Originally posted by: Whatever765
Nim, well said.
@Bold: Married with two kids myself. I think in initial phase of a marriage, family interference always remains..but from what I have experienced, when you and the family gets the confidence..it starts to dwindle. I have never lived in a joint family and have been a very independent person myself. When you establish some boundaries and respect others boundaries too, I think it just becomes very mutual. Is it easy to do, no. Arguments,, conflicts and friction always prop up in any kind of relation dynamics. It is with age and education you learn to use the right words.
Having said that I think that any inherently good at heart person, will not be as vile as T's are being right now. And again I think that is where it is difficult for me to comprehend. Makers and script writers ki galti hai yeh toh. They are nice, they are shown to be nice and now the language they are speaking is nothing less of trash. They are an upper middle class family who probably have seen struggles themselves so their actions and the lingo they are using is what an inexperienced, nasty and un-polished person would speak. Has age and life not taught them anything? Is the first time they have seen a crisis? Oh well, jaane do yaar...T's ne itna hungama macha rakha hai ki haye tauba ho rakhi hai...😆 There are some other lovely things that the past episodes have reflected on- how the younger generation is more open minded and compassionate, Sundar's uncomplicated yet cherishable friendship with Imlie...and more so AKT being the voice of morality!
I am just seeing this as the representation of what probably still exists in some societies in India, a way to spice up the drama albeit in a very loud and sour way and get TRP, maybe! As for how this reflects on the next progression for Imlie- well sometimes you have get knocked down lower than you have ever been to stand up taller than you ever were...and that is probably what they are doing right now. Imlie will rise, has to rise!
@Bold2: Oh I will rejoice if that happens..but the director and the makers are now confused..p se progression dikhaya jaaye ya fir R se regression kyunki T se trp chahiye aur D se drama, Baki toh T's ko GMO ingredients bana rakha hai...toh organic ki toh lagi padhi hai! P se platonic ka toh bol bala hai hi! 😆
Sorry for not tagging other's who would like to be involved or were involved in this discussion..just catching up and saw Nim's tag for me...thanks Nim for the discussion 🤗
Update: IF being a dhokebaz to my tagging...aint working for me! sorry!