Episode Spoiler - 26 July 2021 - Page 4

Originally posted by: inlieu

@Bold.. even I was like WTH? He was always like this... I don't see that his nature has changed. Thank goodness!

Originally posted by: Jiarao

This is why I say she has a long way to go in understanding him. She is living in " meri wajah se badal gaya" bubble.

I've said the same thing too Jia... He's way ahead and far more invested, and has been for much longer. This is really really tough on him. I don't know if I have the heart to watch him suffer because of all this.

I was disappointed to hear that dialogue tum sudhar gaye ho, as I was when he said Pyaar ka dusra naam Pallavi hai. Yeh to waqt hi batayega when BWA and Mandaar and all the others gang up against them. Then we'll see how much their love can withstand these storms.

I got the feeling that she feels apologetic about hurting Raghav by leaving like that in the middle of a celebration he set up for her without telling him. She could have messaged him later but no!

Back home she was content to hug him after his assurances but you see his unshed tears at the end. He's thinking and feeling at a whole other level and it's clear his hurt is far far deeper than he's showing her because he doesn't want to stress her further.

I know this might sound weird but if Pallavi were to leave Raghav, she has a few people who love and care for her. Who does Raghav have? He's going to be totally lonely and broken without her. His insecurity is 100 times worse than hers and I don't think she sees that or the reasons for it yet beyond their budding romance and the fact that they are married. His soul's about to be ripped out... he's talking about how no one loves him like she does while she's focused on how no one cares for her like he does. Fair enough but I felt as if they are on different planes. Let's see...

Originally posted by: dhara88

making sheera is not a big deal! Pooja ka sheera special hota hai aur har kisi ko wo banana nahi ata hai!! Whenever we arrange pooja and if my mother is busy, my bua prepares it for pooja…

What was aai doing is the big question!why she did not make sheera?? So I guess she is the one who might have asked her to make sheera for the pooja!

Lets see whats the reason!

But here its mandar’s illusion that she made it for him.for his pooja which will soon break ,and he tried to create that illusion for raghav…🤣

Sabke illusion break honge🤣

Aai is MIA since long and that's why Pallavi will go to make sheera as we all know how good a cook Bada Bindi is.

Mandar ka toh muh hi tod do illusion ke saath saath.

Originally posted by: ..sur..

Aai is MIA since long and that's why Pallavi will go to make sheera as we all know how good a cook Bada Bindi is.

Mandar ka toh muh hi tod do illusion ke saath saath.

Ayi must have sent the real Mandaar overseas so she's not interested in this fake one?

So so so many thoughts.

Not going to lie, I was really getting annoyed with Pallavi this episode and I love her so this is not bashing, but homegirl needs a reality check about Mandar's situation.

I know Pallavi is not saying no to anything because of Mandar's "delicate" condition, but he already knows everything! That's why her staying silent isn't useful. If she refused to help him, what could he have done?! What other shock would he face?

He's already faced it (finding his real family) and is fine! If he's going to hurt himself/ go crazy because of not being around Pallavi.. well... he should be in a mental hospital or something. That level of obsession is never ok and it shouldn't be fed into. The doctor was enabling all of this.

And the speaking of the doctor. OMG. I already hate her. She said that Pallavi is the only person Mandar remembered.. What a lie. All he knows is her name - that's all. Not her face, not her personality, not their relationship, etc. He only knew her name. And then became obsessed with it. He needs therapy so he can move on with his life.

The ending of today's episode was reassuring. But it also feels like R+P just being optimistic. I think things will get worse before they get better. Also, I think it's going to be very emotionally draining for them. At least it seems like R+P are prepared for the struggle, especially Raghav. He knows this won't be easy for them but I like he said, he has 100% trust that she loves him.

