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Yes that is why I said this push is very much needed to move the story to the next level .. they both were in a happy stalemate .. abd the story was getting boring .. if they remained good friends for the next 2-3 years of marriage .. they will get used to it .. this rush of emotions anger was needed to question Sai why is virat getting so affected ..if he was involved with pakhi .. it would have made him happier to see her settled with someone.. less guilt for him .. I am glad virat spoke how much effected he is to see her talking with a man , dancing with him , being friends with him .. abd Sai will understand this issue was simmering from Amay , aniket
A man who can easily let his so called great love marry his brother .. is getting effected with his wife talking to another man
Sai and pakhi should both question themselves .. how was virat so ok during pakhi n samrat’s suhag rat .. virat did not know that it did not happen..why was he so disturbed at the thought of jagtap capturing Sai ..
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Hey poo,I have seen clips, but all the necessary clips❤️
You know, you have described this so well and beautifully.
True, we always seem to expect good things the normal human way from a fictional character, but humans are not only restricted to good emotions right, they are a combination. And they have all sort of emotions running through them, including bad ones like anger, rage, jealousy ,insecurity etc. That is why ,if we see the fictional character as a human being, we will actually know what they are going through.
Cuz, you know, being a super short tempered girl myself, it is sometimes annoying. Cuz, I tend to get triggered sometimes by simple hand gestures itself, not even words. So, I know words are not the only way to trigger someone.
And here is the situation by Virat's eye as I felt, this is not defending, but how his brain might have processed. See,Virat has been striving to gain that special position in Sai's heart for long, he is struggling, he seems patient, but some things are also fueling his worst side for some reason which he himself doesn't realise. Although we know that the biggest lag here is lack of communication and proper questions from both ends, but stil, it is unknown to them. So, he saw someone, whoever he is, with Sai, not even something compromising, just with her, which he might have felt is his position that he is taking away. And lo, his rage burst out.
And somewhere, sorry if I am miscalculating here, Virat showed a part of Sai here. As we see Sai, although we all know that Virat is loyal to her, Sai herself knows that Virat is loyal to her, but Patralekha's presence itself makes her question him. She knows the reality well, but her walls etc make her think and react other wise, similarly it was Virat today. As he was exerting and showing his right that he is her husband when she had accident, he somewhere knew the truth as well, a part of him knows this, but the situation and the person made him think otherwise, silencing his sane side totally.
And gosh, what emotions, what an emotional outburst. True, this was such a beautiful episode, the way all worked together, it was amazing. 🥺
I completely agree. In no world can be blamed for the accident, but he can be blamed for the circumstances that led to the accident. And for that, he will repent for the rest of his life. He will never-ever forget this. It is truly going to be heartbreaking to see tomorrow's episode and Pulkit refusing to let him meet Sai 😭
true! he will definitely blame himself for the circumstances that led to this! but the silver lining is he always learns from his mistakes, even the ousting episode he did understand she never lies.. probably from this episode his insecurities will take a backseat and he will learn to trust sai..
Also if anyone has to be reprimanded and given a good thrashing its only KBA and no one else!
Also pulkit needs to shut up!
Yes that is why I said this push is very much needed to move the story to the next level .. they both were in a happy stalemate .. abd the story was getting boring .. if they remained good friends for the next 2-3 years of marriage .. they will get used to it .. this rush of emotions anger was needed to question Sai why is virat getting so affected ..if he was involved with pakhi .. it would have made him happier to see her settled with someone.. less guilt for him .. I am glad virat spoke how much effected he is to see her talking with a man , dancing with him , being friends with him .. abd Sai will understand this issue was simmering from Amay , aniket
A man who can easily let his so called great love marry his brother .. is getting effected with his wife talking to another man
Sai and pakhi should both question themselves .. how was virat so ok during pakhi n samrat’s suhag rat .. virat did not know that it did not happen..why was he so disturbed at the thought of jagtap capturing Sai ..
@bolded: This is why I always say that Virat was never in love with Pakhi. It was infatuation at the very most. The tragedy of the situation is that Pakhi's actions and vile words make Sai believe otherwise and create a constant barrier for Sai's own acceptance of the reality of her relationship with Virat.
Originally posted by: Shristhi2002
Hey poo,I have seen clips, but all the necessary clips❤️
You know, you have described this so well and beautifully.
True, we always seem to expect good things the normal human way from a fictional character, but humans are not only restricted to good emotions right, they are a combination. And they have all sort of emotions running through them, including bad ones like anger, rage, jealousy ,insecurity etc. That is why ,if we see the fictional character as a human being, we will actually know what they are going through.
