Ghar ke galat soch se ladaayi - Page 18

Originally posted by: Midnight_moon

Already itv & movies influenced our society a lot. Glimpses of that is evident everywhere. But still we all are in denying that .

Based on this show negative side of T’s will not have much influence… only thing is ML fighting against the system.

Already adhithya have once said he was disappointed against the system & all. (Diya episode) . So now he has got a opportunity to go against the system. For that he doesn’t expected even though he has to start fight from his own home.

T’ s hypocrisy is shown from initial episodes between differences in treatment among son & daughter of house. Rupi voiced against it . They always concerned about saving face that’s why they invited Rupi’s in law to Adhithya’s marriage. Whatever Anu says they will not defend. Even after Malini come they placed above all & even Nidhi .

Earlier T’s action is not throughly analysed since there is lot of other plots . But now we get chance to analyse them.

Viewers must go through positive point only. Makers have limitations in this regarding… since over all story is very sensitive…. If any element goes beyond drama they will surely face consequences. So they have to keenly balance.

Don’t forget recently an very sensitive international issue is discussed in one Tamil movie wrapped under Pakka mass action movie , even though it correctly hitted the target.

Soap opera has not much range as a movie even though it opens wide platform for discussion.

I am not familiar with any other shows apart from this . But stil I feel this story very high potential to explore many dark thoughts of society.

Thanks MM and Aps for putting forward your thoughts. I really love being part of healthy discussions like these 😊

Bold1: You mean Jagame Thandiram?

Bold2: Exactly! These forums should be used for such healthy discussions! Its knowledge exchange happening here..and that is good. 😁✌🏼

I am happy we have a lead who is ready to fight against the system. And as Aps said, the jr Ts joining them is refreshing too. Having said that, certain times I have felt that makers were trying to put in certain elements that will make it look like they are diluting the discrimination shown by the Ts, that could mislead people to think that it is okay to have such a mindset. Thats why I was concerned. Because these social elements are still perceived as normal in our culture, so I feel they should not be portraying them in such a fashion. They need to be clear what their stand is. May be I am thinking too much, but it disturbs me the dangerous way the track is going.

Also that if we have a redemption track, then really how, HOW are the makers gonna correct the Tripathi's because clearly they have completely marred those characters. I know Aps, that we need to have the patience and the ability to forgive if people correct themselves. But these mentality, and the way they have shown abusing Imlie etc.. does't deserve forgiveness. So if a redemption happens, would that not be sending a wrong message? 😅

Also, even when we can see that Imlie is as empowered as Adi and is enough to defend for herself, we can see only Adi straight up communicating to the Ts. Imlie is just hoing in loops asking them to accept her, silently listening to every taunt they throw at her. They are clearly doing that to impress the Indian audience, because a typical "bahu" should not retort even if baseless accusations are thrown at her. Which is again wrong!

I donno if I made sense..but yea, please let me know your thoughts! 😅😅✌🏼

Originally posted by: Midnight_moon

Already itv & movies influenced our society a lot. Glimpses of that is evident everywhere. But still we all are in denying that .

Based on this show negative side of T’s will not have much influence… only thing is ML fighting against the system.

Already adhithya have once said he was disappointed against the system & all. (Diya episode) . So now he has got a opportunity to go against the system. For that he doesn’t expected even though he has to start fight from his own home.

T’ s hypocrisy is shown from initial episodes between differences in treatment among son & daughter of house. Rupi voiced against it . They always concerned about saving face that’s why they invited Rupi’s in law to Adhithya’s marriage. Whatever Anu says they will not defend. Even after Malini come they placed above all & even Nidhi .

Earlier T’s action is not throughly analysed since there is lot of other plots . But now we get chance to analyse them.

Viewers must go through positive point only. Makers have limitations in this regarding… since over all story is very sensitive…. If any element goes beyond drama they will surely face consequences. So they have to keenly balance.

Don’t forget recently an very sensitive international issue is discussed in one Tamil movie wrapped under Pakka mass action movie , even though it correctly hitted the target.

Soap opera has not much range as a movie even though it opens wide platform for discussion.

I am not familiar with any other shows apart from this . But stil I feel this story very high potential to explore many dark thoughts of society.

Agree to everything you said Midnight. Infact I just wrote something similar to LL's post.

Do let me know which Tamil movie you were talking about, would love to catch it.

Originally posted by: _Seera_

i cant agree more to it.. a lot of us want her to take it to streets for lack of better words.. but it takes enormous amount of strength to stay silent.. even if Ts are leaving their own sanskaar.. Imlie is not.. and that shows strength of her character..

people wont admire it right way but the patience and respect goes long way..

@Bold: Agreed...sometimes silence is the most eloquent reply. Just goes to show how much respect and resilience the girl has.

specially right now, silence is golden.. when no one is actually in the right frame of mind to even listen. They will hear but not listen to understand. Having said that, limit! Only so much of silence. Somewhere for everyone that limit reaches. I am hoping to see that. Imlie in her own way, respectfully needs to speak...not to answer questions or taunts, but to speak her mind and heart. I want to see that! Abhi aisa melodrama diya hai toh I want a dramatic, seeti maar drama from the other side too 😊

Originally posted by: Whatever765

S se sacrificing, S se self respect, S se samjhdar...S se sulji hui ka S se SURE SURE hi milega hum se..!

No amount of reasons (unless it is as extreme as death) were justifiable for Malini to come back to T house. Her character is messed up..so badly. S se sorry bhi nahi feel hota ab toh!

S se sooooo True.🤣

Originally posted by: MERARAI

One thing Imli does right every time senior Ts taunt her…..stay silent. After a while Ts are going to realize they have nothing to counter, Imli doesn’t give them added ammunition to dig in deeper. Maybe they will realize their folly.

Even if they realize their folly at some point the damage is done in terms of the impact of the ugliness. Even if imlie forgives them adi may not. Viewers certainly will not forgive them😆.

Originally posted by: anikal

She should turn negative Atleaset kuch tho interesting milega🤣

Uske range aur intelligence ke saath woh bhi interesting nahi hoga.🤣

Originally posted by: Whatever765

Lovely write up Abhita..

I am pretty much so disappointed with the episode and the way they be handling it, in the most blaring cliched way ever! Oh well..

@Bold: So while sometime back I was hoping all this happened after the divorce....I am loving it now that this happening before the divorce. The truth is coming out in it's raw form. First marriage, First wife. Period.

It is an uphill task to be so brutally honest- just goes to show the tenacity of these two! Like Adi said a few episodes back- yeh ladai toh Atal hai!

I am glad this is happening before the divorce, so that there is no doubt in people's minds that Adi chose to be with Imlie and she is not a consolation prize.

Yeh ladai Atal hai, aur isse Adilie hi jeetenge.

Originally posted by: Apsvenky

Agree to everything you said Midnight. Infact I just wrote something similar to LL's post.

Do let me know which Tamil movie you were talking about, would love to catch it.

Jagamethandhiram ( Dhanush movie.. srilankan Tamil issue)

Originally posted by: FlowerHater

Arey nahi was just thinking😆

Reason you have read🤣

Hum inhe kahi jaane hi nahi denge.😆

Originally posted by: anikal

.thanks for info will listen that..

But pheel tho adilie ka vo scene dekh ke hi atha hai

Yup. Even the song - Dhoop ke from Thappad that was played in that mockshoot has made me forever associate that song with Adilie only now. Wahin se woh pheels aati hai.