Importance of saying 'No' - Page 7

Originally posted by: Sunaina7

@bold- That's the truth

I will like to add a line to it. He didn't go to the public himself to promote the show. He made a promo and a concept with his money and gave to star plus. The audience got attracted to it.He didn't seek charity from the audience to forcefully like his show. They themselves got invested. Even when he does promotions with like of YouTube channels or newspaper he has to shell out his own money. All the onus of the show is on him. Audience should be a little restraint in their demand(personal opinion)

Agreed. That is y I said that that his choice what he want to show. Its pure business. To offer something with wider acceptance to get ppl hooked and den sell wt u originally intended. It is a business practice. So he had the option to choose it and he did. Perfectly fine. If enough ppl r pissed nd ratings drop all will be back to initial things.

That is y I feel its perfectly fine to say this is wrong or stupid or right or awesome . But till d time it won't hurt dem, dey won't change. Its all about TRP. So bash, vent out, do anything just dont take dis dt seriously. Use a bit more sarcasm than seriousness.

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

She is slowly starting to speak up, but it won't be an overnight development from her side, there will be angst for raghav coming up for sure

but yes the importance of saying NO is not clear for many people

you have the right to say NO and others need to understand that NO means NO

as for the challenge I don't think Raghav took it seriously in today's episode

he came home and started working on his jewelry, wasn't even thinking about Mandar

his turmoil and fear will start tomorrow, or whenever the precap scenes come

I hope atleast then he tells pallavi about the challenge but its ITV and he might not under the pretext of "he doesn't want to worry her"

You are ryt .....its ITV ....so it will be slow.....but hope sooner than later she speaks up....not for anyone else but for her own self.

Yeah I dont think he will tell her.....like you said....he will not want to "worry her "

Originally posted by: Kavila

Well said and as a girl we have inborn instinct to decipher about the counter person intention especially about Males ...As a girl my blood is boiling thinking that Pallavi all sense have been blocked or she is ingnoring the red flags intentionally ..

No matter how we respect somone or good nature we are as a human or a girl we can easily decipher about good or bad intention about a guy and Pallu being matured and married is behaving like a dumb ...😡

You expect her to say no ...she will never I atleast expected she will easily catch the guy intention regarding herself but na yeh ladki apna dimag Sabji mandi bech ayi hai ..

It's not about blaming victim it's about natural female instinct ...

Thanks for understanding.....really !!!

I am so tired of explaining myself . I am not blaming Pallavi , rather I am just failing to understand her at this point.

Even if I get her instincts dont work when the Deshmukhs come to picture.....She can atleast shoe her discomfort....try to say no. After dt if she is being forced....I will understand. And sitting wid Raghav in Puja doesnt count. She needs to do this when Raghav isnt around too.

Originally posted by: meghumonu

Mandar is trying slyly to play up Raghav's insecurities against him. The churi wala scene might have happened differently but Mandar is giving some other dimension to it . He is trying to make Raghav insecure. I am 100% sure this guy is fake because the sukha sukha expression he gave today seeing ayee and kaka confirms it. As for Pallavi, she already gave multiple clear hints since yesterday that Raghav is her husband not Mandar . She explicitly called Mandar her ex husband but that creep he lives in another delusional world. After getting clear hints also he is obsessed with her and the way he eats the sheera and said sheera bhi rakh leta hu aur Pallavi ko bhi and then eat the sheera saying it is very tasty. Disgusting!! If Pallu is forced to stay in D house he will surely try to rape her. His intentions are evil. Loved Aai how she took Pallavi's side and immeadiately shut down VD saying it is not her house anymore and it ceased to be when he threw her out of the house. This probably gave Mandar the incentive to know everything about how Raghvi marriage happened and Raghav is into smughling business. She is doing this based on humanitarian ground and not on any feelings. Pallavi is innocent and good natured which people take advantage of. She from yesterday is giving multiple clear messages that Raghav is her husband but if creeps like Mandar do not take hint and lust after her . Is that also her fault?

Girl I am not saying its her fault !! All I am saying is Pallavi needs to say a clear NO to certain things and situations. When she clearly is uncomfortable wid it.....den why do it ?