Cuz, you know, being a super short tempered girl myself, it is sometimes annoying. Cuz, I tend to get triggered sometimes by simple hand gestures itself, not even words. So, I know words are not the only way to trigger someone.
And here is the situation by Virat's eye as I felt, this is not defending, but how his brain might have processed. See,Virat has been striving to gain that special position in Sai's heart for long, he is struggling, he seems patient, but some things are also fueling his worst side for some reason which he himself doesn't realise. Although we know that the biggest lag here is lack of communication and proper questions from both ends, but stil, it is unknown to them. So, he saw someone, whoever he is, with Sai, not even something compromising, just with her, which he might have felt is his position that he is taking away. And lo, his rage burst out.
And somewhere, sorry if I am miscalculating here, Virat showed a part of Sai here. As we see Sai, although we all know that Virat is loyal to her, Sai herself knows that Virat is loyal to her, but Patralekha's presence itself makes her question him. She knows the reality well, but her walls etc make her think and react other wise, similarly it was Virat today. As he was exerting and showing his right that he is her husband when she had accident, he somewhere knew the truth as well, a part of him knows this, but the situation and the person made him think otherwise, silencing his sane side totally.
And gosh, what emotions, what an emotional outburst. True, this was such a beautiful episode, the way all worked together, it was amazing. 🥺
You are such a beautiful writer, Shrishti ❤️
@bolded: This is spot on. This is why I've been saying that trust is not the issue in their relationship. They both have unwavering faith in each other. But, the lack of communication between the two leads to a build up of emotions that result in these explosions.
I want to apologize for this long post in advance. I also want to request that we don’t bash Sai nor Virat…these ramblings of mine are an attempt to understand what led up to the explosion that we witnessed today from both perspectives…
The simple truth is that Virat and Sai are two individuals deeply in love, living together and acting as husband and wife.
Virat has realized the full extent of his feelings. There is no world for him without Sai. He has left his heart entirely vulnerable. While he is a man with strong moral values and he did try to fulfill the promises he made to both Sai and Pakhi, he did not stop nor restrain himself once he started falling in love with Sai… which to me was quite honestly from the very first day he met her. Virat did not put any barriers up around his heart. He let himself feel for Sai entirely. And, although he can see that Sai is falling for him too, her words say otherwise. In this way, both Virat and Sai are the same. They both need verbal affirmation of their feelings, but they keep going on and on in circles. And, as time has passed, Virat has grown more and more insecure. He is worried that perhaps he won’t be enough for Sai. That perhaps someone younger, someone who shares common interests with her might be able to have a relationship with her that isn’t this messy and complicated. Ajinkya is the manifestation of all of these fears. Ajinkya is essentially the manifestation of the possibility that Virat and Sai might not be together forever.
With Sai, I will not say that she has not realized her feelings. Rather, I will say that she has not given herself permission to accept her feelings. She sees how deeply Virat cares for her and she understands that she is more than just a zimidari to him. That is the reason for her constant state of confusion. Because Virat is acting as her husband, but how could that be? He made very clear on their wedding day to not expect anything from him. And every time she asks him, she finds one way or another to get out of answering truthfully due to the fear of losing her… because he would rather keep loving her in this messy unlabeled relationship than to not be able to love her at all. We saw the desperation in her eyes when she asked him during the college festival fight and again when she was left shattered when he told her the ring was just a birthday gift. She yearns to hear him say that everything she is feeling…everything she can sense he is feeling…is real. But she is snapped back into her version of reality time and time again. This is exactly why she told Virat not to joke with her when he told her he likes her. Because, she did not want to start giving herself permission to start accepting this relationship as real just for her to be snapped out of it again.
For Sai, all of this is compounded by the fact that Pakhi is living in the same house as them and constantly creating drama. The way she acts is as if she has some eternal love story with Virat that Sai has come in between. Little does Sai know, Pakhi and Virat barely knew each other for 3 days. All they had was infatuation. But Sai has a heart of gold and an ability to sympathize with even the worst of people. So, while Sai trusts Virat and his loyalty to her as a husband, she also has a guilt within her due to Pakhi’s actions, and then starts to doubt whether Virat is treating her as his wife just because of pity or because he feels bad for her. Due to all of these reasons, unlike Virat, Sai has had a wall around her heart from the day they got married.
