Forgiving and Forgetting are not the same

This post is for Pallavi. And its not a bashing post.

I understand Pallavi is one forgiving person. When she has forgiven Raghav for all the things he did to her in the past , its only natural for her to forgive Sulo, Mansi and Sanki for how they treated both her and Raghav in the past.

But why is she forgetting the type of people these three are ?? They are conniving , manipulative and selfish !!!! Sanki had thrown her out on the road just bcz a stranger accused her. Sulo .....toh has done so many things dt I lose count . And Mansi till yesterday was spewing venom at the mention of her name. Why doesnt she see these people are now sweet talking.....bcz they want something.....they want her happiness ruined. Thats all they hv ever wanted.

C'mon Pallavi.......yes you are the forgiving kind but pls dont be dumb . Pls open your eyes.

And how does she not getting the instincts tht everyone else is. Raghav is so ryt. Something abt Mandar is not ryt. Something doesnt add up. Either she never knew Mandar even for a day or she is just being too accepting.

Pta nai future mein ( after 7 days it seems) she will be back in D house. The house where people only used her for their selfish needs. I dont mind actually. Will be a good eye opener for her.

This is what it is and i don't think she being blind to see something wrong with Mandar

she is the same Pallavi who realized about SunKi because of the stupid necklace

here it's deshmukhs she is not choosing to be blind or not see his true colors she just have been wired that way She has never seen fault in her family adn he is from that same family

She doesn't have parents She got aayi when she accepted her as a daughter

in this day and age there are families who make a girl live the life of a widow even if she is a young widow she has no life after husband

yes Pallavi has done a lot for them but it was only because she accepted them as aayi baba

baba well i think he just wanted to keep his wife calm and samaj mein wah wahi I don't think he ever accepted her as a daughter truly

now coming to mandar

she has spoken to him on the phone and from what we know it was all good

how people fall for voice phishing

phone pe kisi ko bhi ullu banaya ja sakta hai

she used to blame Raghav for everything but since she started living with him she came to know the real Raghav

same with mandar she hasn't lived with him she doesn't know him

she has heard only good about him

she doesn't have one point not to trust him

He is her aai baba's son their sahara She has seen them cry for him but they remain strong for her

About her being bashed for Raghav ko bolkar jaati that's her old habit did she ever tell her parents about her problems or where she was going only when it came to an end she told about Raghav to them

Deshmukh's have wronged her she has forgiven them but she has not forgotten if she would have she wouldn't on vat savitri told manasi she should not open her mouth because if Pallavi opened her mouth no one would stand ground

When Sanki came to take her during necklace kaand she saw right through him she knew he was not there to take his daughter her home but to put down to defeat Raghav and that's why she didn\t go plus Raghav in drunk mode asked her not to leave him

How many relationships in life has Pallavi seen?

Dada vahini

Deshmukhs

She doesn't know the ugliness of relationships because they always put other family members in front of her

Sulu abortion kaand put on Pallu haan Amu ka pata chalta toh kya hota

Raghav has seen the real faces of people all his life growing up and even after

Pallavi has not been that exposed to the world

Raghav's 6th sense kicked in and he is never wrong There is something about Mandar

Pallavi needs to clear her mind there is so much confusion There was so much she wanted to do for her aai baba and now that their son is back she sees that hope that he can do it for them because sanki won't allow her

She is clear about the life she wants

She loves Raghav she is in love with him\

He is her present and future

I get all this

BUT where i with pallavi is when she opens her mouth She doesn't know how to filter certain things She is naive she doesn't know sab kuch nahi batate kuch chhupaate bhi hain

like when she told her family about her blouse button open and raghav came to her bedroom to tell her

Today she told Mandar ajeeb halat mein shadi

Like 2 minutes ago he was saying my patni take you and all

You tell him this

She couldn't study the change in his expressions

when he came to know he has no legal ground then he played the victim card

Both amma and Pallavi fell for it

Raghav was being realistic not rude

jo jaise samjhega wo waise hi samjhayega

He is not the one to pamper or give candy before bitter medicine

I'm sure Pallavi will be going to Deshmukhs

Raghav won't let her go alone He will somehow enter to keep her safe that's his prime job

RaghVi will have fights

I just want Pallavi to open her eyes and see who Mandar really is even if he is real mandar the man is not good

She felt uncomfortable when she was told to feed him she didn't sense any strange vibes any creepiness from him people usually do feel

It's because he is a deshmukh

This show doesn't drag

so these 7 days

either she sees Mandar for who he is or she will be at deshmukhs and will learn it the hard way

Amma said some lessons are learnt the hard way

oh my even i dopn't know kahan se kahan i came but i wish my stand is clear

I'm against Pallavi's blind family prem and her inability to judge people She ahd made the same mistake with Raghav

When he was good she thought he was bad when he was being bad she thought he was good She sees things her way and not the way they really are

Pallavi as a character has been designed in such a way

no one in real life actually shows that much humanity

Lol!! I read it all😆. No worries I understood where you are going and what you are saying.

I agree wid it all. Especially the part that Pallavi doesnt hv a filter. When she told abt the circumstances in which she married Raghav I was like what the heck girl. .....why did you hv to say it to him.

See I understand that when it comes to Deshmukhs she feels indebted to them and she has a screen of goodness from which she views her old family nd its members . But I am talking abt that feeling of uneasiness.......you get it. I know bcz I hv felt it. Most people hv dt sensor. You may not know why you feel it but you do get the creeps when someone has wrong intentions.

Chalo even if I keep all dt aside. She didnt see the change in his expressions and atitude once Raghav proved his marriage to Pallavi was valid. He came wid so much aggression to take her back and when he couldnt do anything like dt he turned into a sympathy taker. Yeh toh observe karna hi chahiye na.

Originally posted by: ReemShah

Pallavi as a character has been designed in such a way

no one in real life actually shows that much humanity

True

Still I find it difficult to understand how she doesnt sense the wrong.

Originally posted by: ReemShah

Pallavi as a character has been designed in such a way

no one in real life actually shows that much humanity

No i've seen my mother doshi

Originally posted by: Chahat_A_Doshi

No i've seen my mother doshi

I guess real life also such people exist

Now dt you said it.....

I remember a frnd who is like Pallavi only. Too good for her own sake.

And to some extent my mother too.

Lol der hv been occasions when I hv been told I am too trusting too....in the past though😆