Shiva Raavi - Alternate Universe DT #9 - Page 102

Originally posted by: Sakmen

Marriages, especially arranged marriage in India, is mostly taken as a deal. Families from the same caste, same financial strata, kundalis match, guy has a handsome salary according to the the financial status of the families and you're done👍

Nothing else matters, and that's what iritates me.

And I'm always frustrated to see the girls my age getting ready to marry a guy just because of the above factors.

Mine was an arranged marriage

And these factors weren’t at all present

I fell for him after marriage not because he is hubby

But because I am sure

There is no guy on this earth who can love as beautifully as he does🖤

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Wow Sandyyy

Thats some major issues u have with fam!🤣

Hahahaha Maahi my family is too big, then there will be 1000 people there, and more then a half of them I don’t know because they are, “my grandmother her neighbor his son has a colleague and his wife, went to school with my dad when they’re where 5 and they never saw each other again situations.” 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: SandhiaM

Hahahaha Maahi my family is too big, then there will be 1000 people there, and more then a half of them I don’t know because they are, “my grandmother her neighbor his son has a colleague and his wife, went to school with my dad when they’re where 5 and they never saw each other again situations.” 🤣🤣

I have a joint fam

And in my native everyone knows everyone and is somehow related to so and sooooo

So yeah I understand this quite well🤣

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Mine was an arranged marriage

And these factors weren’t at all present

I fell for him after marriage not because he is hubby

But because I am sure

There is no guy on this earth who can love as beautifully as he does🖤

Mahiii❤️

Noww this gives me hope.❤️

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Positivity can exist with practicality tooooo

So never give up

I'm not giving up

But I know for a fact that the things you mention in "more" I can't have that.. not possible after the guys and the marriages I've seen around me

Mai koi sone ki kalam se toh kismat likhwa ke nahi laayi jo kisi aur ko nahi milta mere aas paas mujhe mil jayega.

I'm not saying I would end up in a bad marriage only like others.. but I'll definitely not get anything that my heart desires. Coz it's apparently fairytale for my reality to be true🤣

Originally posted by: raindropsroses

🤣🤣
Lockdown is actually making that job easy these days

Hahah it is!! Too bad that I don’t have a partner, this would be the perfect time 😂

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Mine was an arranged marriage

And these factors weren’t at all present

I fell for him after marriage not because he is hubby

But because I am sure

There is no guy on this earth who can love as beautifully as he does🖤

aw, that's so cute 🥰

you guys are too good mahn :))

that kind of love you guys have is very rare 🥺❤️

Originally posted by: Sakmen

Marriages, especially arranged marriage in India, is mostly taken as a deal. Families from the same caste, same financial strata, kundalis match, guy has a handsome salary according to the the financial status of the families and you're done👍

Nothing else matters, and that's what iritates me.

And I'm always frustrated to see the girls my age getting ready to marry a guy just because of the above factors.

I guess it's a chance you have to takee.

If you don't find anyone in your surroundings, then arranged marriages are the way to go.i personally feel arrange marriages will work way better if there is little interference from the family.bas introduce them, baaki chod do.🤣

Let them meet up ,talk, get to know each other and then decide.

This chat mangni pat vivaah Because the guy is apparently " perfect" doesn't sit well with me

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Mine was an arranged marriage

And these factors weren’t at all present

I fell for him after marriage not because he is hubby

But because I am sure

There is no guy on this earth who can love as beautifully as he does🖤

As I say yours is mostly a different case.

It does happen like that I said in most arranged marriages in India at least. Dikhta theek hai, acha khandaan hai,, theek padha hai, acha kamata hai... these things are only considered

Haan they have changed with time and do let the girl and the guy talk n meet.. but if you reject a person other than the above reasons then you are considered as mad..

Humari thinking nahi match hoti ya we can't take each other's temperament or any other compatibility reasons are not considered in most cases.. exceptions are always there, but few.

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

I dunno about the world

I have been a pretty sheltered kind of a person

I have witnessed only devotion around me. And love.

So I say yes.

Maybe not to the extent of madness but quite close. So yeah there is that kind of love. And I dont say u get it in first sight. Love is not the name of falling. U grow in love. Trial and error se. baaton se. u learn. U make mistake u fall and then u learn not to do it again. It is magical but there is effort too. Nothing cones without effort and a will to make it work. So if u r looking for that instant spark I dunno of it. But waisa love zaroor exist karta hai.

It wont be similar to mine but it will work for u...

There has to be❤️

Rare ho sakta hai, par hota hoga.

Kahaniyaan to insano se hi inspire hoke banti hai.