Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#65|Masale Ki Mehek,Janu Ko Baja Dala - Page 81

Originally posted by: Faithaboveall

I’ve been reading all the beautiful inspiring stories that have been shared here❤️ loads of love and respect to lol of you. I’m so proud 😃

I know the feeling very well myself. I’m 33 not married yet, battling pcod and I know just how mean the society gets. Everything comes down to marriage and children, doesn’t matter what else you have achieved 🤢

I’m blessed to have an amazing family tho who has been my biggest support. My parents are super cool and have never forced marriage until I find my person.

I guess that’s why I connect to Shivas insecurities the most. Life is tough but yet so beautiful 😳

Let’s be grateful for the good and the bad🤗

Harshi, so proud of you!🤗 Do what your heart says. ❤️ And throw society right out of the window.
lots of loveeeee 🤗

Originally posted by: Faithaboveall

I’ve been reading all the beautiful inspiring stories that have been shared here❤️ loads of love and respect to lol of you. I’m so proud 😃

I know the feeling very well myself. I’m 33 not married yet, battling pcod and I know just how mean the society gets. Everything comes down to marriage and children, doesn’t matter what else you have achieved 🤢

I’m blessed to have an amazing family tho who has been my biggest support. My parents are super cool and have never forced marriage until I find my person.

I guess that’s why I connect to Shivas insecurities the most. Life is tough but yet so beautiful 😳

Let’s be grateful for the good and the bad🤗

Hugs to you🤗 thanks for sharing your story. Marriage is not the only thing in life. I wish I had that freedom back in the 90s when I grew up. Though my parents were forward thinking, the torture they went through because of relatives, was unimaginable. Now few of my younger cousins both on my mother’s side, father’s side and my inlaws side are refusing to marry and want to stay single for the rest of their lives. The families are supporting their decisions as well. It’s their choice and we have to respect that. After all this, my family on my side and my inlaws side have started to slowly change and become progressive. Very soon this trend will catch on😃

Originally posted by: Transference

My heart breaks at looking into the frame!

I am sure most of you must be wondering whether Shiva is actually jealous of Dev, or mistrusts Raavi. I think there is a hint of jealousy which is very subtle with the undertones of sibling rivalry.

The hurt is more towards Ravi. If you notice that this hurt has begun ever since her birthday. Her birthday was the day when Dev had initiated their friendship again, and Ravi was smiling ear to ear.

If you notice apart from her birthday she hasn’t smiled this much, or whenever she is around Dev she is beaming. This happens in the case with all the brothers or everyone else too. With Shiva, she is cautious and doesn’t laugh wholeheartedly. He might be misunderstanding this smile, and happiness to be her unavailability towards him emotionally mentally and physically.

Why doesn’t raavi laugh as freely with shiva?

Pheww!! Super tired after the second dose of vaccine and finally watched today's episode..

Past few episodes, No comments, simply waste.. Even today's epi mostly felt like a lollipop for Shivi fans to continue watching PS on Monday but there were some light hearted moments I really enjoyed.. Raavi and the brothers scene was beautiful... but there were somethings in today's epi that totally put my mood off.. Sometimes it feels like 2 different set of writers writing for the show, one writing the best and other the worst...

Even today there was no continuity from yesterday's scene, what happened to Suman, did they not know Shiva had gone alone when they were upstairs?

Again I felt Dhara dominated Raavi while worrying for Shiva, I get it, she's been like a mom to him, she getting all concerned for him was not the issue, she tried calling Shiva many times while Raavi was doing the same thing.. Raavi is his wife now, they both were trying to call him at the same time, is she the same Dhara who wanted to bring them closer? There was a small moment where Raavi was confused not knowing what to do, it made me think that she felt so out of place while calling Shiva, it was then Dhara told her to call for Krish but somehow the scene irked me.. Maybe I'm over imaginating 🤷‍♀️

Then the shirt scene, it was cute but I couldn't get why Shiva was so pissed at that, she didn't particularly mention anything about his dressing or smell as such.. Shiva cares for Raavi, even she knows it but is it not the second time Shiva is spraying room freshner around the room, and he did specifically mention that she doesn't like masalas smell.. Why is she not trying to figure that out, she tries to get along with him, given Shiva's insecurities and constant bhabi jhaap I really don't think he'll work on the relationship until she takes the first step..

Despite the mixed feelings on the epi, I liked the room's decor today, those flamingo stands were beautiful...

Sorry for the long rant 😅

Harshi and Hails!

Strong girls🖤

Let the world not decide

Whats wrong and whats right

Whats wrong will stay wrong

And whats right is always right🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Harshi and Hails!

Strong girls🖤

Let the world not decide

Whats wrong and whats right

Whats wrong will stay wrong

And whats right is always right🤷🏻‍♀️

Forgot to tag

Originally posted by: Sparklesparkle

Why doesn’t raavi laugh as freely with shiva?

When she laughs with Dev its a disconnected laugh.

Ones that are shared between people that has not much to do with the other. She sees him as someone who is related to her but doesn’t affect her much. His words, his smiles and anger is not as potent for her to change her mood. So thats polite laughter with the person whom u know well.

Shiva isn’t someone she can disconnect from.

He is her bhoothnath. The one whose way is meshed with hers. His moods, his anger, his words. Everything affects her. Till they do not sort out their misunderstandings and he do not clear his stance she will not be able to improve her mood in his presence. His dark mood is affecting her enough that she is unable to dislodge it from her mind in his presence. She needs him sorted and also wants him to listen to her.

Thats how I see the whole thing🤷🏻‍♀️🖤

Originally posted by: raindropsroses

I see this happening all around me, way too often. More power to you, ML. Do what your heart tells you, it’s your life. 🤗

Reading all your posts, I was reminded of an apt folk song “Rakita Rakita” in Tamil, it’s mocks how we are expected to live for the society and gossip mongers.

Naalu peru mathikkumpadi

Neeyum naanum irukkanum

Konjam moodikittu avanga sonna
Vazhiyiladhaan nadakkanum

We have to live in a way so that people respect us (exact translation is not people but “char log”)

We should shut up and walk in their path

Avanukkaaga appadi vaazhnthu
Ivanukkaaga ippadi pesi
Avanukaaga appadi nadanthu
ivanukkaaga ippadi nadichu…

By leading a life for others sake

By talking according to others wish

Behaving according to others wish

By acting according to others wish

Andha naalu peraiyum
Idhuvaraikkum paarthathilla naanu
Enakku theva patta neram
Andha paradhesiya kaanum….

I haven’t seen those 4 people (char log)

When I need them those fools are no where to be found.

So yeah, what I’m saying is, chuck the society.

Lots of love and power to you, ML. ❤️❤️

Nivi 🤗

These are the times I wish I understood Tamil and other Dravidian languages! Thanks for the translation. It's beautiful ❤️

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

When she laughs with Dev its a disconnected laugh.

Ones that are shared between people that has not much to do with the other. She sees him as someone who is related to her but doesn’t affect her much. His words, his smiles and anger is not as potent for her to change her mood. So thats polite laughter with the person whom u know well.

Shiva isn’t someone she can disconnect from.

He is her bhoothnath. The one whose way is meshed with hers. His moods, his anger, his words. Everything affects her. Till they do not sort out their misunderstandings and he do not clear his stance she will not be able to improve her mood in his presence. His dark mood is affecting her enough that she is unable to dislodge it from her mind in his presence. She needs him sorted and also wants him to listen to her.

Thats how I see the whole thing🤷🏻‍♀️🖤

Hmm makes sense to me . You kind of cleared my disjointed thoughts

hiee

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