Coming to what occurred today. A man who has left himself completely vulnerable in love and is worried that the love might be unreciprocated is a ticking time bomb. Virat himself could not understand why he was feeling this way about Ajinkya and Sai in the kitchen. This is what insecurity and fear do to a person. It makes them think illogically, irrationally, and against their own will. Many will say that acting this way for Virat was out of character, but I would disagree. Virat is the level-headed peacemaker. He is the dutiful IPS officer. He is the one who thinks 100 times before he speaks. But, Virat is also a deeply emotional and impulsive human being who feels with his entire heart…and this is especially true when it comes to Sai, the person who is the most important to him in this entire word. And, we have seen this over and over again.
Today, Virat’s reaction was one of someone who’s insecurities and fears of losing the love of their life had blown up in their face. He was in a state of hysteria even before he reached the bedroom, because in his mind, AJ, the manifestation of his fears, was in his bedroom with his wife… a space that to him, is meant for only himself and Sai. So, by the time he got to the bedroom, he was already in no state to be thinking clearly, which led him to hallucinate and see things that were simply not there. His emotions were overclouding all of his judgments. He did not even realize what he was saying or what he was doing. I have witnessed people acting in these ways in my own life. Where their emotions overtake them so deeply, that they quite literally black out. None of his actions nor words were justified. He crossed all lines. It was horrendous to hear him saying such things. But, to me, his emotions were entirely understandable. Today, he vomited out everything that he had been suppressing.
My heart broke for Sai. Because to her, even though Virat did not directly call her characterless, his questions were more than enough to imply it. The person she loves most in the world was doubting her loyalty to him. She was so shattered that she could not even utter the possibility of her being in a relationship with Ajinkya. But, Sai did not know everything that had been building up inside of Virat this entire time. She did not know how his emotions were festering. I stand by what I have said before that all of this was not due to a lack of trust on Virat’s part. He has said time and time again that he has full faith in Sai and she never does anything wrong. His intent was never to question her character. That is why when she asked him that, his expression turned from one of rage to one of pain and helplessness. He was shocked that Sai could even say those words. And, did he answer her question? No. He kept yelling, telling her to answer him….to tell him what she was doing in the bedroom with Ajinkya. He was in no state to even process what he himself nor Sai was saying. He did not even understand the implications of his words. Again, this all seems illogical, but this is human nature at the end of the day.
Then came the scene on the street, with both of them yelling like mad-people. Virat kept asking her for an answer. What answer did he want… I’m not too sure. I don’t think even he knew what answer he wanted, given the state he was in. But, a part of me thinks that this was his desperation coming out… perhaps all he wanted was for Sai to say that he is the only man in her life and that she loves him. That he is her entire world. Perhaps this was just his desperation for the affirmation he lacks from Sai. But, with every time he asked the question, Sai’s heart broke a little bit more. Because with each time, in her mind, his trust in her decreased….he questioned her character over and over again every time he asked….
The second Sai was hit by the car, Virat was taken from one trance into the other. The way Neil portrayed this scene was absolutely outstanding. He was utterly shocked to see his love on the ground like that…he could not even comprehend what had happened. In that moment, all his rage, impulsivity, irrationality…it disappeared. Because, while before, seeing her with Ajinkya made him fear that he might lose her…seeing her on the ground like this made him believe it. The way he was telling everyone that he is her husband. The way his hands were trembling in the car. The way he fell onto the floor in the hospital, not comprehending anything his family members were saying.
Virat telling everyone that Sai is his wife especially broke me. He was so lifeless in that moment. It was as if he had been snapped back into reality from his out of body fit of rage. He was telling himself more than anyone else...that he is Sai's husband...that he is with her...that despite everything that has gone down, all that matters is Sai...
Despite how painful this all was to watch, I feel as if it was a necessary trigger in their relationship. Virat will remember this for the rest of his life. It will haunt him. It will teach him the painful lesson that his outbursts, his inabilities to control himself... they have consequences. The consequences are so severe that Sai is now on the verge of death. And, for Sai, it will lead her to question why Virat acted in this way. It will also lead her to question why she was so deeply hurt by his words…perhaps pushing her a step further in accepting this relationship as real. I am looking forward to their conversations in the hospital to see where this takes them...
Sorry for my ramblings… just wanted to get this all across…
P.S.- This is besides the point of my post, but if Pakhi is not held accountable this time, I will truly lose complete faith in the makers. Virat is in a trance right now, but once he gets out of it, he better put Pakhi in her place once and for all. I want a slap from Aai, and many many harsh words from Shiv bua. I want Ninand to also speak up. If Kaku can't say anything against her, then she damn well better keep her trap shut.
