The Curious Case of the Toxic Sandhus - Page 6

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

Though it's kinda disappointing how itv shows refuse to raise the bar. Ravi sargun are a young couple, they should try to do something better than this jija sali nautanki.

LOL I find it funny that this is all ravi and sargun could come up with. Producers older than them have created better and less puke-worthy stories than this on itv.

I know who are talking about I trolled her pretty badly on all the threads she posted. I literally hunted her down and went after her. She didn't post anything today maybe for obvious reasons. I feel sorry now.

Originally posted by: sammy17

LOL I find it funny that this is all ravi and sargun could come up with. Producers older than them have created better and less puke-worthy stories than this on itv.

Is there a way to reach them? An open letter or something? It's purely disgusting at this point. Like sure nobody expects you to make a groundbreaking series like Sarabhai, but holy cow, this jija sali romance is a little old and downmarket. There might be another sorta market for them if they like it so much in desi media.

Originally posted by: lovereading14

There is one jasfa fan who has posted like twice... I think we scare the poor girl away, she then takes some time of to gather her courage and post again. Honestly the point she makes are quite funny...the frustration the show leaves is drained by Jasfa fan humour 😆

Look we're an angry bunch of people, so we're gonna scream and shout, and we've way better standards because we want Tejo as a badass, not some crying sati savitri who'll take her husband back after his cheating shenanigans. But WTF are fatejo fans happy about? Short term...He just slept with tejo. and you are an idiot if you think he's gonna forget her. Long term, I can still bet my life that Fatejo are gonna be the endgame (despite the fact that we basically want someone else for tejo now). Chameli is gonna be a villain, it's been clarified multiple times (seriously people if joker episode didn't made you understand this, then nothing can). How come these people are happy then? It's honestly ridiculous.

Originally posted by: Shraddha6789

I know who are talking about I trolled her pretty badly on all the threads she posted. I literally hunted her down and went after her. She didn't post anything today maybe for obvious reasons. I feel sorry now.

I'm avoiding now, so don't know but earlier there were two. One was asking tejo to reunite jasfa(because apparently she's taken the contract) and another was calling fateh loser(I was fine but they dragged tejo).

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

Is there a way to reach them? An open letter or something? It's purely disgusting at this point. Like sure nobody expects you to make a groundbreaking series like Sarabhai, but holy cow, this jija sali romance is a little old and downmarket. There might be another sorta market for them if they like it so much in desi media.

They won't listen even if you reach them somehow. Even trending and sending numerous messages on their instagram by a whole fandom will do shiza, as they will just ignore fan comments.

Originally posted by: I_StanStrongFLs

Yup, every Sandhu is an emotional blackmailer, Jasso learned from the best 😆

I wonder how Tejo grew up to be normal in a toxic family like hers But then again I guess they are the ones who caused her to become so selfless. I wish she'd prioritize herself more... 🤔

Speaking from my own experience, often older siblings have higher expectations and responsibilities forced upon them by parents since they are young compared to their younger siblings, so it's almost like the older sibling gets used to younger siblings getting to talk the way they want, act the way they want and do whatever they want with very little repercussions or discipline by parents, but if the eldest sibling even so much as justifiably complains about how things run in the house, if they dare to complain against their younger sibling, or throws anything that is perceived as a tantrum the way a younger sibling would, then they are shut down by the parents. In short, eldest siblings get the short end of the stick always and are expected to sacrifice, put up with the better treatment younger siblings get and accept the fact they have to put others before what they want. LOL sorry for the rant, but this is what things are like in my house and I know all about having a bratty and toxic younger sister who is pampered by parents and gets her way but is never disciplined and in my case is never called out for disrespecting me. .

LMFAO! For reals the worst parents ever, wish Tejo cut them out of her life, would have been a valid choice. They are no less toxic than Jasfa.
I wish Tejo wasn’t super righteous, and self-sacrificial, would have been great to see her exercise her autonomy and choose the life she wants to live.

Yooo Man Tejo’s father.... -____- don’t even get me started. He expects Tejo to fix everything, like there’s always family pressure on her to solve conflicts and whatnot.

LMFAAOO UGHH THAT BEEJI (grandma) 🤢 so damn useless. Like seriously what PURPOSE does she serve in the show other than spoiling Jasmine, disregarding anything sensible and important Mamiji has to say.

