Pandya Store|Episode Discussion#65|Masale Ki Mehek,Janu Ko Baja Dala - Page 65

Originally posted by: raindropsroses

Meri nibbles, you’re welcome 🤣

This was one of the reasons him saying all that serious stuff to Gaumbi seemed out of place to me 🙈😂

It seemed out of place to you so you made it totally golmaal for me too🤣🤣 Ek toh unn dono ki height difference mei motu patlu vibes aati hai aur ab yeh meme phir se🤣🤣 Hardik and Anita will be clown couple for me now

Originally posted by: mpks1

Sakshi🤗 all strength to you girl! First thing, I fully support you for doing your Father’s last rites. He deserved it and so did you. You are a great daughter to your parents and they should be proud of you. Don’t worry about relatives, they can only talk and do nothing much. Just like you said, your life, your rules. As long as we don’t hurt anybody, we have the right to live our lives. Life is not bed of roses for any of us but that cannot deter us from living our lives. We go through the adversities and fight till we come out victorious,

Many of you here are very young and you have a long way to go. If life throws a curve ball at you, learn how to tackle, going forward you will only get better at it. If you do not have any excitement or adversities, life will become mundane and boring😃

Thank you Prema for your wise words!❤️

Yup life is not a bed of roses, and everyone has to face something or the other.

@bold, I don't know how I did it at that moment. The memories of it still haunt me and I think it will continue to do so for this lifetime. It's very difficult to do all that what our hindu customs require, to the people who leave us and when they are the most loved people of your life. It still makes me shiver and I don't think it's ever going to change.. for many people who saw me out there doing it without a second thought, thought that I was too courageous but only I know what breaks inside.

Originally posted by: raindropsroses

Thanks for asking all of us to check out the last part of the previous EDT. Was very heart wrenching but warming reading all your posts. Prema, I can’t even begin to imagine the complications that you went through. You powered through it all, more power to you and lots of love to your family. ❤️

Piu, you’re an inspiration. ❤️ People really need to stop poking their noses into when someone gets pregnant or doesn’t get pregnant. I’ve literally seen this happen to each and every one of my aunts, it’s really sad.

Nups, I can not even imagine what you are going through. I’m overwhelmed that you feel close enough to share it with us. And I’m glad that make you feel better. Only hugs, kisses and truck loads of love for you, my jaan. We’re all here for you. I’ll pray that ab sab acche aache ho and you get what your heart desires. ❤️

Mahi, lots of love and strength to you and your cousins. And I’m with you on the future YKB platform idea if things go downhill with the show. ❤️

Aalu, Sri, Chiki, Pixie, Naira, firsttimehere loved reading all your beautiful posts too. ❤️

And like I’ve said before at the AU, you married ladies are savage, but more importantly a huge inspiration. I’m so so so glad I decided to join this forum and even more glad to have gotten to know all of you. 🤗

Nivi meri jaaneman!! You truly are my jaan! Thank you ❤️🤗 I feel so blessed that I met you guys through this forum! You all are like family to me! My family that gives me love, strength and courage to move on in life!! Thank you for being so kind and loving always! Nivi meri bacchi! Lots of love!!❤️🤗

Sorry kal forum pe nahi aa payi raat ko isliye replying late❤️

Originally posted by: Transference

To all the wonderful women here 🤗

I had written this to celebrate womanhood ❤️

Cheers to us!!

❤️❤️

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Sakshi u r my girl!

U r strong!

U r enough!

And I love u for who u r...

Always be strong like u have always been till now🖤

Thank you meri Maahi ❤

I love you too🤗

It's just that sometimes it gets mentally and emotionally too taxing to be the stronger one or being enough.

Originally posted by: raindropsroses

It’s love

Love??

U threw me off my rhyme game successfully

Now explain🤣

Originally posted by: raindropsroses

Meri Saksh, so much love to you ❤️

You’re carrying so much on your shoulder and yet putting up a strong front and supporting your mom as well. I completely agree with everything you did. And I know your father would be so proud of you.
People will say a 100 different things, don’t let anyone get to you. You do what you feel is right cause at the end it’s your life and you’re answerable only to yourself.

You’re doing amazing, hang it there, we are all rooting for you here. Love love love love and only love for you, Saksh. ❤️

Thank you meri Nivuu❤️

Lots of love to you too❤🤗

Someone Arrived ❤️

Someone Relieved 😉

Originally posted by: Sakmen

So generally, I'm very lazy about doing homework here, but after Prema and Nivi's posts I went to read the previous EDT's Last night's conversations. And I'm very emotional right now.

