Importance of saying 'No' - Page 9

Originally posted by: Couch.Potato

What is up with this victim blaming in this forum? Is it allowed mods ?

How can one say girl herself invited creep?

And no tsunami of red flags isn’t infront of her but Raghav , Mandaar is acting like creep behind her back and infront of Raghav only. Raghav also didn’t tell Pallavi about this weird challenge , he should have warned her.

Getting creepy vibes is subjective thing, some people catch on early on , some later , you can’t outrightly mock her by saying she is intentionally ignoring those flags .

No will blame Raghav , shouldn’t blame Pallavi too. Point fingers at the one who’s actually wrong, Mandaar.

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Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

No yaar I was never in bepannah forum.

Liked the show but never visited forum.

BB😆. You were team Asim , ryt ?

Aare there was a Daffodils there, I thought it was you. I went overboard on that forum.

I always supported Sid, though most of the time Asim was right. Kya kare.🙃😁 this time most of us are on KKK11. Udhar sab log well behaved bacchus hai.

Originally posted by: Salutethearmy

Aare there was a Daffodils there, I thought it was you. I went overboard on that forum.

I always supported Sid, though most of the time Asim was right. Kya kare.🙃😁 this time most of us are on KKK11. Udhar sab log well behaved bacchus hai.

Oh team Sid😆

BB forum toh hai hi isiliye. Wahan shaanti achi nai lgti😆

Originally posted by: AvantikaP

I expressed similar views yesterday. Past is past, she has moved on and found a loveable partner, friend and husband. I should don;t understand why keep going back

She herself needs to make it clear for others that she doesnt want to look bck

Also, what's up with Keerthi? She's been asking Sunny to marry her and he always shrugged it off and dismissed such ideas. Even to the point he was giving her cold shoulders as punishment for bringing it up. And now, it seems as if Sunny is the one who cannot wait to get married and sees Pallavi and Raghav as a hindrance to their marriage, and still it doesn't peak Keerthi's curiosity for this sudden change?

Gosh... when they say love is blind, it is indeed blind.

Originally posted by: nuomi.riceball

Also, what's up with Keerthi? She's been asking Sunny to marry her and he always shrugged it off and dismissed such ideas. Even to the point he was giving her cold shoulders as punishment for bringing it up. And now, it seems as if Sunny is the one who cannot wait to get married and sees Pallavi and Raghav as a hindrance to their marriage, and still it doesn't peak Keerthi's curiosity for this sudden change?

Gosh... when they say love is blind, it is indeed blind.

They hv my blessings.....let them get married. They keep dancing on everyone's head otherwise.

Keerthi has no brains . He has gone all blind and deaf and senseless in love. Whatver sunny says iis God's word for her. The girl was taking the blame of killing someone for his sake. Wht else cn we expect ?

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

They hv my blessings.....let them get married. They keep dancing on everyone's head otherwise.

Keerthi has no brains . He has gone all blind and deaf and senseless in love. Whatver sunny says iis God's word for her. The girl was taking the blame of killing someone for his sake. Wht else cn we expect ?

Well, I agree if she is so hell bent on ruining her own life than maybe the only appropriate words for her will only be "I don't want to say I told you but I told you" at the end of the day.

Originally posted by: nuomi.riceball

Well, I agree if she is so hell bent on ruining her own life than maybe the only appropriate words for her will only be "I don't want to say I told you but I told you" at the end of the day.

Yeah perfect words for Keerthi😆

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

Agreed with whatever you said

But the issue is even though it seems like Pallavi is uncomfortable like today when Mandar asked her phone number, or Sulochana wanted her to stay back, she didn’t voice it out

Raghav cannot always fight in her behalf

She has to do it on her own.

Mainly it is her battle, she is the one both want but she has to clear her stance not just in gestures but in clear words

This is wat I mentioned as her weakness she just don't want her family to suffer as she consider deshmukh as maika....

But silence can't not justifiy her act in name of humanity

she should learn to say no

But she is noticing all the small things hope she connects the dots and find the creepiness of him and show him the real place of Mandar

Originally posted by: JayashreeR

yup even I was disappointed when Pallavi didn't say no directly but only showed the discomfort....

This is wat I mentioned as her weakness she just don't want her family to suffer as she consider deshmukh as maika....

But silence can't not justifiy her act in name of humanity

she should learn to say no

But she is noticing all the small things hope she connects the dots and find the creepiness of him and show him the real place of Mandar

No, I don't think Pallavi considers Deshmukh as her mayka.

People will just say no directly, voicing their opinions without any preamble or fear of offending anybody in their mayka. What Pallavi is doing is being a very typical good bahu who will never say no to their sasural because that's what is expected from a typical community and society: to please their husband and their sasural in every way.