Yup. Each and every one of them put an enormous amount of burden on Tejo to fulfill their needs, whether that be sacrificing her own career for sake of saving their reputation/family honour (in danger due to young daughter’s mistake) -__- I hate how it’s always about family ki izzat.... bhaad mein jaaye izzat, I want Tejo to choose herself over family izzat FFS.

I have honestly given up on this show, the only thing keeping me sane is this progressive forum full of likeminded individuals. Seriously y’all need to recommend me some better shows/series to watch. And don’t leave the forum na, stay in touch :|

Originally posted by: music_girl

The Sandhus are such a great, supportive and dumb family. 👏👏

Their obsession over Canada and their idiocy are unmatched. ITV shows have various dysfunctional, annoying or disturbing families but this one tops those because they actually believe they are the best parents and are supportive parents. ⭐️

Satti is one of the worst mother of indian television, she has no good qualities. She was ready to sacrifice her daughter for her dreams - maybe because she was incompetent to achieve hers. She would emotionally blackmail her daughter and would say "my elder daughter, so wise...so good" 😭 I would say she might know Mami is talking some sense but she doesn't want it to be true because she will not know how to handle such a situation.

Tejo's father is another idiot, used her daughter and threw her to the wolves. He also had the audacity to ask "are you okay?" to Tejo the next day of the wedding scandal. He is also a weak character and lack judgement, ready to sacrifice her daughter who already faced a traumatic situation quite similar for his so-called reputation. I doubt they have any left. Their motto is that their elder daughter should always clean their mess cause they can't man up to handle it.

The grandmother - normally in shows they show the matriach as wise and perceptive. She is another imbecile in the family who couldn't achieve her dreams by her own and expects others to fulfill it.

They all are manipulators, just with a "bechari" face, very self-centered behaviours. They also have a lack of empathy towards their eldest child and keep her on pedestal thinking she should manage everything.

Probably one of my last post on the main forum because other than ranting and trolling on the EDT, I don't think there is anything left in the show. Atleast in other shows they are openly shitty and don't pretend to be otherwise. Here they behave like saints and always so helpless.

Ideally, people should cut off from such type of people but since many can't and are attached, its advisable that they spend less time around them.

Many of the residents are leaving also, so it was nice meeting you all, it was pleasant to interact with all of you. 😃⭐️

A request to Bluekohl to either rant or copypaste one of her "pimp" theories here.

Always to address this aspect of the show. Tagging a few so they also go in full ranting mode.

Originally posted by: LostDelirious

LMFAO! For reals the worst parents ever, wish Tejo cut them out of her life, would have been a valid choice. They are no less toxic than Jasfa.
I wish Tejo wasn’t super righteous, and self-sacrificial, would have been great to see her exercise her autonomy and choose the life she wants to live.

Yooo Man Tejo’s father.... -____- don’t even get me started. He expects Tejo to fix everything, like there’s always family pressure on her to solve conflicts and whatnot.

LMFAAOO UGHH THAT BEEJI (grandma) 🤢 so damn useless. Like seriously what PURPOSE does she serve in the show other than spoiling Jasmine, disregarding anything sensible and important Mamiji has to say.

Yup. Each and every one of them put an enormous amount of burden on Tejo to fulfill their needs, whether that be sacrificing her own career for sake of saving their reputation/family honour (in danger due to young daughter’s mistake) -__- I hate how it’s always about family ki izzat.... bhaad mein jaaye izzat, I want Tejo to choose herself over family izzat FFS.

I have honestly given up on this show, the only thing keeping me sane is this progressive forum full of likeminded individuals. Seriously y’all need to recommend me some better shows/series to watch. And don’t leave the forum na, stay in touch :|

@bold: YES!! PLEASE! I'm sick of seeing fls be portrayed as this sacrificial lamb who just tolerates all type of crap thrown at her way. I want Tejo to flip them the finger walk away 😭

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

Look we're an angry bunch of people, so we're gonna scream and shout, and we've way better standards because we want Tejo as a badass, not some crying sati savitri who'll take her husband back after his cheating shenanigans. But WTF are fatejo fans happy about? Short term...He just slept with tejo. and you are an idiot if you think he's gonna forget her. Long term, I can still bet my life that Fatejo are gonna be the endgame (despite the fact that we basically want someone else for tejo now). Chameli is gonna be a villain, it's been clarified multiple times (seriously people if joker episode didn't made you understand this, then nothing can). How come these people are happy then? It's honestly ridiculous.

I know right.

Jasmine's character cannot be a lead anymore. Or the protagonist. Its all done and dusted. But still they believe 🤣🤣🤣