And that's what Mandar (& D fam) doesn't know. I said this in a different thread, but I definitely think Raghav is nonchalant (as he can be and I think less than people would expect) about Mandar because he's confident in Pallavi's love for him. He knows he has that and Mandar doesn't and never did. He knows that if he gives Pallavi the choice (which he would because he doesn't treat Pallavi like an object), Pallavi will choose him, not Mandar. That gives him an edge and a high level of confidence. Like he said, he's worried about D fam and their emotional manipulation, not Pallavi straying. On the other hand, Mandar thinks Pallavi cares about him and misses him and even loved him at one point, so he thinks he's taking back what's his and saving Pallavi from Raghav. He doesn't realize that Pallavi is actually in love with Raghav and that is going to be his downfall.

In general though, a lot of these issues would be resolved if Pallavi put her foot down and stopped feeling like it was all her responsibility. She is taking that doctor's words to heart and I think Mandar will physically try something with her and that will get some of her brain cells working and she'll have the guts to say no more. I'm really annoyed that she agreed to even stay there and feed him. IS HE A BABY? (I am so livid LOL) ... I know Pallavi has the nature of bottling things up and then exploding on people - but the feeding was where I would've exploded! Enough is enough, he's a grown man. What will all this coddling do???

The one good thing she said was "i'll help you as much as I'm capable" - I think that was her hinting that she can only do somethings, but not everything. But really, she doesn't have to do anything. She needs to set boundaries so Mandar understands that she is doing this as essentially his sister (LOL gag) not because she has some romantic tie to him.

I wish Raghav said "no it's not your responsibility". But I understand if he says it, it makes him look insensitive and "bad". I hope Amma or even Kaka says it. (Where is Kaka + Aayi? They're needed to balance out the D fam characters).

Plus points: Raghav and Pallavi talking things out, Raghav doing a slight back hug (wish they zoomed out a bit more), and the comfort/reassurance hug. He's been super sweet with her.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I've said the same thing too Jia... He's way ahead and far more invested, and has been for much longer. This is really really tough on him. I don't know if I have the heart to watch him suffer because of all this.

It will be difficult to watch him broken but I am sure Sai is gonna nail those scenes. I will watch crying.

I was disappointed to hear that dialogue tum sudhar gaye ho, as I was when he said Pyaar ka dusra naam Pallavi hai. Yeh to waqt hi batayega when BWA and Mandaar and all the others gang up against them. Then we'll see how much their love can withstand these storms.

You mean you were disappointed to hear him call her pyaar ka dusra naam?

I got the feeling that she feels apologetic about hurting Raghav by leaving like that in the middle of a celebration he set up for her without telling him. She could have messaged him later but no!

+1. Tell me why couldn't she just say NO to feeding him? Zabaan chal nahi rahi thi kya? What if RR hadn't arrived? I will never feed any grown up man with my hands no matter what. It's so gross😵

Back home she was content to hug him after his assurances but you see his unshed tears at the end. He's thinking and feeling at a whole other level and it's clear his hurt is far far deeper than he's showing her because he doesn't want to stress her further.

I don't think she has any idea how much her actions are hurting him. He is trying to be a good husband and friend and can't she just understand his pain?

I kind of lol'd when she talked about responsibilities. Doesn't she have any responsibility in keeping her husband's honor in front of the world? He has built his career with hard work and has a earned a reputation in business world. Can you imagine the uproar in media they get to know his wife visits her ex husband at nights?

I know this might sound weird but if Pallavi were to leave Raghav, she has a few people who love and care for her. Who does Raghav have? He's going to be totally lonely and broken without her. His insecurity is 100 times worse than hers and I don't think she sees that or the reasons for it yet beyond their budding romance and the fact that they are married. His soul's about to be ripped out... he's talking about how no one loves him like she does while she's focused on how no one cares for her like he does. Fair enough but I felt as if they are on different planes. Let's see...