Wow such a lovely post! It was a wonderful read! Virat's actions, words were wrong, they can never be justified but his emotions, I understand where his emotions are coming from and I felt so bad for him. Even during earlier kaands Veeru did, I could understand from where it came, but never relate to it but this time I do. Neil totally nailed that scene where Virat's expressions changes from anger to disgust when Sai says about him thinking that she's characterless. He can never ever doubt her as you said, his words did imply that, but he himself didn't understand the graveness of his words, what his words really meant. He trusts her 💯 and so does Sai, but lack of communication had made Sai question Virat-PP despite that she knew everything, now Virat. Isn't this what makes them beautiful? They're flawed and real. Idk why people tend to bash Virat or Sai. They're beautiful characters because their flaws don't get justified no, they learn from their mistakes and grow!
No wonder Sai said about being characterless , she was broken from inside and I could relate to her too. She may not accept her feelings yet but she can never ever think about it and it just broke her that her Virat sir aisa soch sakte hain. She wasn't even able to say it 😔Honestly I felt really bad for both of them, but I also felt that it was needed. I'm looking forward to upcoming episodes, hopefully she doesn't forgive him easily like it was done during ousting kaand, this time, this time there should be proper conversation between both of them, about their emotions, what they feel. And hopefully Virat will realise this time that he can't keep making mistakes and expect Sai to forgive. He has always learnt from his mistakes and grown, hopefully makers won't ruin his progression to delay confession because now a proper convo is highly highly needed.
I cried during that accident, Neil's acting was fab and indeed the way he said 'meri patni meri patni' 😭
A scene that stood out to me was Sai saying 'mein nahi chahti thi ke yeh roop mere doston ke saamne aye'. Once again Sai proved that she has 24 karaat ka dil
Despite the shoddy editing/directing as usual, Neilsha's acting was just a treat to watch. Episode felt a bit rushed however. Why can't the drama scenes be rushed, they get strechted to 3 days, and here such an emotional episode was rushed despite having two actors who nail emotional scenes.
I didn't knew Didi could fall lower but today she totally did, her grin and even in hospital she didn't stop?????? Seriously???? That girl is fighting for her life and you're being happy about it??? I remember Sai apologising to her because she felt guilty because PP ne kuch khaya nahi tha and she 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬 And then someone says she's not a villain 🤪🤪🤢
Yes she has to be bashed this time badly, I'm hoping Ninad also joins in, he has to I feel, he had hugged her as a father. Bas Patralekha se kam nahi chalega this time. She's the worst villain I've ever seen and I've watched tons of ITV. Itni gin mujhe kabhi kisi villain c nahi aayi.
You are such a beautiful writer, Shrishti ❤️
@bolded: This is spot on. This is why I've been saying that trust is not the issue in their relationship. They both have unwavering faith in each other. But, the lack of communication between the two leads to a build up of emotions that result in these explosions.
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True, I never felt trust has been an issue, if trust would have been an issue. Then things would be nothing as present, cuz lack of trust or doubt is such a horrible leech that it doesnt take time to grow and suck the life out of a realtionship. And both Sai and Virat could be easily manipulated in any illogical situation as well.
The thing is, they know the depths of their emotions, and they realise that how deep the other is, the way they learn and lean on each other wouldn't have happened if their was doubt, but the thing is, both are only keeping and creating doubts but not clearing them . So, sometimes it's like a foggy vision, they can make out things, but their is always doubt🤔
Hope this makes things clear, cuz obviously I do want them both to think why this could happen, why someone like PP the most hideous positive person of the world and an innocent like Ajinkya could do this to them.
Very well analysed. I agree with everything.
I don’t know but I am among those who found Neil ‘s acting perfect and to the point. In the first haif he portrayed Virat in a wierd way because that is how the man behaved ever since he happened to see Ajinkya in his bed room. He is not his usual self,he can not be so. This scene is quite different to all the Sairat confrontational scenes be it the Ladak one or hand holding one etc. Here Virat became someone else with whom there is no identification with his original self. He is doubting his wife who is his life due to his insecurities. He is not sure of himself to do so but at the same time he can’t help but unleash his unexposed self and he did that only. Neil understood this and acted accordingly. We may feel awkward seeing him act that way but that is what Virat Chavan did in that scenario.
About the second half starting from Sai’s accident, Neil showed how numb he became ,how his mind stopped functioning and that really broke my heart. Virat is in trance,he can’t comprehend what is happening around. No complaints from my side. Neil lived the part.
.. I feel so bad for Sairat. Will they get their happiness back anytime soon? With that vile woman around I doubt it ... She is a shame on womanhood. Even if it is a fictional charecter,Pakhi brought disgrace to humanity in general and women in particular.