Contrasts in Understanding and Communication - Page 2

Originally posted by: AreYaar

ROFL Loservedis ki "logic" mein logic dhundna is literally the most useless kaam. Maa-Beti dono ek hi level ki psychos hain jab mann kare apne hisaab se baat palat lo......AC was also trying to blame Imlie today for not accepting Dev as her father😕😆......ghatiyapanti ki champions hai Maa-beti.

They just want to suck the blood out of everyone all their lives. The pity is that people like Adi-Imlie still give regard to Didi jaise log to keep on abusing them.

@ bold

🤣🤣 True

AC was feeling so bad the Imlie did not accept DC as her father 🤣🤣 woooooaaah 🤣

Till yesterday she was bothered where Dev will give a share of property to imlie 😆

Paltu champion like you said 😆

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

Ok glad I was not the only one disappointed from today except for Sumbuls performance. Can Imlie just enjoy one success of hers with the complete spotlight on her please? Why does didi and her guilt trips have to ruin everything??

Best part was of course Sumbul’s dance - she did amazing and looked graceful. Apu was actually proud of her - at least that is what I caught in her expressions.
Everything else was nonsense. Not happy with Adi’s dialogues at the end too - especially the one where he said he feels Malini does not want to have any kind of relationship with him.. I mean what the heck was that?

So is this all to delay divorce process? I think what MB said will happen- Adi will be busy pacifying didi while the bunty Bhaiya gang will get into T house.
Can we just have didi far away from the NDE drama please??

@bold1: LOL I didn't feel fazed by that dialogue much😆.....aaj main tumhein bolungi ki us baat pe zyada dhyaan mat do....he was doing his usual gehri dosti waali blabbering that he does whenever Didi shows up to remind him of her existence otherwise she is out of sight out of mind😆

It's just part of the usual Didi mandir building jo ki kabhi Adi se, kabhi Imlie se dikhaate hi rahenge....ki both of them just want to worship Malini at all costs and they are all "heartbroken" if she is not in their lives

@bold2: Yes, looks like part of it may be to drag the divorce again but the other line that kinda of echoed today was Imlie saying ki she knows uska aur Adi ka saath kabhi nahin chhutega......toh lag raha hai ki kuch aa raha hai to test that saath.....whether it will be this divorce dragging ya kuch NDE jaisa.....pata nahin.....but that dialogue from Imlie did make it seem like saath ke upar itni badi baat boli hai, itna vishwaas dikha rahi hai Imlie in her and Adi never being seperated now.....toh kuch toh hoga to try and break them apart.

Matlab they have barely gotten a chance to be together off late and phir se koi ajeeb twist ke saath drag to split them? 😆......I hope this NDE brings a resolution and not some contrived seperation.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold1: LOL I didn't feel fazed by that dialogue much😆.....aaj main tumhein bolungi ki us baat pe zyada dhyaan mat do....he was doing his usual gehri dosti waali blabbering that he does whenever Didi shows up to remind him of her existence otherwise she is out of sight out of mind😆

It's just part of the usual Didi mandir building jo ki kabhi Adi se, kabhi Imlie se dikhaate hi rahenge....ki both of them just want to worship Malini at all costs and they are all "heartbroken" if she is not in their lives

@bold2: Yes, looks like part of it may be to drag the divorce again but the other line that kinda of echoed today was Imlie saying ki she knows uska aur Adi ka saath kabhi nahin chhutega......toh lag raha hai ki kuch aa raha hai to test that saath.....whether it will be this divorce dragging ya kuch NDE jaisa.....pata nahin.....but that dialogue from Imlie did make it seem like saath ke upar itni badi baat boli hai, itna vishwaas dikha rahi hai Imlie in her and Adi never being seperated now.....toh kuch toh hoga to try and break them apart.

Matlab they have barely gotten a chance to be together off late and phir se koi ajeeb twist ke saath drag to split them? 😆......I hope this NDE brings a resolution and not some contrived seperation.

I think that will be the NDE AY - divorce is already dragging. With the Ts not accepting Imilie right now, am NDE makes sense to give them a jolt. Now we don’t know whose NDE it will be imlie or Adi?

