How to get over my ex ?

Well seeing recent episodes and Fateh's condition . I thought of making this topic.

Fateh is following a plan which he and Tejo have agreed upon to get over Chameli.

When I wrote the aforesaid search term I came through some ideas . Fateh is already following many ; like

1. Get off social media for a bit. Resist the urge to stalk your ex into oblivion ; we can see and feel his resistance
2. Get rid of ex reminders; he blocked her
3. Resist the temptation to stage run-ins; he is doing that we saw it !
4. Visualize your future (without them); he is planning that with Tejo
5. Don't contact them; he is abiding his best
6. Get support from friends ; he is taking it from Tejo
7. Plan a vacation ; that should be next
8. Move or redecorate; not possible in ITV drama !
9. Start dating again ; that's best in ITV in form of Marraige
   
10. Get professional support ; kinda tabu in ITV
    
11. Do things for yourself; umm that is more possibility; go boxing ,was it a good idea !
    

Last line that really is the best is :

"Most people get married multiple times, experience multiple relationships and fall in love over and over again. The world hasn't ended because your relationship did."⭐️

Any more things to add . Any one with first or second hand experience?

Of all the issues Fateh has I don't think 'not getting over chameli' is one. It's way too soon, and he's not even doing enough of it himself.He's completely dependent on Tejo for it. The issue I've with Tejo is, her relationship with Jasso. She needs to cut her off for a while at least, both for her sake and Fateh's sake.

One of the most important things to do is,cry your heart out. Fateh has done that once. It's not enough. I took care of two heartbroken friends once, and people who think heartbreak pain is shown exaggerated, don't know what it is. For 10-15 days all my friend did was cry, lie in bed, drink coffee and booze.

Another one had thought of suicide by a painless cocktail of meds after his divorce(he's a doctor, and has enough of everything in his life).

And avoid Chameli. that's where she is being a *****. But then that's who she is. That's her personality.

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

Of all the issues Fateh has I don't think 'not getting over chameli' is one. It's way too soon, and he's not even doing enough of it himself.He's completely dependent on Tejo for it. The issue I've with Tejo is, her relationship with Jasso. She needs to cut her off for a while at least, both for her sake and Fateh's sake.

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That's Fateh's biggest issue - he has moved from one obsession (Chameli) to complete dependence on Tejo which is so unhealthy. I'd love for the show to highlight the toxicity of Fatejo's co-dependency but I know I'm expecting way too much from itv!

PS - How do you tag people on here please?

Definitely don't stalk them on social media and post pictures on how you moved on 😆

Get drunk, cry on your best friend's shoulders for at least a week is one of the basic steps.

Originally posted by: music_girl

Definitely don't stalk them on social media and post pictures on how you moved on 😆

Definitely don't repeat 'I miss you' to your best friend and poke them to say it back.

Originally posted by: mistofshadows

Definitely don't repeat 'I miss you' to your best friend and poke them to say it back.

Specially if that friend is of opposite gender or married you 😆

Originally posted by: music_girl

Definitely don't stalk them on social media and post pictures on how you moved on 😆

Quite a nice post @ShanUlas... nice points listed above.

And thanks for tagging me dear...

Agreed to your point. SM par stalk karne apne move on karne ka proof to definitely nahi diya jaata 😆

Originally posted by: mistofshadows

Definitely don't repeat 'I miss you' to your best friend and poke them to say it back.

Point!! Especially the poking the other one part... Ab saamne waala miss nahi kar raha/rahi ya nahi kehna chahta/chahti to kaahe zabardasti bulwana?? 😆

And khud bhi baar baar kaahe repeat karna?

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

Specially if that friend is of opposite gender or married you 😆

Especially when they are married to you!!!