If Pallavi is comfortable wid all this.....I dont mind. Its her life and she can do whatver she wishes. But my point is her discomfort is only in her face and eyes but not on her lips. Not everyone is a mindreader and not everyone takes subtle hints.

Just saying.... I am married to Raghav ....doesnt do it. And I am not even speaking abt dt . I mean when she couldnt tell Mandar to leave her hand when he forcibly stopped her , when she couldnt say no to the Doc when she forced her to feed him or when she told her to sit wid Mandar., when she couldnt tell Sulo she wont stay in D house bcz its not her home or when she couldnt refuse to make sheera.

Originally posted by: nuomi.riceball

Nobody in the Deshmukh household seems to be asking her what does she want?

They just care about what Mandhar wants and what Mandhar needs to transition back to the Deshmukh house, and that is Pallavi seeing how obsessed he is with Pallavi.

Hopefully, this Mandhar is just fake Mandhar. The amma he's with who has been taking care of him for the past 2 years is a doctor herself, and she can easily tamper with the DNA results.

I believe that this guy is just some doppelgänger brought by either Sunny or Lion to ruin and separate Pallavi and Raghav. He pretends to have a memory lost and pretend to be Mandhar Deshmukh.

See thats the thing. Even real world is like dt. Nobody will ask you what you want or wish as long as its working well and good for them. Dts why I said she needs to be vocal abt it.

I hope I hv replied to everyone who answrd to my post and to me .

This post is now closed..

Pls stop bashing each other.

Hv a good time everyone. Had a good time here till it lasted.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Girl I am not saying its her fault !! All I am saying is Pallavi needs to say a clear NO to certain things and situations. When she clearly is uncomfortable wid it.....den why do it ?

If Pallavi is comfortable wid all this.....I dont mind. Its her life and she can do whatver she wishes. But my point is her discomfort is only in her face and eyes but not on her lips. Not everyone is a mindreader and not everyone takes subtle hints.

Just saying.... I am married to Raghav ....doesnt do it. And I am not even speaking abt dt . I mean when she couldnt tell Mandar to leave her hand when he forcibly stopped her , when she couldnt say no to the Doc when she forced her to feed him or when she told her to sit wid Mandar., when she couldnt tell Sulo she wont stay in D house bcz its not her home or when she couldnt refuse to make sheera.

Do you think a creep like him will stop even if Pallavi says no? No. He will not because it is in his character to obsess and lust over beautiful women and his ego will not register no as an answer to his desire for her. Any sane person would have got the answer when Pallavi yesterday and today also said that Raghav is her husband and Mandar is her ex. This is a clear cut answer in which Pallavi is saying " Raghav is my husband and he has only the rights to be with me. Please stay away ." But did he registered that no instead that creep was lusting over openly sizing her up. So is it still her fault that a potential rapist did not take her no as an answer and is still trying to lust over her.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

See thats the thing. Even real world is like dt. Nobody will ask you what you want or wish as long as its working well and good for them. Dts why I said she needs to be vocal abt it.

Definitely in the more traditional family however, not so much in a more modern family. I don't think many women in today's era especially in developed countries will let a dictate or a man's family dictate her unless that is what they want.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I hope I hv replied to everyone who answrd to my post and to me .

This post is now closed..

Pls stop bashing each other.

Hv a good time everyone. Had a good time here till it lasted.

I understand you. I think even in Bepannaah forum your posts were very realistic. BB is a different story.

Originally posted by: meghumonu

Do you think a creep like him will stop even if Pallavi says no? No. He will not because it is in his character to obsess and lust over beautiful women and his ego will not register no as an answer to his desire for her. Any sane person would have got the answer when Pallavi yesterday and today also said that Raghav is her husband and Mandar is her ex. This is a clear cut answer in which Pallavi is saying " Raghav is my husband and he has only the rights to be with me. Please stay away ." But did he registered that no instead that creep was lusting over openly sizing her up. So is it still her fault that a potential rapist did not take her no as an answer and is still trying to lust over her.

Whether or not someone understands ......you need to say clearly as many times as its needed.

This is the atitude that I dont support. Wo toh hai hi waisa....kehke koi fayda nai. Kyun ?? Why not say it ? I believe in saying it out , loud and clear .

Dts my personal opinion. Yours can be different.