Actually if What MB said comes true, even didi will feel guilty of dragging this issue from today 🤣🤣

Everyone feeling guilty for each other 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Josupra

Don't know what to say today.. such a let down. The whole didi drama left a very bad taste. One silver light is even though Adi is buried in guilt, Imlie felt sorry and went with Adi to apologize and later asked him about the call to Malini and offered to apologize to her on his behalf, but I didn't feel Imlie was that guilt ridden. Now, Malini will make Adi growl at her feet as she always did and Adi kar bhi lega 🤢 The whole Malini's drama gives me a headache and nausea.

Even more disappointment is Aparna today. She knows she did a mistake, either I expected her to feel sorry and stay quite whenever one found out. But she not only defended her wrong doing, she put the whole blame on Adi. Pathetic. She is asking Imlie to go back to her village again and again.. now I want them to know what happened the last time she left without telling anyone. She has to understand, her son cannot live with Imlie. May be the next NDE track will prove that. I am thinking it would be Imlie only while trying to save someone. But Aparna and Radha, classist mentality is just YUCKKK.

Eagerly waited for Imlie's dance today but the black clouds cast an ugly shadow..

@bold: LOL yes, Imlie doesn't appear to be feeling guilty about being with Adi now in front of Didi.....she only seems to feel bad in general if Didi is hurt over something which in this case was this general sa MU.....and the fact that Adi-Imlie were together in the whole maafi abhyaan made them a unit there also so that was a silver lining I guess......as long as phir se koi Didi related contrived MU na karein between them.

Baaki toh Didi bakwaas is enough to ruin any good epi or the few stray Adi-Imlie bits in the epi too.

Re: Aparna....lol oh I didn't expect her to apologize for her act of locking Adi in today.....lol that can't be expected from her at this stage when she is justifying everything to herself as any means necessary to protect her son from going on the wrong path......she is digging in more in her stubbornness so she is justifying anything she does too.....I was mainly bored in this scene cuz of the repetitive dhoka rants and again wohi Malini ko dhoka diya bakwaas......kaan pak gaye hain mere is sabse....was frankly zoning out in most of the epi.

Waise where did Aparna display classist mentality today? Aaj toh she was again fixated on Adi ka dhoka na? Kuch naya toh nahin bola I guess.....or maybe I zoned it out....I swear I'm just tired now😆.....but overall Aparna is just doing her usual level of stubborn refusals to accept Imlie I guess.

The dance was kinda hard to cap but managed to take a few just to have a record of ST's lovely efforts from today :)

Originally posted by: AreYaar

@bold: LOL yes, Imlie doesn't appear to be feeling guilty about being with Adi now in front of Didi.....she only seems to feel bad in general if Didi is hurt over something which in this case was this general sa MU.....and the fact that Adi-Imlie were together in the whole maafi abhyaan made them a unit there also so that was a silver lining I guess......as long as phir se koi Didi related contrived MU na karein between them.

Baaki toh Didi bakwaas is enough to ruin any good epi or the few stray Adi-Imlie bits in the epi too.

Re: Aparna....lol oh I didn't expect her to apologize for her act of locking Adi in today.....lol that can't be expected from her at this stage when she is justifying everything to herself as any means necessary to protect her son from going on the wrong path......she is digging in more in her stubbornness so she is justifying anything she does too.....I was mainly bored in this scene cuz of the repetitive dhoka rants and again wohi Malini ko dhoka diya bakwaas......kaan pak gaye hain mere is sabse....was frankly zoning out in most of the epi.

Waise where did Aparna display classist mentality today? Aaj toh she was again fixated on Adi ka dhoka na? Kuch naya toh nahin bola I guess.....or maybe I zoned it out....I swear I'm just tired now😆.....but overall Aparna is just doing her usual level of stubborn refusals to accept Imlie I guess.

She didn't explicitly say it.. but the only problem she has in accepting Imlie is because she is from a village and she came in as a naukraani, and those are the taunts from the society aunties as well.. Imagine, if Imlie is from a well educated, rich family, would their behavior be the same?

Originally posted by: Josupra

She didn't explicitly say it.. but the only problem she has in accepting Imlie is because she is from a village and she came in as a naukraani, and those are the taunts from the society aunties as well.. Imagine, if Imlie is from a well educated, rich family, would their behavior be the same?