It's a marriage and partnership for Pallavi but for RR this relationship is everything. It was evident in him not having any bad memories seeing their marriage photo. From that day he has accepted this relationship and has fought with everything he has to make this marriage work. He will be shattered if she were to leave him now. He is too deep in it. I don't think Pallavi has any idea

Originally posted by: Jiarao

It will be difficult to watch him broken but I am sure Sai is gonna nail those scenes. I will watch crying.

I know he will and I am going to be there for the ride, but it's already hurting me seeing him like this because I get exactly where he is in this journey and phase of his life. Those unshed tears at the end when he hugged Pallavi were just too much for me. I am glad they showed us that, though. Sai's getting better and better at these scenes. I was recently watching some of the older episodes where he was good but his growth has been phenomenal!

You mean you were disappointed to hear him call her pyaar ka dusra naam?

Yes I was. One, it made me cringe and too, I am wondering if he realizes that she's not quite there yet and has yet to match his passion. She has some way to travel.

+1. Tell me why couldn't she just say NO to feeding him? Zabaan chal nahi rahi thi kya? What if RR hadn't arrived? I will never feed any grown up man with my hands no matter what. It's so gross

Feeding him? She shouldn't have indulged him at all. This was no such emergency that she had to come running over. I mean, she wasn't even told on the phone what was wrong and she dropped everything for it. Worse part is that she did feed Raghav with her hands so I didn't want that memory to be tainted. The only other person I'll accept her doing that for is Nikhil as her kid brother. That's, it.

I don't think she has any idea how much her actions are hurting him. He is trying to be a good husband and friend and can't she just understand his pain?

I kind of lol'd when she talked about responsibilities. Doesn't she have any responsibility in keeping her husband's honor in front of the world? He has built his career with hard work and has a earned a reputation in business world. Can you imagine the uproar in media they get to know his wife visits her ex husband at nights?

No she has no idea beyond, my husband wouldn't want me to see my ex-husband, Mandaar. It is way beyond that. She still has a long way to go and I hope he doesn't hide his emotions from her (doubt that he would!) because as things progress she needs to see the direct impact of her actions on his state of mind.

For once I felt Keerti showed Raghav a mirror about what the world would say. I know he doesn't usually care about log kya kahenge but this is different. Her name is attached to his and it relates to his dignity too. I know he's a strong person but any slandering of his family's name and his marriage would be really hard for him. I hope Pallavi realizes that. While I find the writers' approach to this track interesting I think it's going to get quite nasty!

Colored Text. It's a marriage and partnership for Pallavi but for RR this relationship is everything. It was evident in him not having any bad memories seeing their marriage photo. From that day he has accepted this relationship and has fought with everything he has to make this marriage work. He will be shattered if she were to leave him now. He is too deep in it. I don't think Pallavi has any idea

When he made Pallavi marry him, he was in a neutral position regarding her, i.e. he didn't particularly hate her nor was he desperate to have her in her life just for himself. He had thought he'd avenged Keerti and Amma, they were moving in with him, and he wasn't particularly interested in a happily every after with her. I think something changed in him during the rituals too. I mean, I always knew that he would be the one to take this marriage seriously, or at least give it respect even if they didn't become a 'proper' married couple, because that's just the kind of person he is. Contrary to what a lot of people say, I think he understands relationships and their importance perfectly well and treasures them like anything, without ever being conditional. He was so sad during the wedding because he didn't really want to marry her and not in that way anyway. He would have always done his duty as a husband and from the moment they were married, this hadn't changed.

He will be shattered but I think it's necessary for him to go through this. I know Raghav can be an all or nothing kind of person when it comes to emotions/love but he has the tendency to go on a self-destructive path and the way this is going with Pallavi doesn't bode well for his mental health either. I know it's been parked for now, but his past trauma is still lurking. After finding someone who's finally brought happiness into his life and helped him get rid of his loneliness, the thought of losing that again is scaring him. During the breakfast scene, he seemed casual but his body language there and in the study showed that there was a storm inside him already. He may try to put Pallavi at ease but he's extremely worried about what might happen. He knows there's a chance this might all go away. He's been feeling the 'too good to be true' feeling for a bit and that has now just come home, literally. I know he'll fight but he'll also question himself, his circumstances, etc.

