle is so defective that it becomes difficult to slot that wheel. This swinging and pendulam activity is what is muddling the water and making us sick in the process.

So to answer your query - This triangle will be there till the end, even with KC in the picture, so we will have to bear with it.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Dreamer007

tum sach mein kis ke fan hoo btw roja movie 3 hrs KI thi uss hisaab se 6 - 7 days mein niptana chaiye


Btw ek khayal mere dil mein aaya yeh Anand bhai neh aatang kaha phelaya hain … Northeast , west mein kaha im not able to connect with this anand Bhai’s origin and region of aatang …🥸 bcoz hindi belt has baagi …

Yaar Dreamerji, why u ask such logical questions. Bola hai na makers ne - Yahaan logic nahi vishwaas chalta hai. So have vishwaas that atank was in Delhi & roja climax will go for 15 days. Baaki Sita Maiyya sambhal legi😆

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