LOL no, that isn't REALLY Aparna's problem😆....cuz if that was the case, she wouldn't be watching Imlie ka dance with teary/emotional eyes either😆.....if she was really classist, she'd hate everything about Imlie and only like Imlie when she can feel superior to her....as is the case with Malini.

Aparna's problem is multi-faceted.....there is her anger about Adi giving dhoka to her, lying to her....then her anger about Adi supposedly giving dhoka to Malini.....but underscoring a lot of this is society waalon ke taunts.....she seems to dread those more than anything and that is why she is lashing out at Imlie and Adi.....she hates that they've put her in this position......but I don't think she subscribes to the same mentality as society waale....she's more in those group of people who otherwise know right from wrong but get swayed by society waalon ke opinions and peer pressure.....that is why she will come around eventually and feel bad about her mistreatment of Imlie......if she was really classist, she would always continue to act superior like Malini still does with Imlie.

Baaki yes, I'm not defending the basic shallow mentality that does exist where people who are educated/rich have more privilege and all the excuses in the world are made for them.....Malini is getting away with everything for that reason too....but story characters ko kya bolein when I read AC also being admired for her clothes no matter how vile she acts.....😆.....toh duniya ki sacchai hai yeh....shallowness rules.

When will the makers not turn every damn thing in some Didi drama?! When???😡

I am just pissed off seeing the episode today with mahaan Didi counting all the favours that she has done for Adi-Imlie.

Also Adi-Imlie groveling for maafi from Mahaan Didi. One good thing about it is that they are together even in this groveling mission. If that can be counted as a good thing😆.

Aparna is still stuck on hume aur Didi ko dhoka diya rant & is justifying all her wrongdoings under that banner. Again her point is that Imlie should just leave them. They will not accept her. Now she is planning to participate with Imlie to sabotage her. We know that Imlie wins. So let's see how that happens.

Adi-Imlie bits that we got were nice with Adi apologising & Imlie calmly telling him that the competition doesn't matter, only his saath does.

Now Didi is in mood of making them grovel & guilt trip them. Let's see will she turn negative or will be still stuck in her fake mahaan zone.

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

I think that will be the NDE AY - divorce is already dragging. With the Ts not accepting Imilie right now, am NDE makes sense to give them a jolt. Now we don’t know whose NDE it will be imlie or Adi?

Actually if What MB said comes true, even didi will feel guilty of dragging this issue from today 🤣🤣

Everyone feeling guilty for each other 🤣🤣

LOL no, she won't feel guilty about anything until Adi grovels before her....phir flip maaregi to act mahaan😆

Didi ko khud guilty feel karna nahin aata for anything.....bas dusro ko guilt mein trap karna aata hai😆

Originally posted by: sandyjayaram

Ok glad I was not the only one disappointed from today except for Sumbuls performance. Can Imlie just enjoy one success of hers with the complete spotlight on her please? Why does didi and her guilt trips have to ruin everything??

Best part was of course Sumbul’s dance - she did amazing and looked graceful. Apu was actually proud of her - at least that is what I caught in her expressions.
Everything else was nonsense. Not happy with Adi’s dialogues at the end too - especially the one where he said he feels Malini does not want to have any kind of relationship with him.. I mean what the heck was that?

So is this all to delay divorce process? I think what MB said will happen- Adi will be busy pacifying didi while the bunty Bhaiya gang will get into T house.
Can we just have didi far away from the NDE drama please??

If they concentrate on Imlie's success for one episode, makers ko dar hai ki nazar lag jayegi uske show ki.. that is why they have to prop up didi to cast off the evil eye --- this is the only justification I can give them. Otherwise, who would want to just spoil their show with their own hands

I won't bother about Adi's dialogues or feelings about Malini. He just says some nonsense when it comes to her. Remember this is the guy, just a day before, didn't even return her call for a whole day even after she called him multiple times.. Adi remembers her only when she guilt trips him, I think that is how she caught his attention all those 7 years. Adi's guilt and didi's bechargi is the only constant in their relationship and Adi thinks that is friendship