I don't know why I feel as if Keerti is going to get in major trouble while he's distracted with all this and he's going to hate himself if something were to happen to her because he lost focus. Unfortunately, this entire Mandaar situation will be draining. Raghav could have fought all this off relatively easily if it were just Mandaar, but how does he deal with the D-fam knowing what they mean to Pallavi and what they themselves must be going through in this awkward situation. Raghav may not trust Mandaar but he knows that some of the emotions the Ds are going through are difficult to handle and you could see him being very sensitive to that even when he came to pick Pallavi up. He would've been far more explosive otherwise.

I am curious to see what happens to Raghav's dynamics with Sanki after it's revealed that Mandaar is either a fake or not such as shareef bachcha after all. Sanki was quick to label Raghav a gunda in front of Mandaar but what will it be like later on when the truth is out? Also, how far will Sanki continue to be blind and watch his 'son' be unjust towards Pallavi by making her do things in the name of his 'haq'? I am wondering if I got it wrong and if Sanki was actually right to be tough with a wayward Mandaar and Ayi had just been indulging him to the point of him being spoilt.

Today was the first time I saw Sanki have any genuine softness or emotions for anyone! He wasn't faking this at all, and while I hate what he's been doing since day 1, no man at his age should have to face the truth that his 'son' is not his son, either in terms of DNA or character. He is a lonely man, and his bad behavior makes it impossible to deal with him, but his son's return has given him a new lease of life. Something tells me that the sasur-damaad bond we'd initially wanted Sanki and Raghav to have, might actually end up working out, unless they change the storyline.

Raghav doesn't have a father and even though Sanki may never be a father figure to him, if they were to accept one another and start to care, it would do wonders for both. Sorry if I went off on a tangent but this is a track I've wanted to see for ages because of the potential it has.

For some reason I can't quote you here is my reply.

1. Sai's growth has been phenomenal. I am grateful to this show and writers for giving him a such beatiful scenes which can show different shades of RR in almost every episode. Today though it was a treat to watch him.

2. I too cringed when I heard that pyaar ka dusra naam dialogue. When he said 'jitna tum mujhse pyaar karta hai ", I was like don't expect too much. She isn't there yet. Nowadays I feel like RRs dialogues in romantic scenes are not upto the mark.

3. I want Keerti and Sunny to be present in this track until the end. One thing is I enjoy RR beating up Sunny😆 and other thing is its necessary to say some harsh truths. I won't mind Amma taking a tough stand against Pallavi infuenced by Keerti. Someone should put an end to her fooishness.

4. Agree on everything you have written about RRs feelings.❤️

I am also curious to see how Sanki-Raghav dynamics evolves by the end of track. If mandaar turns out to be fake or evil I would love them to reconcile and have a meaningful relationship where they can be sort of father-son. A man of Sank's age deserves a shoulder to lean on ( he might be egoistic but we can't deny he is honest) and I know RR has a soft spot for him despite calling him Sanki buddha. I bet they will be best Sasur-daamad. But I want their verbal spats to continue. It's too much fun and I won't trade it for anything.😆

Re. Pyaar ka dusra naam being pallavi.. why were u disappointed? .. raghav himself has stated that she has literally been the light in his dark life.. and that he comes alive in her company.. he values her for the happiness that she brought forth to his family.. his mom’s happy smiles, the contentment on her face.. also personally for him as well, she gets him, understands his actions when no one else has. She has been someone who chose to stick by him.. he is as much drawn to her as she is to him.. also, i think the kaise mujhe tu mil gayi depicts his state of mind perfectly..

i was unable to quote your post.. so i have tagged..

What if when aai forces pallavi to come to deshmukh and raghav agrees to let her next day and he also comes there

That wud be fun🤣