Thank you all beautiful and strong ladies for pouring your hearts out🤗❤️

I can't even imagine what you all have gone through or are going through. I'm much younger to you all and haven't even experienced things as much as you all. But whatever little I've seen, I've come to know that relatives have got noses just to poke in other people's businesses. They can neither see you happy nor unhappy. You do them all good or all bad, they'll still find problems in you. So never give a damn about them. YOUR LIFE YOUR RULES.

I know fertility is a very sensitive issue, being suffering from PCOD myself for years now, I do get told by a lot of people around me to lose weight so that you don't have problems conceiving in the future.. no care about my health but for the conceiving part only, as if I'm just born to do that.

I can't even imagine what you must be going through Nups and Piu🤗 Big hug and a lot of strength to you ❤️

Prema, your story is so inspiring and beautiful.. I know it is so now, but at that time it must have been a lot to go through. And I'm so glad that you came out of it as a warrior. God bless your family.❤️

My own parents got married very late. My mother was 38 and father 40, when they got married. It was my mother's first marriage and my father's second. He had a "son" from his first marriage, but due to some strained issues in the marriage, they divorced. He never met them, including his son, after getting divorced. He started his new life with my mother with all his heart. Conceiving at 38, was obviously an issue for my mother, but 2 years later they had me. And due to some complications, the doctor told her that she won't be able to conceive again. My father had no problems with it, but some people did and till date have, as I was a "girl".

My father never discriminated or thought of me any less, for not being a particular gender. He always let me have my way and fulfil all my desires. He never ever even mentioned to me about his son or past life, until few months before he passed away... when that son appeared out of nowhere after 30 years to demand a share in his property. And, my father just couldn't help but hate for it afterwards.

My grandmother loved me a lot too, but she sometimes used to have a taunting undertone for my mother that she's given birth only to one child and that too a daughter.

My father was terminally ill for about past 7 years, underwent 3 major surgeries during this time. My mother and I single handedly have took care of him all this while.. all my relatives including his real brothers and sister used to come as guests and go, just for formality sake, nobody was of any real help if I may say so! Having done all of that alone, from the age of 18, my relatives still have the audacity to say "ladki hai, kya kya karegi" and still be of no help at all.

when my dad passed away, and it was time to decide that who'd do the cremation, yeah they had to decide that, I was asked by a cousin of my father as whom do I want to do it.. I without any single thought said that I want to do it. When he has brought me up without any thought that whether I'm a girl or boy, then at this point also I have the whole right to do it.

My "so called family members" still had problems with it as some sin would ensue on them if a girl did it. But I did it anyway.

Since then, most of them have not even come to ur house after all the rituals got over, it's been 4 months. Just some formality phone calls every now and then to check up on mom n me. And even some complaints that we don't call them.. I told you, whatever you do or not do they will find problems.

It's not easy but we are doing fine while dealing with a lot of issues... So lead your lives the way you want to because people will have issues anyway.

I think I wrote too much while crying in between.😆

Maahi I'm all up for the alternate YKB platform 🤗🤗

Lots of love and strength to you all❤❤❤

Sakshu🤗❤️ You are one of the strongest person I have met ❤️ Love you! I am so emotional right now reading your post. Thank you for sharing this with us. It takes a lot of courage and determination to do what you have done. You truly are the best daughter your dad could ever ask for! And you have proved it! He would be so proud of you! And I am sure he is! He is watching you from up there and he will always take care of you jaan❤️ So emotional right now! You have gone through a lot dear! And I only wish the best for you always!

And yes, relatives are meant to poke their noses in other people’s matters! Thats their only job! The only thing we can do is ignore them and live our life the way we want to! Because we live only once, why not live it according to our terms?

Lots of love to all the strong women on this forum! I am so glad we met!! ❤️🤗 #MyLifeMyRules❤️

Originally posted by: Nups_mish

Nivi meri jaaneman!! You truly are my jaan! Thank you ❤️🤗 I feel so blessed that I met you guys through this forum! You all are like family to me! My family that gives me love, strength and courage to move on in life!! Thank you for being so kind and loving always! Nivi meri bacchi! Lots of love!!❤️🤗

Sorry kal forum pe nahi aa payi raat ko isliye replying late❤️

I love you too, meri jaaanemannn 🤗🤗

I’m a person who loves excessive hugs and endearments. I guess we all do, but it’s not very common in real life. I feel so amazing getting that in abundance here with you all. Love you all to the moon and back 🤗❤️